"Im a square,theres nothing wrong with it,we run everything"-Van Lathan to a bedwench
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lol you say this but the truth is that "thugs" fukk with some of the dustiest looking women ever
huge ass nails
obnoxious / colored wigs
fake eyelashes
tattoos
guts/fupas
BBLs
a handsome square dude will nab a better looking woman than the thug 90% of the time. only men who get better are athletes. shyt...look at Lil Durks baby mama for christs sake
Because the origin of the word was used by nikkas in the street(pimps/dealers) to tear down black men who went the legal route and worked for the "man"...
Youre missing the point.
The HVM convo is highlighting the fact that there is a pecking order in the world and as a man you should mold yourself around it because it gives you the best chance to succeed in this world (especially with women).
This analagous to the NBA where there is a pecking order of skillsets. The NBA is in the 3 ball era, you have to be a good shooter to be a high value player.
So if Black Women said that "having money and resources and powermatter so we prefer cacs" ....
Then id do exactly what Ibaka did.
Realize this is the way of the world and integrate that into my skillset.
Doesnt mean everyone is going to be tripping over themselves to pay/choose you.
But all it takes is one and once you integrate that skill, its a good chance that whoever chooses you is also of *quality* as well even if they arent your first choice/team (if you know what i mean. This is where the HVM narrative ties into hopping the fence)
So if there's a pecking order in which White Men are valued higher than Black Men in white society then what reason is there for Black Women to pick Black Men over white Men in said society?
If a black women goes against it then she is essentially not going after a high value male, which means high value male theory is wrong then doesn't it?
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
Just as a NBA team cannot pick every high impact perimeter scorer, black women cant pick every cac. Also while perimeter scoring is the most valued skillset, it isnt the only skill thats accounted for. Personality, defense, bbiq...some clubs like the Spurs and Toronto put a premium on that.... Just as other cultures put preimum on things like religion, cultural compatibility, machismo/swag, etc
Piff Perkins
Veteran
But the basis of being a high value man is based on wealth, finances, resources and ownership not other things so you're analogy doesn't work.
I'm gonna ask you again if White Men are valued higher than Black Men in white society and have the resources, have more money, have more wealth, own more, control more then what reason is there for Black Women to pick Black Men over white Men in said society?
You can't answer it can you?
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
Ain’t that Rachel Lindsay chic married to a cac? She fumbled the KD bag when he was in college too
Because plain, square, unassuming Black men are drowned out of media, and the useless thug street types are what's promoted. It's done on purpose, by design.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
It's ironic isn't it.
Squares complain about the women they want only wanting "thugs".
Yet they never go after nerdish female squares who don't want thugs.
When you ask them why they've got every excuse in the book "not enough attraction", "not in shape" "too homely", "too boring" etc. There's always an excuse.
I saw some chick say the other day that "Black Men wouldn't never go after a Ketanji Brown Jackson because of how she looks" which I thought was bullshyt.
But thinking on it Black squares who have issues with women that want thugs would definitely say no to a Ketanji Brown even though a woman like that would never consider or be interested in a "thug"
Why should a so called square have to date an unattractive woman if he's not unattractive?
I went to law school with black women who were hooking up with my weed man.
And I'm not judging, I'm just saying going to school doesn't mean anything about you except that you go to school. Plenty of educated women with "thugs".
When Black death on wax became profitable, drug dealing became viable start up and long term business and 9 to 5 became a slur to many..
1080 deal
