Perfectly stated. The first paragraph has been my experience. I know many women who used it to get to the next level and that was it. However, I also seen women get lost in the game. It's not something for weak minded people and the Sera Sevens of the world are promising a lot of weak minded women realites that just aren't true.Agree with all of this. Back in day came up promoting in "make it rain era" Late '00s to mid '10s, from hole in wall strip clubs to biggest night club in world where bottle girls work 6 months making 100k+. NONE of those girls glamorized it, kept it off socials and if someone came with camera was pointed out by security. Dam near ALL the girls I saw who came up, got what they wanted and was out pretty much had same mindset (already came with exit plan in mind, wasnt about the club drama/bs, stayed sober and wasnt tryna party, coming to get it and get out short timeline), I seen women become Dr., Lawyer, a bunch of nurses and a couple millionaires (I posted about one on here because she share her story on social and basically public figure). NONE of them glamorize "sex work"
Obviously with social media you can keep contact with loose ties now and seeing how majority got caught up in cycle its a dam shame how that became the dominant "dating" strategy that is being sold now. And with how you can sell a lifestyle on social media young people believe it with no discernment. That arena is not for mainstream consumption but they become equally toxic because you are basically predator vs. predator. You will run into that, if you not on that you are food. But when you take veryyy small segment of society and spread that mindset to masses, I just dont see the benefit. The people in that segment didnt even want to be there but now you have everyone thinking this is the way. And its on BOTH sides.
These women really want to believe that they are so beautiful and sexy that a man will just open his bank account to them.
In reality they're sloppy, lazy, no personality, overly vain and insanely insecure. On top of that they are so down they are fighting for crumbs.
You have to be starving for decent treatment is you define how a stranger feels about via coffee.
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#TheChildOfMan. Take your power back by valuing yourself enough to not do this type of work,then forgive yourself if you already did. Then raise the value of others who are succeptable to lowering themselves to do this type of work.
, being black in America you grew up strong now nikkas is weak. I don't know how I'd be able to raise black kids in this environment, this is why I said these new kids are cooked, 2 parent household living in a house and all. Meanwhile, we were scraping by in the projects.