If You Propose And She Say's NO, Is The Relationship Over?
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AyBrehHam Linkin
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If she really fukking with you, she'll let u kno early.
My girl said a year ago when I propose it's an instant yes, and gave plenty hints before that . we've been together 3 n a half years
My girl said a year ago when I propose it's an instant yes, and gave plenty hints before that . we've been together 3 n a half years
BaltimoreTwilightMarauder
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You should propose to someone unless you already know they want to get married to you.
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You know life don’t always work like this
People cohabitate all the time and shyt goes left
Even if both parties intentions were to get married and have a family
People get cold feet and question shyt all the time or have a momentary lapse in judgement, or question compatibility due to fear of not only their potential spouse but in themselves
Also too scared to say something due to societal constraints
Ie families expecting them to by now
Friends influence
Desperation/loneliness
I noticed a lot of posters look at life in very black and white terms
Never think of the caveats or understanding shyt happens
shyt people get cold feet at the alter
If a woman is saying no
Both parties need to re-evaluate the relationship or even try couples counseling before just going separate ways
Sometimes things can be worked out with communication and observance by someone who doesn’t have anything invested in the couple
Life has too many variables and is not linear
If you giving up this easy
You damn sure need not to get married
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bourgeoisie tall freak
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but when a guy says "no, not yet" to that, yet they still want the relationship to continue.
it's the dichotomies for me
richaveli83
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Yep
Yes
It depends on the reasoning behind the no.
Don’t ask your girlfriend to marry you if you don’t already know what the answer is going to be. If you're unsure, then don't propose. Instead, have a conversation with your girlfriend about marriage.
The “surprise factor” in proposals is way overrated.
Don’t ask your girlfriend to marry you if you don’t already know what the answer is going to be. If you're unsure, then don't propose. Instead, have a conversation with your girlfriend about marriage.
The “surprise factor” in proposals is way overrated.
Theodoresolderbreh
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Imagine dropping that kind of cash and not knowing ahead of time it's not an automatic yes. Completely insane
ROBEEZYKILLA
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Totally differentbut when a guy says "no, not yet" to that, yet they still want the relationship to continue.
it's the dichotomies for me
bourgeoisie tall freak
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ROBEEZYKILLA
the coli soulja
well first It's never a "not yet" it's more of a "let me stack my paper first and I got you babyenlighten me
" so not really a rejection...a women saying no to a marriage proposal is the biggest rejection anyone could receive from the opposite sex and depending on your level of love for this woman it can be quite hurtful/heartbreaking
Yup. If you're not sure your woman will say yes, best get rid before you embarrass yourself.