I’m about to make my mother stop communicating with my ex.

[b_low_brown]

He threatened to and she got out in front of it and came clean before he did.

Lmao nikka most girls are gonna leave out facts about their past. God knows what else she/your other partners have hidden. Stop asking questions u don’t even really want answers to

 

[Golayitdown]

You share that mom

 

[ORDER_66]

You share that mom

 

[kdslittlebro]

You share that mom

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You share that mom

Underrated post.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I had to fire my ex last year because she lied about some shyt but my mother still talks to her and it’s starting to piss me off. Have any of you dealt with this type of situation without there being any children involved?

Yep.
I told my moms to cut it off with my ex or I was cutting her off as well.
She tried me.
Didn't speak to her for 4 years.
Then when my ex robbed her ass too...she came crying tears about "I shoulda listened to you...I'm sooorry...I'm sorrry...."


If she wasn't my moms I'd have told her to fukk off and lose my number.

 

[Diondon]

Violation. If I got beef, you got beef too and vice versa. fukk you mean?

 

[86\*/98]

She worked for you??

Or do you mean you had to cancel that bytch??

The latter

Lmao nikka most girls are gonna leave out facts about their past. God knows what else she/your other partners have hidden. Stop asking questions u don’t even really want answers to

She didn’t have to leave anything out because I was going to give her a pass as long as she was honest but she still lied and after this dude started telling her friend that he was going to send me the video she got back in contact with him to try and stop it. This went on for a couple of weeks and she finally went off on him and got scared that he was actually going to send me the video, which is the only reason I found out. If she was honest from the jump, when he pulled this she could’ve told me and I would’ve pulled up on his goofy ass. If love and respect isn’t enough to keep it a buck with your s/o shyt like this is another reason why you should be honest with someone you want to build with.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

What does their relationship have to do with you?

Imagine dating a woman whose family is still for her ex.
I wouldn't date her very long

 

[Dad]

Blame yourself. You brought her around. Now they like each other and have a friendship beyond you.

 

[Jsully]

My mother got my ex wife a Christmas gift

Yall got kids together?? She probably did it for the sake of having a healthy relationship with her so she can see the grandkids easier

 

[Jsully]

He threatened to and she got out in front of it and came clean before he did.

Im confused why you cancelled her then breh. That shyt is human nature. She probably thought you would look at her different if she came clean. You should have cursed her ass all the way out for lying and then made her grovel to prove her sincerity just so you know what she truly is willing to do to be with you. If all that was satisfactory, then she could stay. But to just cancel her cause she lied to protect your ego. I dunno breh

With that said, I've cancelled bytches for less so...

 

[Benefited]

Long story short she lied about never being filmed in a sexual act. Since her ex before me is emotional and mama-made that lie came back to bite her.

FIrst of all respect your mama and realize you can't tell your mama a god damn thing:henbron:
She probably already told her this and she is so ashamed of you thinking "I can't believe this is the son I raised".
You let another nikkas bytch made actions hurt you?even though he blaytantly disrespected you if he sent it,and there should have been consequences for him.
You may have done the right thing making her your ex,but as a man you should have gave her the guidance of why righteous women don't do shyt like that with men who have them as unclaimables,not even with you. Then you cut her off,allow your mother to do her job in this world and nurture her,then she will go away on her own.
This all has to do with you not manning up and still being hurt,this will be your challenge to work on for your own growth,let your mama be a healer and tap into your own ability as a healer.


I've been in a similar situation about the a video recording of a woman I was with. I asked straight up just because it matters to me,and she told me no when I put her on the spot.Then one day when I was being open talking about my past,laughing and having a good time,she forgets she lied and confesses that one of her exes did record her in sexual acts. It was immediate bushes season for her,but that was in my pre righteous era,I am a different person to day. I would still cut her lose gracefully,which you seem to have done so far until now.

 

[Benefited]

Imagine dating a woman whose family is still for her ex.
I wouldn't date her very long

Mamas are usually right about the women they try to keep around for you. They just know you haven't evolved yet,or haven't stepped in your manhood enough to where you can control that woman fully yet,or that the girl has some growing to do but is great potential. Be glad your mother is keeping those women as bookmarkers in your life. In some instances your mother is even doing the job you were supposed to be doing as a man and giving the young lady guidance,and building her up into a righteous woman

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Wow my mama is the opposite. I cant even make up with friends without her being like "Why you talking to that bytch for?"

She dont like nobody that hurt us. And I'm not even close to my mama like that cause she's hella toxic.