The point of getting in a relationship is that you two are going to be exclusive and monogamous to each other, unless you explicitly state that your relationship is 'open'. Why get into something when you're not even going to fulfill it's intended purpose?
if you sleep with a married woman you are scum
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So you'd cool with other men banging out your wife right? You ain't gonna trip about raising another man's kids.
The Nigerian
The Realest Member of TheColi
Sex and kids are two different things.
And no I'm not "cool" with other dudes banging my chick but it's not like she was a virgin when I met her. If she goes on a trip and gets down on some dude in another city, state, country, etc what can I do to stop that? If I don't know about it and she's not burning me then what's the big deal?
The best I can hope for is a woman that doesn't disrespect me with their sexuality. If she does, well, onto the next.
Hyperion
Superstar
That's a very logical way to go about it. But let's be honest... we all would feel really bad if our significant other went with someone else. Because usually it means, they don't love us anymore. Humans, at the very core, just want to be loved and appreciated. So, when someone you would think cherishes you more than anything else in the world, leaves you for someone else and sleeps with them, it hits you to the core. Now, we could argue that this is society's manipulation of how relationships, dating and population control work, and you could make a very strong point for it. You're right, it's their body and they have every right to do what they want. And likewise, you have every right to feel the way you do, because relationships come with the pretense of it being exclusive between you and them. Otherwise, why not just keep it to dating exclusively, or harems like what they used to do way back in the day?
And let's not forget.. that ego you mentioned is a dangerous monster if left uncontrolled. Because it's that same ego that can cause narcissism, greed, gluttony, lust, and hatred. And when you hold all of that in your heart, you will not act within the purest of intentions. You will act from a perspective of revenge. Now, given your response, you sound like you have your ego in check and will probably be able to be just fine. However, a lot of people, men OR women, aren't exhibiting the same self-control. People get killed for much less. Look at how much violence is caused over infidelity or untrustworthiness. A perfectly rational man can very well turn into a monster if his emotions and ego is currently going into a state of panic and frenzy. Humans can be a slave to emotions. How we feel. How they feel. It's the core of everything. So when a lot of people are saying they don't mind ruining a relationship, or otherwise known as a spoken or written bond between two people... there's no surprise that the individual on the receiving end of the betrayal and disrespect will react in violence or otherwise unfavorable actions toward you. We COULD encourage people to have multiple partners, but considering those values are ingrained into human behavior itself, there would be multiple problems, and therefore we're a monogamous society.
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If she gets banged out and you find out about it, you kick her butt to the curb. Marriage is a whole different ballpark from a standard relationship. In a relationship, you can make a clean break fairly easily. In marriage, kids, property and all other sorts of things come into play.
The reality is that she very well COULD be burning you if she's sleeping around. What if she passes you AIDs? No big deal. Or how about if you find out that kid isn't yours, but you're stuck with the bill for the next 18 years. More times than not, if she's sleeping with that outside man, she's probably breaking him off with cash too.
What you gonna do if she divorces you and got this other man driving in your whip, living in a house you're still paying the mortgage on, and buying him clothes with the alimony on your dime?
The reality is that she very well COULD be burning you if she's sleeping around. What if she passes you AIDs? No big deal. Or how about if you find out that kid isn't yours, but you're stuck with the bill for the next 18 years. More times than not, if she's sleeping with that outside man, she's probably breaking him off with cash too.
What you gonna do if she divorces you and got this other man driving in your whip, living in a house you're still paying the mortgage on, and buying him clothes with the alimony on your dime?
Im sorry breh
Marriage will be a thing of the past and only a rich people's thing.
Bledswole
Slappin and clowning chumps for fun.
If you know the guy and yall have some type of relationship and he cheating with your wife, beat both of em up.
If you dont know the guy, just whoop the wife.
You cant be mad at a guy who cracks your wife if you dont know him,so many dudes wanna beat the man up, no you gotta check your wife,if you dont know dude you cant get mad at em.
If you dont know the guy, just whoop the wife.
You cant be mad at a guy who cracks your wife if you dont know him,so many dudes wanna beat the man up, no you gotta check your wife,if you dont know dude you cant get mad at em.
notPsychosiz
I started this gangsta sh-
If a married woman will sleep with you her marraige is a meaningless sham.
I don't see the issue.
The only way you are scum is if you make no true effort to alert the husband.
I don't see the issue.
The only way you are scum is if you make no true effort to alert the husband.
Citi Trends
aka milobased
i assume someone took your bytch
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
I was gonna post, but nevermind.... do what you do.... and then cry about how fukked up our communities are afterwards...
Yeah, for 4 years, another for 2 years, and several one timers
you fukked some dude's wife while knowing she already married?