If you really think about it: Aren't women completely to blame if their single?

Wild self

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Movies/Television play a huge part. Now, that I'm older, I can't watch most of the TV shows I would've watched as a teenager without :whoa: at the sheer amount of bullshyt in every storyline. I'm a broke azz college student and my tolerance level is at like 0 Kelvin. But on everyone of these shows, there's some 6"5, Ivy league billionaire playboy running around frantically trying to make some spoiled chick happy. Doing shyt that I wouldn't even do :rudy:



SATC got all average ass chicks thinking there's some Wall Street tyc00n waiting around thats gonna leave her :heh:

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for her...

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And they be like.....:youngsabo: :smugfavre:

shyt's brainwashing and a plan to keep men in the simp mind state so their money can go to places for profit. Just curious, at what age did you wake up fromya simp mind state?
 

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I also want to throw .2 more cents in here. Women want something that doesn't exist. They want a dude that's:
-over 6 feet tall
-Is young(20's to 30s)
-has gawd status fukking skills
-makes over $100,000 a year after taxes
-Is built like an olympic athelete
-looks like he should be walkin down a Calvin Klein fashion show runway

yet SOMEHOW
-He doesn't cheat
-Doesn't talk shyt to her and cuss her out when she's pissing him off
-Won't dump her ass when she starts getting old and looking :flabbynsick:
-Is not gay
-Doesn't demand that she do freaky shyt in bed.

It's like they think that men are stupid, like if we have the power to fukk ANY bytch we want and however the hell we want to we'll only want one, and we'll only want to fukk on her terms :russ:

They hold out, waiting for this mythical man to come along riding on a unicorn that's made of silk and pisses grey goose vodka and shyts diamonds and when he doesn't show up they get all mad talmbout "men aint shyt"

They'll fukk with the dude that's paid and looks good to them, but then get mad when he realizes that he's got value and can and WILL fukk whoever he wants and tell her to start steppin when he's tired of her bullshyt.

They think they can make this guy's heart change so he has the money, looks, and skill of a true boss but the heart of a simp. Then of course when they're all old and that p*ssy been dug out and they been thrown to the side at least 200 different times, the simp will be there to take care of the babies from 4 different dudes she tried to lock down but who bounced soon as they figured out what kind of game she was tryin to run on em. Women out there know that a simp aint hard to find so they'll fukk around tryin to find this magical dude that doesn't exist with impunity cause they know that there'll be a sucker waiting in the wings talkinbout "gurl I don't care if you been with 3000 nikkas, I don't care that you're 45 but look 56, I don't care that your credit is fukked up or that you can't cook, clean, or have any sort of useful talent. I love you gurl" :laugh:

Women want a nikka powerful enough to fly into the fukkin sun (wealth/status/looks) but dumb enough to be handcuffed (controlled by her) :dwillhuh:

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Yo....on a sidenote, I'm still :dwillhuh: at this picture, Supes can destroy planets but, he letting some fakkit ass humans detain him :why:
 

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it all boils down to being picky no matter the gender. Speaking from a male point of view in my twenties I always chased after the attractive female, damn their personality. Now i'm 30, single, no kids. I'm now paying for being superficial. There are women who are single with two, three, even four kids before there 30 because they got knocked up by somebody they were attracted but was wrong from them. Its just the way the game goes.

But lets keep it 100 doe, as a man, you're wired to just fukk as many women as you can. Its about quantity more so than quality, but your ideal is to have a large quantity of quality females. Women want Quality men more than a quantity of men because there's a risk of pregnancy so they want to fukk only the highest quality of guy.

The problem is they don't understand that the man they want doesn't exist and never can. They're asking a LOT out of the men they fukk with and then they get mad when we can't deliver 100%.

I don't know about ya'll but for me this is what I look for in a woman:

-Can she cook/clean and if not, does she have a career so she's not just sitting around the house on her ass doin nothin but watching real housewives of ____?

-Does she not try to start drama because she low key thinks her life needs to be like a soap opera?

-Is she down to fukk, and when we do fukk, is she at least willing to try some new shyt?

-Can I hold a conversation with her? like is she actually educated or TRYING to be educated?

-Does she at least try to keep herself at a healthy weight so she isn't on some anorexic bullshyt or looking like Gabourey Sidibe?

That's all I ask. Am I asking too much brehs? does that seem too unrealistic?:yeshrug:
 

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shyt's brainwashing and a plan to keep men in the simp mind state so their money can go to places for profit. Just curious, at what age did you wake up fromya simp mind state?

shyt like Boy Meets World had me naive as fukk, thinkin thats what life was like, what women were like. Around 21, I started getting :what: At 24, I feel betrayed from all the lies we got told as kids :why: Difference was, i got chicks, i'm not socially awkward or ugly, i just got played like a muthafukka a few times and I could've saved myself from alot of it.
 

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But lets keep it 100 doe, as a man, you're wired to just fukk as many women as you can. Its about quantity more so than quality, but your ideal is to have a large quantity of quality females. Women want Quality men more than a quantity of men because there's a risk of pregnancy so they want to fukk only the highest quality of guy.

The problem is they don't understand that the man they want doesn't exist and never can. They're asking a LOT out of the men they fukk with and then they get mad when we can't deliver 100%.

I don't know about ya'll but for me this is what I look for in a woman:

-Can she cook/clean and if not, does she have a career so she's not just sitting around the house on her ass doin nothin but watching real housewives of ____?

-Does she not try to start drama because she low key thinks her life needs to be like a soap opera?

-Is she down to fukk, and when we do fukk, is she at least willing to try some new shyt?

-Can I hold a conversation with her? like is she actually educated or TRYING to be educated?

-Does she at least try to keep herself at a healthy weight so she isn't on some anorexic bullshyt or looking like Gabourey Sidibe?


That's all I ask. Am I asking too much brehs? does that seem too unrealistic?:yeshrug:

Nah b....thats pretty much what every man wants. We aint hard to please :manny:

and most nikkas take what they can get for looks. we all want a KD Aubert but, alot of men would be content with Tracy Ellis Ross if she fulfilled all those qualities you named.
 

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Just a thought.

Aren't women to blame for being single, even if the choose to do so(standards). Doesn't mater what the reason is there is plenty of eligible people out there and you're not with them:manny:
 

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With so many simp dudes out there that CANT get p*ssy..and so many decent looking females who are still single, how does that still keep happening?


it aint like theres all these baller nikkas that just dont wanna be tied down, because MOST dudes arent getting p*ssy...thats a fact.

So isnt it entirely a womans fault if she is decent, but cant get a man to save her life? Could she be rejecting the dudes that ARE available, but she just too immature to build a stable relationship?

what are yall thoughts on this?

this aint a bash woman thread...
many women don't employ strategy when dating in their youth. they date off pure emotions so they don't logically look at a man and measure him up they go by how he makes them feel.

when women get older they adopt the sort of attitude you think they should have. they start looking for men that have the capacity to be long term partners and emotional stimulation isn't as important.

this is why "nice guys finish last." women pick up these negros on the back end of life.
 

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many women don't employ strategy when dating in their youth. they date off pure emotions so they don't logically look at a man and measure him up they go by how he makes them feel.

when women get older they adopt the sort of attitude you think they should have. they start looking for men that have the capacity to be long term partners and emotional stimulation isn't as important.

this is why "nice guys finish last." women pick up these negros on the back end of life.

Blame the lack of fathers and society being too easy on them. Women overseas that were raised in 2-parent households are more humble, feminine, and strangely logical. Don't think that women are all irrational, unstable creatures. Its the society that they were raised in that does that to them.
 

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So I just asked the female receptionist here in my company who I'm friends with,

"what are your standards for a man"
- he man be at least 6 ft tall
-he must have a nice car
-he must make 6 figures or close to it
-he must be able to cook and buy me nice stuff
-he must have his own place
-he must not have a kid and must have a good relationship with his mom.


Which means if a 4ft guy tries to talk to her and he makes a mil a year (without disclosing it to her), he is automatically disqualified?

This woman will be single for a long time till she comes back down to reality.
Most women who are single should be pointing the finger at themselves
UNREALISTIC STANDARDS and EXPECTATIONS...GET THE FUKK OUTTA HERE
 

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So I just asked the female receptionist here in my company who I'm friends with,

"what are your standards for a man"
- he man be at least 6 ft tall
-he must have a nice car
-he must make 6 figures or close to it
-he must be able to cook and buy me nice stuff
-he must have his own place
-he must not have a kid and must have a good relationship with his mom.


Which means if a 4ft guy tries to talk to her and he makes a mil a year (without disclosing it to her), he is automatically disqualified?

This woman will be single for a long time till she comes back down to reality.
Most women who are single should be pointing the finger at themselves
UNREALISTIC STANDARDS and EXPECTATIONS...GET THE FUKK OUTTA HERE

I mean it makes sense, marriage is for life (it should be :ufdup:) so people want the perfect person if they have to spend the rest of their lives together. men and women. problem is, nobody's perfect...so its really is a fallacy. As bad as Halle Berry is, she probably got crusty panties all over her closet :scusthov:
 

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So I just asked the female receptionist here in my company who I'm friends with,

"what are your standards for a man"
- he man be at least 6 ft tall
-he must have a nice car
-he must make 6 figures or close to it
-he must be able to cook and buy me nice stuff
-he must have his own place
-he must not have a kid and must have a good relationship with his mom.


Which means if a 4ft guy tries to talk to her and he makes a mil a year (without disclosing it to her), he is automatically disqualified?

This woman will be single for a long time till she comes back down to reality.
Most women who are single should be pointing the finger at themselves
UNREALISTIC STANDARDS and EXPECTATIONS...GET THE FUKK OUTTA HERE

so she's a RECEPTIONIST and it is required that her man makes 6 figures (or close to it :comeon: )? fukk OUTTA HERE :russ:

funny you did this, because I asked a chick at work yesterday the same question. She is 34, a Nurse Manager/Systems Analyst (over 100k a year EASILY), single, no kids, never been married, is very intelligent and a pleasure to talk to, is SEXY AS HELL :noah:, has a sense of style, and is very pretty. you know what her requirements are?

  • is single (not married or in a relationship)
  • has a job (not a specific job with a dollar amount. she just wants dude to be employed and get ANY check)
  • like music and concerts
  • like sports

THAT'S IT, brehs!!! :krs: she said that it's hard out here for her, for some reason. everytime i see her, i'm like :wow:.....i can't believe nobody has scooped her up yet :smh:







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thank god im out of the dating game .im just going to enjoy being single


work+save money+gym+travel>>>chasing puzzy
 

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shyt like Boy Meets World had me naive as fukk, thinkin thats what life was like, what women were like. Around 21, I started getting :what: At 24, I feel betrayed from all the lies we got told as kids :why: Difference was, i got chicks, i'm not socially awkward or ugly, i just got played like a muthafukka a few times and I could've saved myself from alot of it.

I woke up around the same time, too. Noone schooled me on how to approach women correctly and nikkas were :pachaha: since I couldn't meet chicks outside of mutual friends. Like I said in the thread on dropping gems on girls, nikkas benefitted when I had a few women with me while they had dozens. Now since I woken up from my simp phase these last 3 years or so, cats are :angry: cause I ain't falling for bullshyt or tolerating it anymore.

Kinda like you, chicks loved my eyes n me being taller than average, but I couldn't get "it" that separated me from the simps. Now, I attack and joke on these chicks on some retribution shyt.
 

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American women are spoiled brats that have too much power and freedom with no responbilty.
 
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