If You're Married, Is It A Bad Idea To Let Another Man Stay In Your Home?

bogey_j

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there's an old Zulu proverb:

"Two bulls can never occupy one kraal." (enclosure, bull-pen)

I've crashed on friends couches before and had dreams of banging their girlfriends in their own home :lupe:

men are demons. if you're staying over for any length of time, it doesn't take much to start coveting another man's wife/girlfriend, especially since she's just around. I'd let a friend crash for a night but he'd have to :camby:the next day, fukk that
 

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there's an old Zulu proverb:

"Two bulls can never occupy one kraal." (enclosure, bull-pen)

I've crashed on friends couches before and had dreams of banging their girlfriends in their own home :lupe:

men are demons. if you're staying over for any length of time, it doesn't take much to start coveting another man's wife/girlfriend, especially since she's just around. I'd let a friend crash for a night but he'd have to :camby:the next day, fukk that

you sound like a great friend.
 

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I'm not even married or dating anyone and I don't let any of my friends spend the night with me. They would have to be in a very bad situation for me to let them stay with me, and even then there would be a 3 day deadline. :camby:
 

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The only way a dude can stay with me is if he needs temporary assistance (family member or close friend) or somebody with a disability that needs help. 2 able bodied, grown ass dudes staying together is super fruity. My friends & family from out of town is always good (for the weekend).

Genesis Chapter 2:24

4 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Leviticus Chapter 25:35-36
35 And if thy brother be waxen poor, and fallen in decay with thee; then thou shalt relieve him: yea, though he be a stranger, or a sojourner; that he may live with thee.

36 Take thou no usury of him, or increase: but fear thy God; that thy brother may live with thee.
 

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Any old school person will tell you not to have some other man laid up around your woman or some woman laid up around your man.
Nope. If it's not family, maybe 1 or 2 close friends traveling across country,
You can't stay here.

Swing by and visit. I'll make you a plate. Relax for a minute. Then you gotta go.
 
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