I'm a not a virgin but still a loser in the game

ThaRealness

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Bro you aint incel! Don't even say that shyt!

It was a time when I was a virgin and my life overlapped with the incel life. Even then I wasn't incel. Its a fundamental difference between being a loser, having mental health issues, being fat out of shape ugly, and being incel.

Don't joke about that shyt
 

you're NOT "n!ggas"

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Tips please :feedme:

I always heard it was good to do it, but I can only do it for like 5 minutes tops because the bad thoughts are hella strong and they won't stop.

  1. Basic meditation: Find somewhere quiet to sit, close your eyes, and just focus on your breathing. I like to start with a few deep, deliberate breaths to get settled but from then on just breathe naturally and bring your attention to your breaths. Thoughts will come to mind (My show comes on tonight, Oh shyt! I gave so and so money last week, has he paid me back?! :wtf:") but when you catch yourself focusing on them, just go back to your breathing. Eventually you get to a trance-like state or get that sense of relief you're looking for. You can start short at 3-5mins but I like 15mins or more.
    1. Once you've gotten this one down you can expand to focusing on your entire body. The sensations you feel sitting, the sensations of your clothes on your skin, your heartbeat, etc.
  2. Walking meditation: This one is deliberate in your breathing. Take a step, breathe in. Take the next step, breathe out, repeat. Again bringing all your focus to these two things. The first time I did it I thought "this is the dumbest shyt ever" :gucci: but that next week I went to the gym and locked all my shyt in my car and wound up having to walk like 4 miles back to my place (I had a roommate). I was pissed at the start of the walk but midway thru this feeling came over me like "This is the best walk I've ever had my life :wow:" -- It still is, and I wasn't even doing that shyt I was just walking normal :dwillhuh:
Common meditative practices that people don't consider. Think about it, you generally aren't worried about shyt else when you're doing these activities. That's what people mean when they say they "get into a zone":
  1. Weightlifting
  2. Dancing
  3. Running/Cardio
 

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@Rose Gold I'm pretty sure I told you before to try meditation. Did you ever do that? Cuz it sounds like you're still letting your thoughts take complete control of you.



If you start with drugs right now you'll become an addict :ufdup: straight up. Even if it helps you get all the p*ssy you desire, the world is gonna collapse from under you and swallow you up with even more problems.



Why you ain't tell him to download that thang? :lawd:
 

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@Rose Gold

Bro, I'v seen you bounce between highs and lows on here.

You need to see a professional now :ufdup:

You aren't any of the labels you just called yourself and you know it.

Go get ya mind right :ufdup:
 

Rozay Oro

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you get back to drugs by taking them, and you get back to going to raves by finding their location and just going :yeshrug:
Cac humor right here and your reading comprehension skills are poor
 

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get your vitamin D levels up first before you deplete your dopamine with drugs.
Vitamin D deficiency causes “loser” symptoms
 
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