If you're partner cheated would you take him/her back

[EffYou]

And have you in the past?

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Take them back immediately after cheating?

Hell naw

Take them back 5-10 years later after having been with multiple other women?

Maybe. And that's only if I truly feel she won't do it again, and that's a big ass if.

 

[prince_peoples]

na we could still be friends, and fukk biddies but thats all.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I did, and it was a horrible mistake. Won't do it again.

 

[Soon]

No, that is a huge red flag.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I'd only take them back to crush them. So naw I wouldn't. I have a rule about friends. I do not seek revenge against former friends. It's sloppy and reflects poorly on me. I want to, but it's best not to. I've never been cheated on in a serious relationship.

If a girl cheated on me in a serious relationship it'd make her disgusting to me. I couldn't share a bed or my body with someone I think is filthy. Let's say it happens and I take them back. I don't think they'd be willing to work to gain my respect and trust back. I wouldn't be passive aggressive, but I'd be disgusted by the thought of having sex or sharing a bed with them. yuck.

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

Depends on what we have invested in together. Easy to throw your bf/gf with their own place in the bushes but your husband/wife with who your whole life is intertwined with isn't that easy. Especially if you have children and co-signed each other for a bunch of stuff. Look at dude who lost the Dodgers due to divorce.

 

[ORDER_66]

fukk No!!! betrayal is my thing I don't tolerate...

 

[Mr. Negative]

I did, and it was a horrible mistake. Won't do it again.

this.

Except it took me doing it with two different women to learn.

When I recognized the signs in my last relationship I cut it off instantly.

"Instantly" meaning fighting myself for two weeks before I let it go.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I wouldn't do it. A relationship where both parties are cheating wouldn't work

 

[Cake]

Pretend it didn't happen till I find an upgrade. That's what they do

 

[DaPresident]

No...





Been cheated on, in a very serious relationship. Could never trust or look at her the same. I've forgiven her, but I will never view her the same ever again, thus trying to build a relationship with her again, impossible

 

[Family Man]

What if young children were involved?

 

[Sassy]

Nope! Once you betray me - You're dead to me. I've learned not to give second chances and it's best to be done with that relationship once and for all.

 

[The Wolf Among You]

I almost did once. Almost caught a young Wolf slipping.