I dapped your last post.. but it more and more seems you want black women to fail or reduce themselves so you can be like see, I told you so and shyt.
if you waiting for age to kick in for them to NEED a husband, then thats not really a "I told you so" moment
Truth is Black women are advancing more than black men. Their credit tends to be better. The world is bigger than IG thots yall see getting passed around.
Halle Berry has probably been more ran through than Vivica and Vivica much older than her.
The whole dynamics of Husband and Wife unions are a huge issue and it def dont start with Vivica and her looks
Im not saying you, but Coli comes off as hella hating towards women.
I want the black women who don't abide to truth to fail, men too. The truth of the matter is, the entitlement, the ego, the attitude, the sass, the hard-headness is what some coli brehs are saying "I told you so" towards.
The women who create this energy. the women who post these demands that they "expect" from men, those women created this way or the highway and the ones who can't get NO MAN from ANY RACE because of their entitlement should fail, men too.
Most men, have 3-4 things, fit, friendly, cooperative and pretty. That's most men list and most men stand on it.
The whole told you comes off because men have been saying x, y, and z only for it to come to reality for some of these women. So what if some women and men, have the "I told you" attitude. IT's life.
It's bad for me and others to have a "told you so" energy cloud but it's ok for the person who didn't take heed to the instructions to want compassion? Life doesn't go that way. Even with kids. You don't wanna listen, you been told the stove is hot, you touch it, now you learn and the "I told you" is what is the result of the person who tried to warn the kid.
You made the bed you lay in, so deal with it, that goes for women, and men, but in this situation, it's the woman.
Black women are advancing? In what ways breh?
Black women do NOT make more money than black men? So what is this advancing that you speak of?
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I would not have been as open-minded in my youth though 
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This is so embarrassing. In my life, I've lived through the arc of '
It's a black person on tv!' through the Golden Age of black film, to now, and you know what? I don't need representation no more. Get these bytches off my screens. It's demoralizing, it's shameful.
