If you've ever referred to yourself as a "nice guy", step in this thread

[LA Fisher]

This is how women view you

"but but but black women only want thugs"

 

[Willie]

Lol those are simps.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Lets get real....generally speaking when a female says someone is "nice", that usually means he isnt physically attractive and its a "nice" way of saying he's mediocre looking. LOL at this idea that a good looking man who has his sht together isnt desirable, and cant get a date, as if all women are hanging out by the prison waiting on releases.

 

[kp404]

Lets get real....generally speaking when a female says someone is "nice", that usually means he isnt physically attractive and its a "nice" way of saying he's mediocre looking. LOL at this idea that a good looking man who has his sht together isnt desirable, and cant get a date, as if all women are hanging out by the prison waiting on releases.

realest post on here in a while...just like how the coli throws around the word "c00n" without actually knowing what it means, the same goes here....

 

[LA Fisher]

Lets get real....generally speaking when a female says someone is "nice", that usually means he isnt physically attractive and its a "nice" way of saying he's mediocre looking. LOL at this idea that a good looking man who has his sht together isnt desirable, and cant get a date, as if all women are hanging out by the prison waiting on releases.

but but but she doesn't want a good man with his shyt together

A lot of these dudes snitching on themselves. They either don't have it together like they think or they just

 

[BocaRear]

while this is true to an extent, let's not act like there's chicks out there who aren't attracted to guys that are douchebags, just because they love guys who treat em like ish

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Lets get real....generally speaking when a female says someone is "nice", that usually means he isnt physically attractive and its a "nice" way of saying he's mediocre looking. LOL at this idea that a good looking man who has his sht together isnt desirable, and cant get a date, as if all women are hanging out by the prison waiting on releases.

I don't agree with this.

Women's lust for bad boys is real. It's not saying that an attractive 'good guy' can't get a date...that's a whole other variable.

You must control variables in order to make a statement about something, and in general, for the same level of attractiveness, the bad boy gets more play. Women crave adventure and protection, two areas that favor bad boys.

Edit: a chick calling someone nice, isn't the same as the 'nice guy' label.

I agree that when a chick says a dude is nice, she's just saying she ain't attracted to them...be it physically, mentally, emotionally or even circumstantially

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I don't agree with this.

Women's lust for bad boys is real. It's not saying that an attractive 'good guy' can't get a date...that's a whole other variable.

You must control variables in order to make a statement about something, and in general, for the same level of attractiveness, the bad boy gets more play. Women crave adventure and protection, two areas that favor bad boys.

Edit: a chick calling someone nice, isn't the same as the 'nice guy' label.

I agree that when a chick says a dude is nice, she's just saying she ain't attracted to them...be it physically, mentally, emotionally or even circumstantially

Not too much I disagree with here, but if we are to control variables we just cant just control ones convenient to your position. For starters I think a "bad boy" is ill defined, and is a catch all phrase that generally means someone who has more personality and charisma, versus someone who is more reserved. You can have two cats with the same relative level of "niceness", its just that one cat is willing to aggressively approach and flirt w/ a girl, while the other has more of a bland and boring personality. In a club type setting the "bad boy" obviously has the better chances, while in perhaps a more academic or mature envion the "nice guy" would probably have an advantage controlling for all factors.

EDIT: We have to be careful in conflating being sheepish, shy, and lacking personality with being "nice". Those are shortcomings.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

Nevermind

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

im nice, and like wiley says: hello hi

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

Women don't know what the fukk they want period

 

[LA Fisher]

Women don't know what the fukk they want period

This is a lie. Women always know what they want.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Not too much I disagree with here, but if we are to control variables we just cant just control ones convenient to your position. For starters I think a "bad boy" is ill defined, and is a catch all phrase that generally means someone who has more personality and charisma, versus someone who is more reserved. You can have two cats with the same relative level of "niceness", its just that one cat is willing to aggressively approach and flirt w/ a girl, while the other has more of a bland and boring personality. In a club type setting the "bad boy" obviously has the better chances, while in perhaps a more academic or mature envion the "nice guy" would probably have an advantage controlling for all factors.

Well, I only controlled attractiveness, cuz that's what we were talking about, but I agree that the terms 'bad boy' and 'nice guy' are ill-defined.

I wouldn't say it has anything to do with aggressiveness or introversion. You could have the bad boy who doesn't say much, yet chicks dig him cuz he's 'mysterious' and there's the nice guy who's always trying to have a good time, but is careful not to step on anyone's toes or content to go with the flow.

IMO, it's more about adventure and power. Women are attracted to those qualities. And I think this is true whether it's in a club or academia, it's just the qualities that define a 'bad boy' are different in those arenas.

 

[The ADD]

Women People don't know what the fukk they want period

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

This is a lie. Women always know what they want.

Wrong, once women get what they want, there bored with it or its not what they expected. They think this relationship will be better cause of so and so reason but it isn't and then they change, its the same thing, rinse, wash, cycle, repeat