If you’re going to be a stay at home dad then at least have an edge.

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It doesn't make sense to marry a more ambitious andb more successful woman if you're not a pimp

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It's a big difference between quitting your job and getting laid off or fired, especially in this economy. If he quit, she at least knew bruh wouldn't provide any work income for some time.

It's a reason why she told your wife and not her husband. Say he gets a job that pays *something*; being a SAHD is no longer an option and the money probably won't be the same. She'll be more insufferable and every man has a breaking point when it comes to this shyt. They may not go upside their old ladies head at that exact moment, but they'll let them know they reserve the right.

She needs to be grateful they have this luxury and go on about her day.
 
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If you agree to that as a man – I don’t even know what to tell you …pathetic…

You mean their arrangement? I don’t think he had much of a choice 🤷🏾‍♂️

He can’t be not working forever tho :lupe:
 
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You should never be content letting a woman have financial control over you like that. There is nothing masculine about running errands, and cleaning while your wife works. Women grow resentment from that. He didn’t lose his job. He quit. He lost the right to wear the pants, and she respects him less. He needs to start working again. She doesn’t have to be grateful for him taking care of his own child. You’re supposed to take care of your children. It’s literally the bare minimum he can do.

Y’all are the “The divorce came out of nowhere” crowd. Even Stedman has his own money, and worked until he retired.
 

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Wife clearly wishes roles were reversed and she was the stay at home parent.

Lots of women, I'd say vast majority, ain't built to be main provider. Especially now with all the talks of "soft life" all over social media. :yeshrug:
 
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The thing about it is, from what you just said, breh IS working! Lmao

He just work for his wife. But like someone said before, homie should go do Amazon or some shyt like that and pay a few bills. Take her out with HIS own money.

No matter how forward thinking and "feminist" a woman is, they don't wanna work because they have to, they wanna work for fun and blow their money lol.

You can do it all for a woman (and this may sound a lil sexist), but the only thing they really appreciate is you tricking off on them. Even dikking em down good is gonna get old eventually.
This is exactly where the redpill dudes gain traction.

Women want to be feminist and benefit from modern changes in culture. They want men to be "new skool" by helping with housework, cooking etc....but also want men to be ol skool when it's convenient (pay for most things, kill bugs, defend their honor).
 

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Is this not equality?
Only in the aggregate sense.

Society moves the goal posts, but deep culture and socialization stands firm. This tendency cuts in a lot of ways and basically defines the reactionaries and the progressives, imo.

The funniest thing is that women fought for this and they keep harping on it, but when reality comes to their own door step, a lot of them really want traditional relationships.

Kevin Samuels whole schtick about professional chicks agreeing with him about not wanting to be responsible for the majority of the bills, despite having degrees and big jobs.

Her money is her money, and his money is their money.
 

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Women only value domestic duties when a woman is doing it...remember that

So that is why when I see all these dudes talking bout they want their women in the home while they handle all the bills I laugh at these fools

They dont value domestic duties like they claim so THEY can go take their ass into an office and earn money
 

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Stuff like this is why the American dating/relationship world is so fukked up and instead of having debates about things like how much should u read to your newborn, what kind of music stimulates learning....etc, we have grown ass toys r us women that don't ever wanna grow up

1. Her putting her husband's business out there for everyone in the neighborhood to know is a violation. Now I can't trust u cause idk what convos stay in the house and which don't, u get mad your gonna tell everyone my business

2. It's a general consensus u have to be a little distant and an a$$hole for your girl to respect u. This is why these bird brain women are constantly complaining about men and over the age of 25 need to be told to shut up and be accountable for their actions. U hook up with people that like u and go from there, if your "mysterious" boyfriend cheats on you shut up and move on. U wanna deal with men that send one sentence texts and ignore people that want to talk to you, prepare for single motherhood and fur babies

3. What's the point again of allowing women to make their own money if all it does is cause them to be conceited and look down on anyone they perceive to make less than them ( cause women will damn sure live in a one bedroom apartment with roommates no furniture driving a broken down car and look down at the man who owns his house and several cars because said man walked to his local gas station, she has a car and is going to school for 40k a year job) If working a job and paying the bills is too stressful, guess what, men been telling y'all dumb asses for years the workplace ain't fun.


Easiest way to build and keep your money is not to play these games. It's why these women be in their 30s piled into singles mixers with no men, any man making 6 figures plus worth a damn does not want someone else's former headache. Save money for a year so u can travel Europe and beyond, or spend your overseas money sending "lunch" money, going out to eat every week and paying for the outlandish birthday celebrations.
I'm traveling solo, fukk these miserable childish complaining American women
 

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You should never be content letting a woman have financial control over you like that. There is nothing masculine about running errands, and cleaning while your wife works. Women grow resentment from that. He didn’t lose his job. He quit. He lost the right to wear the pants, and she respects him less. He needs to start working again. She doesn’t have to be grateful for him taking care of his own child. You’re supposed to take care of your children. It’s literally the bare minimum he can do.

Y’all are the “The divorce came out of nowhere” crowd. Even Stedman has his own money, and worked until he retired.

They argue over dumb shyt to the point where it spills outside. TBF they were arguing when he was working but now you can tell he can only argue to a point.

When I look at her I can see she got “where you gonna go nicca?” spotlight in her head

her demeanor the whole time….. :coffee:
 
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