I'm 26 but I'm already having a midlife crisis...

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The good thing is...I can pinpoint why I feel this way and correct it (depression and anxiety and poverty taught me that)

I thought long and hard about it this past weekend and realize that I get to "get back out there and live" ... I used to do something new and exciting every weekend with my homies and I haven't in a while. My new job is double my old pay but my old job never had me stuck in the office for more than 2 hours # journalism :ohlawd:

Idk....I'll be good. Just got to get out the house and keep busy, as you said.

Exactly man....you good.. lol just don't forgive to live
 
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The World took his money.
And his wife left him running.
As he felt his life kept on thinning.
It was the day he stopped grinning.
 

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Gotta get out and live man. Im in the same boat. this corporate rat race crap isn't for me. dress shoes, slacks and shirt :francis:

2 hr commute:francis:

BS cacs :francis:
2 hours :huhldup:

12 hours driving and working :scust:
8 sleeping :ehh:

4 to yourself :scusthov:

My boss is black and we got some dope black people in there......but of course the ppl at the top of the food chain are cacs
 

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12 hours driving and working :scust:
8 sleeping :ehh:

4 to yourself :scusthov:

My boss is black and we got some dope black people in there......but of course the ppl at the top of the food chain are cacs

I leave my house at 7, fight thru traffic for 45mins. Catch the train for bout an hour:francis:
Get off at 6, dint get to my car till 7:30. Get to the gym at around 8:15. Dont get home till 9:30-10.

I need to work with blacks. Im the only black person who works in my actual core team. And its only bout 4 black ppl all together including me
 

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The pressure of being a man and a good man at that is too real.

When you settle down at 26 you start to wondering what and who you gonna miss out on.... Most the time its just " the grass is greener" syndrome.
 

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Naw....its just like....I'm still young enough to be outchea partying and fukking thick pawgs, but I'm in a great job and damn near married with a dog :why:

Not even that. I guess I'm just realizing it is time to buckle down, get out of debt and just invest :why:

IDK but I don't want to age anymore :why:

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I fukkin agree with everything you just said
I constantly find myself looking at ways to switch shyt up
I also constantly look at old folks knowing that will be me one day before ya know it :beli:
 

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The pressure of being a man and a good man at that is too real.

When you settle down at 26 you start to wondering what and who you gonna miss out on.... Most the time its just " the grass is greener" syndrome.
Yeah...I don't want to be single but I just want to get back to doing the shyt I didn't when I was living with alone and not with my girl everyday

I can do all that while living with her though and she always tells me to go do things with my homies but I be so tired from work that I just want to relax every weekend :why:
 

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Yeah...I don't want to be single but I just want to get back to doing the shyt I didn't when I was living with alone and not with my girl everyday

I can do all that while living with her though and she always tells me to go do things with my homies but I be so tired from work that I just want to relax every weekend :why:

Breh I'm telling you I went through the EXACT same thing at about 27, I put a dent in my engagement that never could be straighten out.... All because I was wanting to just have my own space and time to enjoy life at that age... My girl and our relationship was never the same after that. NEVER and we were very much in love up until that point she probably love me more than I loved her four times over.


All because I just wanted to come home and chill, or play video games sometimes, or hang out with the fellas on the weekend sometimes...Even after things changed, me telling her that I needed a bit of space changed the dynamic of the relationship. She pretty much took it as I wanted to break up (even though I told her over and over again that wasn't what it was) and that we are still an item. There's more to the story of course but that is just my part in recognizing the damaged I caused. I'd hate to see another breh go through that.


It really wasn't worth it breh, if you with a chick you really care about and love focus on that, and now years later all the things I wanted time to do I dont even really enjoy like I did then and alot of my homies have settled down or moved.

Grass is always greener breh.
 

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Breh I'm telling you I went through the EXACT same thing at about 27, I put a dent in my engagement that never could be straighten out.... All because I was wanting to just have my own space and time to enjoy life at that age... My girl and our relationship was never the same after that. NEVER and we were very much in love up until that point she probably love me more than I loved her four times over.


All because I just wanted to come home and chill, or play video games sometimes, or hang out with the fellas on the weekend sometimes...Even after things changed, me telling her that I needed a bit of space changed the dynamic of the relationship. She pretty much took it as I wanted to break up (even though I told her over and over again that wasn't what it was) and that we are still an item. There's more to the story of course but that is just my part in recognizing the damaged I caused. I'd hate to see another breh go through that.


It really wasn't worth it breh, if you with a chick you really care about and love focus on that, and now years later all the things I wanted time to do I dont even really enjoy like I did then and alot of my homies have settled down or moved.

Grass is always greener breh.
Damn so true...I don't want other hoes or to go to club.
I just want to chill and play da game and not wash the dishes right away :laff:

It's crazy man

But I think you're right breh
 
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