The irony and idiocy in OP's post is that he loves to state that young people shouldn't take advice from older people.... and his reasons tend to be unfounded and downright moronic...
But yet here he is, for self esteem reasons more than likely, telling young people to heed his advice without reputability or credence that his posts to absolute strangers warrant a serious deliberation...
He speaks of economic empowerment but he has yet to yield any proof that he's of such acclaim.....
He wants to be taken seriously in the matters of the heart and relationships but readily admits his own shortcomings in his so called "real" personal life...
So I have to ask the question, why would a complete stranger seriously consider the advice of another complete stranger who fits this criteria....