Some women just aren't submissive or at least not very submissive....just like some men aren't very masculine.
A lot of our black women have strong personalities and that stems from our community, women having to raise kids with no father, having an alpha male father or just having other women in her family who are aggressive and masculine.
Some women won't have u bossin her azz around telling her to cook and clean...especially if she has a job and helping u with the bills. My mom is overbearing and controlling. She coordinates every repair around the home. It's sad my dad allowed this but he just so nonchalant and IDGAF about everything.
Fact-It's easier to be neutered then it is to grow some balls....so in the case of men who ain't masculine and find it hard to be,they've been neutered in some form or fashion...and once that happens it's hard to reverse

For whatever scientific reason,it's easier to destroy masculinity....which is all the more reason you need to keep yours at all cost,and instill it in your son's from day one against all odds


Sad to say it looks like we as black men are headed down that same road in our community,I know u see it

#notourcolisons