If you're in a relationship for more than 4 years and you're not married, what's the point?

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

And 4 years is being generous. If after 4 years you havent figured out they're not the one, what the hell are you still doing with them.

That's why I say most people aren't in love, they're in relationship. Afraid of being alone? It's like volunteer imprisonment. And having kids is like a felony which will stay on your record for years.

And breaking up with someone after a long ass relationship will scar you consiously or subconsiously for a long ass time..

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Why does a piece of paper matter ?

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I agree with this. By year four you should know everything you need.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Women get married for the marriage. Men get married for the woman.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Marriage is a man-made construct to assist ugly nikkas in getting their fair share of women out there in the streets. This allows them to have a fair shot of getting a woman and locking them down.

This is also why polygamy is illegal. Polygamy is perfect for women because they'll always find themselves a man. But polygamy for men is devastating if you're not rich, handsome and powerful. Michael B. Jordan, Brad Pitt and JR Smith would have 83 wives each, while the nikka that works at Buffalo Wild Wings comes home from work consistently to pornhub and suicidal thoughts

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Why does a piece of paper matter ?

Doesn't have to be. But if that's your ride or die, your soulmate, it should be a given right?

The way I see it, if their not, your wasting your most valuable possession. YOUR TIME.

I know people that got into a relationship at 23 and broke up at 31. All of their 20's wasted. And for what?

 

[Ziggiy]

Yea after FOUR years its time to have a serious sit down about the future because, even as a man, i ain’t soending four years with no woman I dont plan on maryying. Year three should really be the year when you know if she’s the “marrying type”

 

[Mad Good Dro]

Doesn't have to be. But if that's your ride or die, your soulmate, it should be a given right?

The way I see it, if their not, your wasting your most valuable possession. YOUR TIME.

I know people that got into a relationship at 23 and broke up at 31. All of their 20's wasted. And for what?

What difference would it have made had they been married since they still broke up?

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Doesn't have to be. But if that's your ride or die, your soulmate, it should be a given right?

The way I see it, if their not, your wasting your most valuable possession. YOUR TIME.

I know people that got into a relationship at 23 and broke up at 31. All of their 20's wasted. And for what?

Read what I wrote again

And you're not making sense. 56% of marriages end. Was it a waste of time? More than half of humans waste their time? TF
Relationships are experiences nothing more nothing less. Doesn't matter what the chemicals in your brain believe. A piece of paper doesn't guarantee you're locked with someome forever. Again what does a piece of paper matter?

 

[chowism]

I agree with this. By year four you should know everything you need.

Wrong

 

[Tommy Knocks]

You can be with someone for 30 years not married, why does that piece of paper make 30 yrs invalid? Who says?

 

[chowism]

Read what I wrote again

And you're not making sense. 56% of marriages end. Was it a waste of time? More than half of humans waste their time? TF
Relationships are experiences nothing more nothing less. Doesn't matter what the chemicals in your brain believe. A piece of paper doesn't guarantee you're locked with someome forever. Again what does a piece of paper matter?

Facts

 

[Wild self]

All I'm saying is people need to stop rushing to relationships so quickly. Find the type you looking for and tell them what's cool/not cool. If she can comply to that always, thats a great sign. Then you gotta see her when she is under stress/ thrown in unpredictable situations. If she can think with her head instead of emotions, you will find out what she really is.

By all means, take your time before going down on your knee, cause one you get engaged to her, you made a promise to keep her.

But before you put a timetable on that, let it grow naturally. If you still bf/gf after 4 years, OK. Just don't get engaged to her and remain engaged for 10+ years on some ratchet shyt

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Read what I wrote again

And you're not making sense. 56% of marriages end. Was it a waste of time? More than half of humans waste their time? TF
Relationships are experiences nothing more nothing less. Doesn't matter what the chemicals in your brain believe. A piece of paper doesn't guarantee you're locked with someome forever. Again what does a piece of paper matter?

It just shows that people dont know what the hell they want. But that still doesn't change the fact that you can be with someone for a long ass time and not marrying them being a waste of time in the end.

And marriage doesn't have to be by U.S. standards. If you with someone and feel the urge to cheat, but you stay with them, you're wasting not only your time but the other person's time.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

It just shows that people dont know what the hell they want. But that still doesn't change the fact that you can be with someone for a long ass time and not marrying them being a waste of time in the end.

And marriage doesn't have to be by U.S. standards. If you with someone and feel the urge to cheat, but you stay with them, you're wasting not only your time but the other person's time.

Precisely ....so why does the paper matter. Im reading your title