A lot if not most of my boys who got bailed on, divorced or cheated on always wonder why they broads did what they did...
But the boy was too devoted, committed and predictable.
When she has u figured out, most times out of ten she's gonna turn eslewhere for that excitement and gratification.
In my 31 years of existence, very seldom, iif ever has simpdom Ever EXCELLED!!!
You ALWAYS have to test your girl. Have the upper hand by being enigmatic and relationship in doubt. Women need tough love and thats how shes gonna love you more... And always make it a job to have her love you more than vice versa.
I rather spit in that gems thread than to my boys in real life cuz they think im all about that philandering lifestyle and living unattached... But underneath the pizzazz is a foundation that has depth and plenty experience. The anonymity allows me to preach and teach my fellow coli stallions the shiit they ought to consider.
Its a shame cuz i may have been able to save a few marriages and see my closest companions be happy and not have to exert alll that energy only to be miserable, alone and questioning the actions of his mate and why she fled the way she did when he "supposedly" did all the right things.
Im in relantionship now but she stays wondering about my whereaboots and thinking if i got any numbers when i went out w my boys or if i flirted with any ladies/customers at the jobby job.
Never five her your whole identity... Becuz the moment you give that up, that sense of security will set in and she gonna get confortable and sway... Then subconsciously, compels her and become that ultimate force in cheating on you cuz became a safe little bytch.
And ive seen this shiit happens when offspring are involved in the picture As well... Thats the worst.
I dont cosign too many threads... But this is one the releast ones ever wroted...
I quoted.
To be devoted --- and exude your emotions...
Will leave you sunk, skunked and broken... At the bottom of the ocean...
And ur ex with an empty box of trojans, getting her back blown in by a fella with the swag of hulk hogan.
You can be a winner, whether its by a plethora of women or that number one thats golden.
Listen to the ones who've lived it... And you can also be part of the chosen.
*backs away and fades to the background... Where he's found clarity, composure, liberation, absolute nirvana... And now he's coastin'*
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If you fly and lay pipe, you dont have to worry about these pathetic psychology games.
. Always thinking he is cheating will only cause me more worry and stress, I want someone I could trust. If I think he is stepping out and I can't trust him that means I have to move on. If I trust you it means you are doing something right.
