I don't want to think my man is cheating . Always thinking he is cheating will only cause me more worry and stress, I want someone I could trust. If I think he is stepping out and I can't trust him that means I have to move on. If I trust you it means you are doing something right.
Nah its more if she doesnt trust other women around you than something is wrong. Remember when I slept over my girls dorm room and she literally sprinted back to the room after her 9am class cause she didn't want to leave me alone with her roommate.
shyt....if a chick don't appreciate me treating them like a grown woman....fug em'......I ain't bout 2 put on another persona just 2 keep sum bird azz chick "happy".
TOO many single, bad chicks out here 2 be bending backwards for a bird.
Reminds me, I need to go to the grocery store and hang out in the seafood section for a bit and come home and run past my wife towards the upstairs bathroom
shyt....if a chick don't appreciate me treating them like a grown woman....fug em'......I ain't bout 2 put on another persona just 2 keep sum bird azz chick "happy".
TOO many single, bad chicks out here 2 be bending backwards for a bird.
I can't say if you are right or wrong but the mentality behind the post is dumb. Relationships are successful based off of communication, trust , loyalty , love and similar interest. So wanting or thinking that your woman shouldn't trust you is ridiculously dumb and is for the man who is only interested in games.
I don't know why so many people get involved just to have side chicks. I'm not saying u said all of this but this is just a thought.
To the comment made by a woman on the last page...
No nobody said a gawt damn thing aboot cheating.
Thats reserved for a different category of men (and ill leave it at that).
What im referencing to is the idea is commodity. Creating a worth in your disposition but keeping ur feelings in check (you can shower her w attention and affection, but do so intermitently, assertively, but when you do, make it count. But never lose your cool when shiit hits the fan nor do u expose any form of vulnerability)... That kind of demanor you exemplify makes you much for appealing to women.
Its not aboot whether or not u can or will cheat... But the idea that your stong character and universally adored presence makes panties more moist than Duncan Hines in the rain, is what separates the men from the mice, the pits from the poodles, the fans from the players...
... The captains --- from the crunch.
Obviously, a lot of these gals have never experienced the presence of quality and excellence.
Its not just aboot the trivial attributes and monetary success that makes you successful with women...
But its having a wealth of character and a healthy piece if mind. And women gravitate towards that. I never said anything in terms of infidelity in my post. What im trying to spiel is that to ensure a woman stays eating off the palm of your hand is to manifest in her head that you are the man and every person in and around you social circles know that (and that your desirability will "enchance your odds at cheating" and that uncertainty alone drives women crazy).
The way you replied is such a benighted and simplified way of perceiving it.
Men have to be more abstract with their personality. And thats what it takes to harness the winning formula of utter seduction and attraction.
Im sure youve lusted for men before...
but youve never had a motha fukka show you why. A true bonafied spirit that embodies the knowledge and understanding of a holyl deity but with the suaveness, mystique and quiet strength of a stealth jet fighter. So Good luck out there... Cuz there arent too many of us. Trust.
Close your eyes...
... And maybe you can picture yourself in a mode of ecstasy --- without taking xtacy.
Nah. It ain't that you're doing something wrong, it's that the woman you're involved with is a psycho with self-esteem issues. I've been accused of cheating in half of the relationships I've been in, but I don't get down like that. Rather than deal with the drama that happens because of the accusations, I just bounced. If you don't trust me, then I can't be with you.
A lot if not most of my boys who got bailed on, divorced or cheated on always wonder why they broads did what they did...
But the boy was too devoted, committed and predictable.
When she has u figured out, most times out of ten she's gonna turn eslewhere for that excitement and gratification.
In my 31 years of existence, very seldom, iif ever has simpdom Ever EXCELLED!!!
You ALWAYS have to test your girl. Have the upper hand by being enigmatic and relationship in doubt. Women need tough love and thats how shes gonna love you more... And always make it a job to have her love you more than vice versa.
I rather spit in that gems thread than to my boys in real life cuz they think im all about that philandering lifestyle and living unattached... But underneath the pizzazz is a foundation that has depth and plenty experience. The anonymity allows me to preach and teach my fellow coli stallions the shiit they ought to consider.
Its a shame cuz i may have been able to save a few marriages and see my closest companions be happy and not have to exert alll that energy only to be miserable, alone and questioning the actions of his mate and why she fled the way she did when he "supposedly" did all the right things.
Im in relantionship now but she stays wondering about my whereaboots and thinking if i got any numbers when i went out w my boys or if i flirted with any ladies/customers at the jobby job.
Never five her your whole identity... Becuz the moment you give that up, that sense of security will set in and she gonna get confortable and sway... Then subconsciously, compels her and become that ultimate force in cheating on you cuz became a safe little bytch.
And ive seen this shiit happens when offspring are involved in the picture As well... Thats the worst.
I dont cosign too many threads... But this is one the releast ones ever wroted...
I quoted.
To be devoted --- and exude your emotions...
Will leave you sunk, skunked and broken... At the bottom of the ocean...
And ur ex with an empty box of trojans, getting her back blown in by a fella with the swag of hulk hogan.
You can be a winner, whether its by a plethora of women or that number one thats golden.
Listen to the ones who've lived it... And you can also be part of the chosen.
*backs away and fades to the background... Where he's found clarity, composure, liberation, absolute nirvana... And now he's coastin'*
Ya'll got it backwards, if you think your women might be cheating, she likely cheated. The question this should be is, you need to stay interesting and active for your lady or she may stray if she isn't a woman of God. A woman of God is rare now. A lot of women go to church but are that diehards and know God's watching them like "bytch, you better not be cheating or you going to hell are rare. Outside of that, yeah, you gotta keep your woman guessing. Her anger is good at times. It's good for a woman to talk shyt about you, just as long as she respects you regardless.
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. Always thinking he is cheating will only cause me more worry and stress, I want someone I could trust. If I think he is stepping out and I can't trust him that means I have to move on. If I trust you it means you are doing something right.
i shouldve in hindsight
are rare. Outside of that, yeah, you gotta keep your woman guessing. Her anger is good at times. It's good for a woman to talk shyt about you, just as long as she respects you regardless.
