If You're the Breadwinner...

[BaggerofTea]

I think if that's a man's intention it should be discussed beforehand.

I think most men know that cheating will lead to a loss of affection from their wives which is why they lie and try to hide it. If a man has a lot of money the woman will most likely stay by that adoration will be gone. I doubt most guys just want a woman there for the money.

But it it usually comes out one way or the other so you might as well be up front with it. It will give her time to talk herself into it. May have a better result.

Honesty is always the best policy, although me personally I think as a man you should evolve beyond the phase of spreading your seed and instead developing your seed.

Both should be natural predispositions but at different stages in life

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I discussed this with my wife and children...and they all agree I should fukk more bytches.....

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

an honest conversation.

So you agree?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I hate the internet

 

[the bossman]

I think most men know that cheating will lead to a loss of affection from their wives which is why they lie and try to hide it. If a man has a lot of money the woman will most likely stay by that adoration will be gone. I doubt most guys just want a woman there for the money.

I'd feel bad cheating on my wife if we had kids. Just cause I don't want them seeing their mother get done like that

But to KS point - let's say you been with breh for 6+ years, nice home, car, lifestyle, etc. Supports you in your career, business, whatever. Yall living the power couple lifestyle. He puts it down exactly the way you like and all.

But the ONLY negative is that he might get some strange when you not around every now and then. Would you stay?

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

So you’d understand a women cheating on a man that wasn’t able to be a traditional man and wanted 50:50 splits on bills?

But I'm not talking monetary.

Just in regards, to the way females carry it nowadays (argumentive, attention whores, etc.)

 

[Hungerpain]

Absolutely.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Breh gave her that real pep talk like a father. Like look he fukked up cheating on you. But lets be real babygirl this dating game and all that healing you would have to do in 2020 aint what you wanna deal with. If he apologized and he still takin care of business at home

Like he said marriage is messy

So you think she should stay? Do you also agree with creating an arrangement as Kev suggested?

 

[DaPresident]

I mean that would defeat the purpose, and definition of "cheating"...no?

It's the coli, nikkas on here be giving you the wildest reasons why ish ain't cheating or cheating is this, that or the third. Or if they (the significant other) don't know, it's cool or not cheating lol

place the twilight zone

 

[JT-Money]

I'm not saying he said it but .....

 

[Actually6Foot3]

I see what he's saying....Men with options are more likely to cheat.

Women like men who have options but only eyes for them. Nothing drying a woman up more than a man that no other women want.

He's still in his hoe phase unfortunately for her and likely won't be out of it till his 30s. Luckily for him they'll always be a plethora of women looking for a successful, fit 6'6 breh when he's truly ready to settle down

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Honesty is always the best policy, although me personally I think as a man you should evolve beyond the phase of spreading your seed and instead developing your seed.

Both should be natural predispositions but at different stages in life

I agree

 

[Draje]

But I'm not talking monetary.

Just in regards, to the way females carry it nowadays (argumentive, attention whores, etc.)

Ok and women say that men don’t carry themselves like men in regards to taking pride in providing for their family or protecting their family. Men are attention whores and clout chasing all the time on social media too.

So that same logic must apply. You justify women cheating on men who aren’t handling their traditional roles like decades past, right?

 

[the bossman]

So you think she should stay? Do you also agree with creating an arrangement as Kev suggested?

As a random broad Id tell her try to work it out if you can

If it was my daughter? I'd say hell na. fukk that nikka. Take his ass to court

If you gonna do an arrangement you gotta do it up front, not after the fact.

 

[Draje]

I see what he's saying....Men with options are more likely to cheat.

Women like men who have options but only eyes for them. Nothing drying a woman up more than a man that no other women want.

He's still in his hoe phase unfortunately for her and likely won't be out of it till his 30s. Luckily for him they'll always be a plethora of women looking for a successful, fit 6'6 breh when he's truly ready to settle down

I agree with this but the only thing that’s weird is we got dudes who shame women for having easy options in regards to sex (It’s easier for women to have sex and they have to put less effort to get it) and would rarely defend them “Well, she had so many options so she was bound to cheat”.

But when affluent men start having access to all these options, it’s so easy to understand or justify the cheating mindset.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Ok and women say that men don’t carry themselves like men in regards to taking pride in providing for their family or protecting their family. Men are attention whores and clout chasing all the time on social media too.

So that same logic must apply. You justify women cheating on men who aren’t handling their traditional roles like decades past, right?

And we all recognize, there are a lot of deeper layers to this...


As far as females go, it doesn't take money, to buy class.