What would you do if your fiancee didnt want to take your last name?

[O.T.I.S.]

As someone who's happily married, you'd be a fool to enter into that type of arrangement with a person who won't even take your name.
What's the point,just be roommates

Exactly

To be serious, why even bother with marriage then? Why even bother being monogamous?

Why bother to even share a house and finances, just go be alone then or fukk friends.

 

[big bun]

I wouldn’t care to be honest.

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

How exactly are you progressive?

The tradition of a woman taking a man's last name is rooted in women being property and dehumanizing them. Probably one of the most conservative positions you can take.

I'm not criticizing your beliefs because unlike most women I understand that the vast majority of men have sexist beliefs even if the don't vocalize them.

I'm just curious in what ways that you consider yourself progressive when you hode such an extremely conservative viewpoint.

Again, not criticizing you. Just curious.

I’m not against it, if that works for you and whoever you are marrying… cool. More power to you. but for me, I find it disrespectful and wouldn’t move forward. Because I feel this way doesn’t mean Im oppose same sex marriage, dont consider myself an ally to the LGBTQAI community.

Progressiveness doesn’t mean I have to agree with every idea but some things are sacred to me (and this is one of them)

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I’m not against it, if that works for you and whoever you are marrying… cool. More power to you. but for me, I find it disrespectful and wouldn’t move forward. Because I feel this way doesn’t mean Im oppose same sex marriage, dont consider myself an ally to the LGBTQAI community.

Progressiveness doesn’t mean I have to agree with every idea but some things are sacred to me (and this is one of them)

I'm asking you what exact progressive ideals are support though.

 

[Genos]

My wife doesn't have my last name, I don't give a fukk tbh

 

[Genos]

Exactly

To be serious, why even bother with marriage then? Why even bother being monogamous?

Why bother to even share a house and finances, just go be alone then or fukk friends.

Why does her having your last name affect any of this?

 

[Canon]

I would think it would be more about creating a family unit

Maybe they should just makeup a new last name

Haha you folded easy

 

[UpThruDere]

I mean how are people supposed to know she's your property if you don't brand her? She gotta take it. We can't give these women any semblance of autonomy or freedom.

Or just give them the ultimate freedom and don’t marry them in the first place

 

[Rosecrans]

M

Ain't no problem, I thought this line was funny.

And I'm not white, I've proven it in that verification thread.

My bad brotha I was hyped on preworkout and I was lashing out at everyone

 

[Shadow King]

One of the many reasons I'm GMB.

AT BEST a hyphenation.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Haha you folded easy

Folded?

I was brainstorming and being sarcastic somewhat.

TF you talking about?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Leave her.

Im the man of the house, the ruler, the emperor. If she can't bow to that she's out the door.

 

[Canon]

Folded?

I was brainstorming and being sarcastic somewhat.

TF you talking about?

Why would you do that with that crazy bytch?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

She’s not willing to take your name, but you’re willing to potentially lose half of your assets?

Pay 70/30 of the bills at worst.
Pay all the dates
Pay all the vacations
Provide protection


Talk about disrespect.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Why would you do that with that crazy bytch?

With what crazy bytch

I have zero plans on marriage and posted my thoughts on some imaginary woman not wanting my last name