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Aight so since there has been a recent deluge in the number of threads of nikkas fukkin up texting a female. Here's a general guideline from when you get her number to the first date, hook up, fukkery or whatever yall get into

If you're more experienced with women you can probably deviate a from this and add your own flare but this seems pretty much fukk up proof

1. When you get her number wait 6 hours - 1 day to text her. Why? Because its long enough to where you seem like a person doing shyt with their life and short enough for her to remember and still be invested in her initial attraction to you

2. Introduce yourself "Hey its blah blah from the grocery store, how are you?"

3. Chop it up lil and find a good stopping point. You want her to get a lil taste of what your personality is like. Keep it short dont end up send more than 10 messages.

4. No smilies. Smilies are for silly nikkas. You dont want a woman to see you as silly. Silly nikkas get played with.

5. Wait 24-48 hours after that first convo then hit her out of the blue with a question leading to a meet up. "Hey are you free sometime?" "What's your availability looking like?"

6. Always ask her availability. She will tell you when she has time so you can pick a time she has open. Why? Because if you throwin out dates and times it's gonna look like you ain't busy with your life. That's a red flag for women.

7. Set up a meet up. Say she says she is free Friday night and you know from the first convo that she likes to drink then say "Cool. Drinks Friday at 8 you good with that?" If she does anything other than give you an affirmative that bytch is playing games.

8.Stop texting her till the morning of the day you supposed to have your date. Lets her know you have a fukkin life.

9. Text her that day for confirmation that she remembers and will be at the date. "We still on for drinks tonight?" If she says anything other than yes, charge that bytch to the game.

10. Go on your date and have fun but also keep it smooth. Be funny if you a funny nikka. Be intelligent if you an intelligent breh. Play to your strengths and you should be good.

11. Stop watching porn this is self explanatory
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If she give you a "maybe" you can either press her for why she putting maybe or charge her to the game. Some women are attention whores and will never meet up with you. Others genuinely have busy schedule that fluctuates without her control. Use your gut on this its usually correct.

Match her texting rate. If she responds slow then you respond slow. But up to a point ie if she text you after 4 months dont wait 4 months to hit her back. Use common sense brehs.

Don't be overly emotive over text. Different people interpret text in a different way because we all have a different inner voice when we read shyt. You might unintentionally sound like a bytch nikka using exclamation marks and shyt. Just keep it cool and stoic. It's pretty much impossible to fukk that up

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Don’t agree with #9

Yeah.

Ultimately you can do whatever the fukk you want, but I NEVER text a chick in the morning... EVER.

My home boy got a number at night and text the girl the next morning, I kid you not, at like 7:30 am saying "Hey whats up?" :dead:

Yall know how that turned out lol
 

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Damn. You guys put way too much thought into this. Either she's feeling you or she isn't. All this other shyt is extra in my opinion. I don't like texting, I prefer talking over the phone.

Lemme give yall some game:

Instead of texting for first contact, call her and talk for 5 minutes and then tell her you got to go back to work, you gotta busy day todaya nd you just wanted to check in.

1) She'll know you not a bum ass nikka immediately without you having to explicitly say it.

2) Youll be more than just a number in her phone now she has a voice and positive interaction to attach you to. Youll get a lot further a lot faster than someone tryna drop word docs in her inbox

3) She know you thinking about her NOW but you got a lot of shyt going on so she will feel more inclined to get the ball rolling quicker or she might miss out on something good

TML
 

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If your text game trash then call them in short bursts (key being SHORT and dominate length). With everything in life you want to standout as much as possible. I can assure you nikkas these days ain't starting phone convos like back even 10 years ago (not even to say early '00s/90s). By starting even a short convo with the chick, she's already separated you from the other lames unwilling to talk on the phone. Her hearing your voice, tone and afflections etc will have her more familiar and comfortable with you before ya'll even meet.

That's why you more likely to successfully link up with a chick after a real life encounter vs via online/social media. Basically building rapport is key. :manny:

Also if ladies have complimented your voice on more than one occasion then you should definitely be doing MORE short calls/voice notes. Using it to your advantage, trust me.:ufdup:
 
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Damn. You guys put way too much thought into this. Either she's feeling you or she isn't. All this other shyt is extra in my opinion. I don't like texting, I prefer talking over the phone.
No shyt sherlock
But you can easily just make her not be feeling you by your actions
Women's attraction fluctuates
I'm just tryna help brehs and stop these shytty ass woe is me text game threads from takin over TLR

I used to be anti smilies but them shyts have gotten really accurate over the years.

I also do gifs to see if the bytch has a sense a humor

bytches love smilies:ufdup:
Not when you use them wrong

This shyt meant to be idiot proof
Like I said in the OP people can have success deviating from this formula
 
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