There are a lot of these stories in the DMV. A bunch of 28+ women who are at least decent with good careers who can't find a man. They don't even realize they are the reason they aren't married.
If you shacked up with a bytch and the kids ain't yours you a fukkin' loser...
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There are a lot of these stories in the DMV. A bunch of 28+ women who are at least decent with good careers who can't find a man. They don't even realize they are the reason they aren't married.
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Ready made families were always viewed as a sucker move to me, for the simple fact that the baby daddy can ALWAYS smash...Don't believe these chicks that claim that they hate him, and he aint sh1t etc...Naw... Once he nuts in her egg and she carries his seed for 9 months that bond is already stronger than anything you could have with her, by taking her to PF Changs and paying a cable bill.. Thats why a lot of dudes try to get these single moms pregnant so they can be on equal footing with the baby daddy..
It's all a cluster fukk that can be easily avoided by just finding someone without the baggage..
I wouldn't call you a "loser".. But you are someone thats bound to take a loss...
It's all a cluster fukk that can be easily avoided by just finding someone without the baggage..
I wouldn't call you a "loser".. But you are someone thats bound to take a loss...
Cool, don't buy it. But if I'm currently single and have never been married what other story am I supposed to tell?
Why are you single though? And don't respond with "I can't find a man who will treat me right". What is the root issue?
Mr Hate Coffee
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Jone2three45
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This.
I seen some women that had broken up and moved away from the baby father, but still readily available herself to any request that he wishes of retuning to her internal guts.
Real talk brehs a chick with a kid might as well be a broom or some shyt, I'm not seeing her as any type of actual living entityMatter of fact I'm not even dating a woman who has a sister who is single and has kids because that just shows me that the family/parents aint got their minds right
it's a cold world brehs
the motherfukking coli...jeebus
Poetical Poltergeist
Precise and cold hearted
I almost shacked up with a chick with 2 kids. She was dope ass chick, cute and honest and hard working. I just couldn't go through with it. I couldn't be their dad while they were still close to their own dad like that. Just like now if I break up with my lady theres no way in hell I want another dude being a stand in dad. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night my kids being partially raised by another man. Its for life with this chick no matter how much she pisses me off. Have kids brehs....
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
Dude that is such BULshyt. Them hos you referring to are hos any dam way. They'd make themselves available to me and you too if the time was right. Probably ain got a mfin thing to do with "the special bond" wit the nikka that knocked her up.
Ill say this again. You mfers need to get your insecurity issues in check. Always worried about another dude.
Try to cut down on the amount of fantasies your having of someone beastfukking your girl. Y'all the type of nikkaz that'll wind up hiding on the roof trying to catch her cheating and shyt
My thing is messing with a single mom with a young kid and one day the kid is acting bad and u tell him/her to sit down and they hit u with " your not my daddy " and other shyt and it have u thinking like 
what the fukk i'm doing here or even worst the mother let the kid run wild rather they 5 or 14.
and nothing thing if u are a man who decides u want your own child and the woman u with says she doesn't want anymore kids it's like damn.. ok i'm a responsible 9 to 5, 3 to 11 type brother but i'm not worthy to have a kid unlike tyrone who gave u 2 and left u hanging
what the fukk i'm doing here or even worst the mother let the kid run wild rather they 5 or 14.and nothing thing if u are a man who decides u want your own child and the woman u with says she doesn't want anymore kids it's like damn.. ok i'm a responsible 9 to 5, 3 to 11 type brother but i'm not worthy to have a kid unlike tyrone who gave u 2 and left u hanging
Not one person in this thread mentioned black women.
So why did you bring up black women in a thread about single moms? Is there something you'd like to tell us breh?
Well my number 1 preference is to date a male with no kids. I can not and will not deal with that AT ALL.That has been my biggest issue and hurdle. Finding a male with no kids is like finding a four leaf clover.
Also, I will acknowledge that I don't go out to places such as clubs and bars where you're likely to meet other singles. I will go to celebrate birthdays with my friends but other than that, that life isn't my cup of tea.
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
My thing is messing with a single mom with a young kid and one day the kid is acting bad and u tell him/her to sit down and they hit u with " your not my daddy " and other shyt and it have u thinking like
and nothing thing if u are a man who decides u want your own child and the woman u with says she doesn't want anymore kids it's like damn.. ok i'm a responsible 9 to 5, 3 to 11 type brother but i'm not worthy to have a kid unlike tyrone who gave u 2 and left u hanging
I understand where u comin from and you make some good points. If you know you gon eventually want kids but with a chik who don't want anymore then you just gotta decide what's more important to you at the time.
As far a dealing with a bytch's bad ass disrespectful kid. Look..startin out you just there to fukk. Not discipline, be a role model, all that shyt. Now as time progresses and y'all get serious, if the kids hav a relationship with their father (visitation, child support) that's still his job not yours. Now if the little fukkers are living at YOUR CRIB it's a different story. And you can establish that with their father that at your spot you gon pass out a few "sit the fukk down"s and if he don't like it he can gladly come get the lil b*stards.
If the kid hits you wit "you ain my daddy" ..hit him wit "duhhh" and keep it movin. A real man don't let a child hurt his feelings so I don't get why these idiots keep throwin that out like its gon make you
