"I'm a strong independent women, but I want a provider"

SupremexKing

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I had to stop talking to a girl with that mindset. She's a nurse and I'm a respiratory therapist so we both make a similar amount of money. Both of our incomes combined would have been 140k-160k annually but she was on some her money is her money and my money is our money.

Like others have said a lot of women have brainwashed by tv and social media. This isn't the 50s and 60s where a woman could be a housewife and raise the children and a man could work one job his entire adult life without a college degree and afford a house, two cars, a family vacation, etc. Hell most black families during that time period couldn't even live that lifestyle.

A lot of people nowadays go into marriage not thinking about coming together as one but what they can get out of it for themselves.
many black women (and male simps) have adopted this weird idea of some kind of patriarchy in the black community, when if you look at the history of our people, it was always men and women working together in an equitable manner. they've gone to these colleges and gotten brainwashed by liberal cacs, the same liberal cacs who won't explain to them how much more wealthy they are than bw. they can afford to have these garbage ass ideologies.

they wanna shame you into being accepting "nontraditional gender roles" while simultaneously guilt you into being the breadwinner and paying for everything, as if there's this mass of bm out there making over 80k. these bytches living on fantasy island
 

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I finally read the comments of that video. Women are straight up mentally ill.

I don't mind covering all expenses but there has to be an even exchange of skills.

And in that regard, the only type of women that I will cover all finances for are women who have social capital and the awareness to navigate the social/charitable circuit; as the result of having those skills can help increase one's networth.

I see that as an even exchange.

If a woman that I marry doesn't have social capital, that means I'm going to have to pull my own weight in that area, which is a lot of work, on top of maintaining my own professional career, so I will be contributing less financially in which she is going to have to contribute more.

She's either contributing socially or contributing financially.

And in either case, she's still responsible for maintaining the house.

That's fair. That's called being strategic in terms of mating. A lot of men don't think like that. They just see a fat ass and want to wife her up.

A woman who comes from a well-connected family or social network is much better for you in the long run than just a fat ass.
 

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Women these days are crazy, imagine making like lets say 70k and your wife makes 70k. But you have to pay all the bills etc. while her money is just her money.

I got a friend who's girl makes significantly more than him, and he's paying the majority of all the bills while she's not accountable for anything really.
 

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So you’re saying submission is based on what a man is able to provide. Interesting......
:yeshrug: Yea, thats the reality.

Which makes sense when you think about it.

If a man cant provide, why should the woman follow?

Women fukk up when they want to be hardheaded/problematic with a man providing them everything
 

Ashley Banks

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Yo this chick is retarded...


She said “and you come home to a clean house...” like bytch I could just hire a maid :mjlol:


And females got to understand, this isn’t the 1950’s anymore like how her parents lived. Gas isn’t 99 cents... Milk isn’t $2. EVERYTHING is much more expensive that even living alone is trash on certain salaries... I got people I work with that got roommates just to save some $$$.

Like I really do believe some women just want to be grown ass children. If I pay ALL the bills you better not say shyt about anything I do, anyplace I go, and any side chick I fukk with...food better be on the table when I walk IN the door. You better not nag me for shyt. I better get my dikk sucked whenever I ask. House better be on point at all time...


If you sitting on shyt I bought all day watching cable I pay for, eating food I purchased, in a dirty ass house I pay for, then you expect me to come home and feed my self then you can get ALL the way tf out of my life.

So you want her to work just as hard as you, pay just as many bills as you, cook, clean, and let you “lead” her? :skip: why would she do that? The only options are get cheated on and treated like a slave and stay at home or get treated like a slave and work and pay half the bills?

what a prize :unimpressed:
 

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Make your cake and want to eat it too brehs and brehettes


Edit: This sort of breh is part of the reason why women are so fukked up

He wants to split bulls 50/50 but then wants the woman to submit.
If I pay all the bills dont expect me to be faithful
 
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