Im 25 should I start looking for a wife?

[ZoeGod]

Im 24 and nikka i only care about getting my money up, get a crib and live life. I will worry about marriage in 10 years. I wanna live life first. Hey if you wanna get married go ahead but its too young to think about it.

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

30's should be the earliest you think about it, people don't even really begin to know and settle into themselves until their late 20's; and when you get into a relationship, take it slow.

 

[Elle Driver]

Listen here grandma, I said I'm interested in marriage and will pursue it within the next 3 years (financial security, putting her through my vetting process, etc.) and I plan have some kids to raise and do 10x better than me so shaddup.

Grandma just concerned

 

[50CentStan]

30's should be the earliest you think about it, people don't even really begin to know and settle into themselves until their late 20's; and when you get into a relationship, take it slow.

GREAT advice

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Grandma just concerned

Get up out dat man's bidness.

 

[Elle Driver]

Get up out dat man's bidness.

As a matter of fact when your old ass gonna get married

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

As a matter of fact when your old ass gonna get married

I ain't inna rush and neeva is she...yet.

 

[International Playa]

There is no right answer here mannnn, some people get married young and are divorced in their 30s.

Then if you wait till your 30s, women in your age range, will usually have baggage, kids or emotional baggage from past relationships.

No real answer

 

[Elle Driver]

I ain't inna rush and neeva is she...yet.

Time is ticking

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Time is ticking

Not for me it ain't.

 

[A1aaa]

Fam, I said the same shyt.

Got married at 27, divorced at 32. My pops was giving me the whole time..probably already knew what was coming the whole time.

The bytch was messing around with her ex, I really didn't care I just wanted the bytch gone as soon as possible, however, as soon as she found out I knew about it (my ma threatened to body her before I could confront her) she filed papers talking about irreconcilable differences. I'll just say this..that in the end, I was stuck with financial upheaval for a couple of years and I don't mind saying it. nikka was sporting a (clean) Focus, living on a tight budget and rebuilding credit because the broad decided to buy as much of the mall on my dime as possible. I lost actual years of my life for buying into that marriage shyt and the consequences of it all going wrong..no regrets though, coming out of that trial made me a much stronger and wiser man, albeit just as cynical. I still don't recommend it for 20 somethings at all until your financially strong to withstand the blowback if everything goes to hell.

i can imagine being middle-aged / elderly and going through a divorce being just traumatic... that's a lot to go through at that stage in life.

not to mention the financial implications.

i'm gucci on all that... i think that shyt is enough to break a man down, esp if you were not directly in the wrong

at least if it happened when you're young you can bounce back.

 

[The M.I.C.]

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[RatherUnique]

fukk no.

What is this the 40's?

Get married at 35 if you want. It means nothing. Most marriages end in divorce anyway When it happens it will happen organically. Don't look for it though

 

[iBrowse]

Grandma just concerned

Thanks :totheeastside:

 

[Randoug]

#GMB the army better yet the navy
never marry heaux, never give them babys