It's one of our clearest purposes as human beings, males start producing sperm between 10-12 years old. Of course because of the society we participate in, it's difficult to properly care for a child independently when you're under 18 years old. Hell I'd even say 24.
But in American society, from my perspective, dudes 30+ chilling at the club listening to Rae Sremmurd with a bunch of dudes 25-30+ is suspect.
Especially if he's single. I can understand a married man with kids "chillin' with the fellas" once in a while. But you're 30+...it's really suspect when dudes are financially stable and single. Who doesn't love smashing a variety of women? But you have to grow up, I've heard stories about guys living that single life too long and ended up dying of AIDS. And at my age I can honestly say that random casual sex with a harem of women doesn't do anything for me, I'm content with a monogamous relationship. Unprotected sex feels much better and is more fun when you're not worrying about the chances that you've contracted a disease or infection. I don't care what anyone has to say about it either, and I believe a lot of men define their masculinity by surrounding themselves with coveted women. Most women start wanting kids around 23-25 after college and securing a job. In reality they're married or pregnant by 26-29. If they pass that 30 mark, they're usually not that fun to be around, and men start suspected something is wrong with them, turning them into the bitter "sidekicks" you see at the club. The ones eager to lock you down after the first night because their biological clock is ticking.
What ever a guy's reason for not having kids after 30+, it's not normal to me ...40 and I'm looking at you like this:
cause they already know how its going to end??
maybe they just don't want kids. wtf yall acting like kids aren't annoying af.
why does it matter?
