If You're A Shy Man You Should Know Women Despise You And You Don't Deserve to Get Laid

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shyt alot of women are nervous shy insecure as shyt. Doing shyt like all of a sudden pulling out they phone when you about to past them walking by...

Approaching is the best way nonetheless...I agree with OP...harsh truth is women be insecure...they look for the men to be confident because alot of them are not.

When I'm feeling myself I'll approach anything...

Just saying hello to a chick and you end up fukking her is :ahh:
 

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This.

Most people don't meet doing cold approaches. They meet through work, school, online dating, or their social circle.

The only reason this site champions cold approaches so much is because nikkas on The Coli have no friends. :yeshrug:

Lol this.

Cold approaching is so rare, that it often looks try hard when you see it in person...
 

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This.

Most people don't meet doing cold approaches. They meet through work, school, online dating, or their social circle.

The only reason this site champions cold approaches so much is because nikkas on The Coli have no friends. :yeshrug:

nikkas on here don't cape for cold approaches :heh:
 
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It's all about her "approaching" you.

Except it's super passive aggressive.

She will stare for a second. You have to notice and move in.

When you say "Hello" she will reply in a way that invites you.

If she's not checking you out and her reply is cold then you're likely wasting time.

You just have to know when to go. It's subtle.
The gatdamn game:francis:

mind tricks and mental gymnastics why can't we all be bold about what we want.
 
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The coli.com that's where.All these lames talkin like women approach dudes on a reg are telling :duck:

This comin from a dude who's had chicks and homos :dame:approach me.If you attractive chicks will stare,flirt,hover around you,start conversation/asking you questions,laugh at everything you say that's their way of "approaching"Last chick I fukked I bagged at a laundromat these coli dudes some lames don't take nothin they say serious
I would fight with a dude if he had the sheer audacity to approach me matter of fact I did and got kicked out of a club.
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lol Not every man is born knowing how to exert self-confidence. Some things take time and experience to manifest. Personally, I like shy guys. They are like seedlings just waiting to bloom into the precious flower that they are. Some guys are arrogant and figure their words will "get the draws" or woo her, but that only works on naiive girls or shallow girls, which inadvertently show's the deceitful character of the male.
 

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lol Not every man is born knowing how to exert self-confidence. Some things take time and experience to manifest. Personally, I like shy guys. They are like seedlings just waiting to bloom into the precious flower that they are. Some guys are arrogant and figure their words will "get the draws" or woo her, but that only works on naiive girls or shallow girls, which inadvertently show's the deceitful character of the male.

This.

I holla at women with no problem with a stellar success rate but even Im smart enough to know playing the shy card works too depending on the timing and atmosphere
 

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It is though. Vast majority of men meet women through friends and family.

And to answer your question, no, Beyonce, in all likelighood, didn't approach Jay. She is, in all likelihood, not truly attracted to him either. Most women get into LTRs and marriages with men they're not attracted to.
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