"If you're a '5' and you're trying to date '10s' you're out of your comfort zone"

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One problem with ranking people's looks from 1-10 is that most people aren't going to willingly call themselves anything less than an 8. How many people are really walking around saying "I'm just a 5, I shouldn't try to talk to that girl because she's a 10"?

Why y'all folks hating in Mannie? He's seen millions, nikka could buy y'all entire family


Plus he made this timeless classic

 

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Dudes rating other dudes :dame:

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Calm down Mr. BroCulture. If men didn't subconsciously rate other men then Flava Flav and Shabba Ranx wouldn't be the butts of our "ugly" jokes. It's natural, and no it doesn't mean you're "gay"...unless you're doing it to be gay.
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Honestly I think this is one of the biggest issues with the black community is Black Men not accepting their level.
Think about it...
When you see a ugly white man, his wife is usually on his level.
When you see a ugly white woman, 9 times out of 10 she's married regardless of her looks, you rarely second guess that.
But Black Women who are below 6's that are married are extremely rare...like really think about it.

:jbhmm:
 

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Honestly I think this is one of the biggest issues with the black community is Black Men not accepting their level.
Think about it...
When you see a ugly white man, his wife is usually on his level.
When you see a ugly white woman, 9 times out of 10 she's married regardless of her looks, you rarely second guess that.
But Black Women who are below 6's that are married are extremely rare.
..like really think about it.

:jbhmm:

Uh oh

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You know what's strange? I have always had the hardest time getting lesser attractive(in society's eyes) women than I have getting drop dead gorgeous women. There's been countless times I've holla'd at a not-so-cute chick but who had a niice body and I get curved hard(and with emphasis smh), yet, I walk into a club and holla at the prettiest thing in there and a week later we've began our fukklationship. It's happened so many times over the years. It's strange man. I actually WISH my batting average with "ugly" chicks was the same as it is with these little so called self proclaimed "baddies".

On average who has the "better" body (t*ts, ass, hourglass, etc.) of who you spit at? The ugly girls or the pretty ones.

In my experience, women with gorgeous faces but minimal body are easier to pull then women that are physically well endowed but subpar in the face.
 

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I do about the same when it comes to attractive girls and unattractive girls. :yeshrug:
Makes absolutely no sense :mjlol:

Different strokes for different folks.

Fat chicks throw me the P all the time. Dimepieces don't give me the time of day.

I imagine this would be true for many brehs, as most guys aren't smashing fat/ugly chicks because it's their preference.
 

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Honestly I think this is one of the biggest issues with the black community is Black Men not accepting their level.
Think about it...
When you see a ugly white man, his wife is usually on his level.
When you see a ugly white woman, 9 times out of 10 she's married regardless of her looks, you rarely second guess that.
But Black Women who are below 6's that are married are extremely rare...like really think about it.

:jbhmm:
Word that's one of the biggest issues in the black community :mjlol:
 

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:mjlol: This shyt again.

I notice that men, specifically on this site, does this rating bullshyt. I literally never heard anyone out of cyberspace bring up a rate. That persons either attractive to them or not.

I agree with the OP.
That's like someone thinking I'm unattractive so I don't "deserve" my "attractive" partner. That's bullshyt.
People really out here tryna tell people what they deserve based on how they look :stopitslime: the fukkin galls.

If you like somebody just go at em. If they receptive, great. I know my "look" isn't for everybody but I'll be damned if ima put myself down because majority of people may not like the way I look or my status in life. People are so fukkin dumb.

So if you had a homie that only went after beautiful well endowed women (of all personality types), and he kept striking out like 0 for 300, what would be your advice?

Keep shooting?
 
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So if you had a homie that only went after beautiful well endowed women (of all personality types), and he kept striking out like 0 for 300, what would be your advice?

Keep shooting?
That's obviously insane. But it's also up to his discretion.

Not sure if you fully comprehended what I wrote because it wasn't even about that. People are putting themselves in a box. Just do what you want.

Why should a so call unattractive person feel like they didn't deserve someone because their spouse is more attractive than them. :heh: That's absurd.

All this "on my level"..." I'm rated as.." like who gives a fukk do you. Everybody always tryna make sense of shyt you can't make sense of.

Maybe my head is in the clouds, that's fine. But I do what I want and if whomever don't like it so be it. For every rule that's out there, there's thousands of people who are the exception.
 

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That's obviously insane. But it's also up to his discretion.

Not sure if you fully comprehended what I wrote because it wasn't even about that. People are putting themselves in a box. Just do what you want.

Why should a so call unattractive person feel like they didn't deserve someone because their spouse is more attractive than them. :heh: That's absurd.

All this "on my level"..." I'm rated as.." like who gives a fukk do you. Everybody always tryna make sense of shyt you can't make sense of.

Maybe my head is in the clouds, that's fine. But I do what I want and if whomever don't like it so be it. For every rule that's out there, there's thousands of people who are the exception.

A man is going interpret what you're saying as shoot at the women you want (physical preference), and that you don't need to adjust your requirements based on how society values you. So the scenario I described is just how a man would deduce what his behavior could be. Ultimately, he might be better off adjusting his expectations and loosening his requirements but if you keep telling men to go for what they really want, then you're not really promoting him setting realistic goals.

Currently, I'm looking for a new job, and although I feel that a competent and capable of a manager level position, I'm not getting a lot of response on the manager roles I've applied for. So rather than keep striving for that manager role that I feel qualified for, I can adjust my expectations, or I can keep working and developing until someone sees me as a manager. Same thing applies to dating. Telling regular brehs that they aren't on that level yet to only shoot at bad chicks, is common sense. They can't get what they really want, so either step up your game and become more appealing to the opposite sex, or deal with the ones that are currently digging you.
 

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water seeks its own level
It should be that way but trust it's not.
That's obviously insane. But it's also up to his discretion.

Not sure if you fully comprehended what I wrote because it wasn't even about that. People are putting themselves in a box. Just do what you want.

Why should a so call unattractive person feel like they didn't deserve someone because their spouse is more attractive than them. :heh: That's absurd.

All this "on my level"..." I'm rated as.." like who gives a fukk do you. Everybody always tryna make sense of shyt you can't make sense of.

Maybe my head is in the clouds, that's fine. But I do what I want and if whomever don't like it so be it. For every rule that's out there, there's thousands of people who are the exception.
u missing the point breh. Not about limitations. For the average person, It's about understanding you can have whatever you want if you willing to pay the cost.

BE what you want. Stop looking for shyt you don't have yourself..

thats in the physical, mental, financial and otherwise.

If you have already leveled up with redeeming qualities then it doesn't apply. If you got bread, or stay in top shape, or some sort of social status then you good. But the majority of nikkas ain't got none of that but still expect the best
 
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Calm down Mr. BroCulture. If men didn't subconsciously rate other men then Flava Flav and Shabba Ranx wouldn't be the butts of our "ugly" jokes. It's natural, and no it doesn't mean you're "gay"...unless you're doing it to be gay.
:dame:

Still sounds Chauncey to me :dame:

Rating another man to postulate where he's putting his pubic parts :dame:

But do you bro :dame:

Peace
 
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