If you see a dime, do you HONESTLY think you could pick her up?

[Da King]

Most of the time no. Every now and then one might entertain me though breh. Think that's the reasonable answer for most people.

Edit: read it wrong

 

[King Poetic]

Nope

 

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I'm gonna have to be honest and say no. Besides, I don't care about getting a "dime" like most dudes are.

I'm actually more realistic in what women I'd have a chance with.

Most of these dude just like chasing there tails.

 

[DrX]

dimes got options....its to the point now, they can be choosy with rich dudes....this society gave women too much power

 

[Westcoastnative]

Most of these dude just like chasing there tails.

And there's just too much competition compared to the average looking women. If you're trying to chase model looking women there's a good chance you're going to be competing against good looking, educated, upper class men.

Yeah, no thanks.

 

[Kid McNamara]

If the answer to this question is no, you simply are not playing to win in life.

I'm guilty of it, not anymore.

 

[Larry Lambo]

You don't know much about dimes, they're approached less then 5-9 women, most dudes are intimated by their looks and just stare.

That would matter if they were completely reliant on random men approaching them to support their dating life. But more than likely they have their current social circle, co-workers, classmates, etc. that interact with them repeatedly and somewhat mitigates the fear factor.

And then you have ex-boyfriends, guys they grew up with, high school buddies, that are still in the picture and blowing her up on facebook, twitter, or IG.

Really, most 10/10 have tons of options even if she never gets approached by a stranger.

 

[Turk]

Nope im broke and ugly

 

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That would matter if they were completely reliant on random men approaching them to support their dating life. But more than likely they have their current social circle, co-workers, classmates, etc. that interact with them repeatedly and somewhat mitigates the fear factor.

And then you have ex-boyfriends, guys they grew up with, high school buddies, that are still in the picture and blowing her up on facebook, twitter, or IG.

Really, most 10/10 have tons of options even if she never gets approached by a stranger.

This exactly,

 

[Shameonyou]

my demeanor is very aloof....dimes dont intimidate me because if she is someone that cant make me interested in her convo, she will feel insecure real quick just by my facial expression.....women at the end of the day are just people no matter how good they look....if you wack you wack...

 

[Da King]

That would matter if they were completely reliant on random men approaching them to support their dating life. But more than likely they have their current social circle, co-workers, classmates, etc. that interact with them repeatedly and somewhat mitigates the fear factor.

And then you have ex-boyfriends, guys they grew up with, high school buddies, that are still in the picture and blowing her up on facebook, twitter, or IG.

Really, most 10/10 have tons of options even if she never gets approached by a stranger.

everything you described also describes all women in the 1-9 range

but you say "even if she never gets approached by a stranger", that's the entire point of this thread

 

[010101]

superman could rundown on a bytch and if he doesn't fit her mental space he's getting shutdown

all you can do is watch for the openings

ain't no nikka on earth that can pull 100%

get in where you fit in

*

 

[Larry Lambo]

Lemme put you struggle boos on game. Dimes don't really care how you look....it's not about looks it's about wackness. Dimes feel above CORNBALLS not ugly nikkas or semi out if shape dudes.

Some truth to that. I don't think many "dimes" would have a problem with dating an average or above average but not "studly" looking guy if he came at her in a confident and non-corny manner. But here's the rub, the more attractive the woman, the fiercer the competition is. So regardless if she would deal with you if she had no other options, she has other options. And the guy may not be better looking than you, but he might be in a better situation to pull her. He might have known her longer and built more trust. He might have more status or social proof. And while your swag/style might be on 10, his might be on 11.

The reality is pulling a "dime" is mainly luck and being in the right place at the right time. It's possible if you decent social skills, but you could have a ton of game and personality and never pull it off. Ain't that many "dimes" around anyway, so it's not like you are going to get a good sample size.

 

[Larry Lambo]

everything you described also describes all women in the 1-9 range

but you say "even if she never gets approached by a stranger", that's the entire point of this thread

But you are saying they don't get approached. I'm saying they don't need to be approached. They're eating, regardless.

Yes, 1-9's have options as well, but the higher the woman is on the scale the better her options are, and the stiffer your comp is.

 

[Da King]

But you are saying they don't get approached. I'm saying they don't need to be approached. They're eating, regardless.

Yes, 1-9's have options as well, but the higher the woman is on the scale the better her options are, and the stiffer your comp is.

I never said they didn't get approached, I said they get approached less then girls in the 5-9 range

Yes they have options, every girl does, all girls can eat regardless

More options yes, but not they're not untouchable like you make them seem