I’m about to make my mother stop communicating with my ex.

[86\*/98]

Im confused why you cancelled her then breh. That shyt is human nature. She probably thought you would look at her different if she came clean. You should have cursed her ass all the way out for lying and then made her grovel to prove her sincerity just so you know what she truly is willing to do to be with you. If all that was satisfactory, then she could stay. But to just cancel her cause she lied to protect your ego. I dunno breh

With that said, I've cancelled bytches for less so...

FIrst of all respect your mama and realize you can't tell your mama a god damn thing:henbron:
She probably already told her this and she is so ashamed of you thinking "I can't believe this is the son I raised".
You let another nikkas bytch made actions hurt you?even though he blaytantly disrespected you if he sent it,and there should have been consequences for him.
You may have done the right thing making her your ex,but as a man you should have gave her the guidance of why righteous women don't do shyt like that with men who have them as unclaimables,not even with you. Then you cut her off,allow your mother to do her job in this world and nurture her,then she will go away on her own.
This all has to do with you not manning up and still being hurt,this will be your challenge to work on for your own growth,let your mama be a healer and tap into your own ability as a healer.


I've been in a similar situation about the a video recording of a woman I was with. I asked straight up just because it matters to me,and she told me no when I put her on the spot.Then one day when I was being open talking about my past,laughing and having a good time,she forgets she lied and confesses that one of her exes did record her in sexual acts. It was immediate bushes season for her,but that was in my pre righteous era,I am a different person to day. I would still cut her lose gracefully,which you seem to have done so far until now.

@Benefited my mother will do as I ask because the last time she didn’t I cut her off for 6 months, something that still saddens her to this day. She won’t try me when I tell her to cut this shyt out.

Fellas, we all have a program when we deal with women if you two forgive lies and hand out passes like a hall monitor that’s fine! I on the other hand don’t play that shyt. I wasn’t hurt because she made sextapes with her ex I was disappointed that she lied about something so silly. I was serious when I told her I’d give her a pass for whatever if she was honest and I was also serious when I told her I’d fire her if she lied. I love and respected her to the point that I planned to make her the mother of my children but none of that equals the love and respect I have for myself as a man. And as a man I operate in truth so I had to stick to my word and cancel her because I said I would.

So @Benefited I “manned up” in spite of my feelings for her and did what I knew to be righteous in my book. If you disagree that’s fine because once again we all have our own programs.

 

[86\*/98]

Wow my mama is the opposite. I cant even make up with friends without her being like "Why you talking to that bytch for?"

She dont like nobody that hurt us. And I'm not even close to my mama like that cause she's hella toxic.

Anyone ever tell you that you look like [kevin] Dreka fine ass [/gates]?

 

[Benefited]

@Benefited my mother will do as I ask because the last time she didn’t I cut her off for 6 months, something that still saddens her to this day. She won’t try me when I tell her to cut this shyt out.

Fellas, we all have a program when we deal with women if you two forgive lies and hand out passes like a hall monitor that’s fine! I on the other hand don’t play that shyt. I wasn’t hurt because she made sextapes with her ex I was disappointed that she lied about something so silly. I was serious when I told her I’d give her a pass for whatever if she was honest and I was also serious when I told her I’d fire her if she lied. I love and respected her to the point that I planned to make her the mother of my children but none of that equals the love and respect I have for myself as a man. And as a man I operate in truth so I had to stick to my word and cancel her because I said I would.

So @Benefited I “manned up” in spite of my feelings for her and did what I knew to be righteous in my book. If you disagree that’s fine because once again we all have our own programs.

So it was something silly,yet you threatened to cancel her if she lied about it? We can't prove if you manned up or just let your pride force you to do something you admittingly didn't want to do. If you were acting on righteous feelings you wouldn't have had to man up to cancel her,all romantic feelings would have been deaded and you wouldn't give a damn about mama talking to her right now. Certainly wouldn't make your mother sad over something so trivial,and a woman with so little meaning.
This is not righteousness,this is more in the realm of ego. Trust me on this because I am more righteous than you at this point in time.
Trying to extort women by threatning to take your love and understanding away is childish behavior,when as men we are to raise women who are basically children,even your mother. If this woman was apolagetic,you have no reason to continue to punish her and certainly not your mother.
Sounds like the universe is telling you that you may fukked up,and thats why this woman hasn't just vanished and still hangs around.
I remember when I was ready to die over principles people may not have understood,and I still have principles like that,but we grow. Even wicked people and idiots have principles,so men have to realize principles and sticking to principles don't make you anything special as a man,thats dependant on the situation.
Principles don't make me now,I make the principles and I make the exceptions:respect:.

 

[86\*/98]

So it was something silly,yet you threatened to cancel her if she lied about it? We can't prove if you manned up or just let your pride force you to do something you admittingly didn't want to do. If you were acting on righteous feelings you wouldn't have had to man up to cancel her,all romantic feelings would have been deaded and you wouldn't give a damn about mama talking to her right now. Certainly wouldn't make your mother sad over something so trivial,and a woman with so little meaning.
This is not righteousness,this is more in the realm of ego. Trust me on this because I am more righteous than you at this point in time.
Trying to extort women by threatning to take your love and understanding away is childish behavior,when as men we are to raise women who are basically children,even your mother. If this woman was apolagetic,you have no reason to continue to punish her and certainly not your mother.
Sounds like the universe is telling you that you may fukked up,and thats why this woman hasn't just vanished and still hangs around.
I remember when I was ready to die over principles people may not have understood,and I still have principles like that,but we grow. Even wicked people and idiots have principles,so men have to realize principles and sticking to principles don't make you anything special as a man,thats dependant on the situation.
Principles don't make me now,I make the principles and I make the exceptions.

I’m not going to debate about how I deal with women. Keep fighting the good fight righteous man!

 

[Roland Coltrane]

@Benefited my mother will do as I ask because the last time she didn’t I cut her off for 6 months, something that still saddens her to this day. She won’t try me when I tell her to cut this shyt out.

Fellas, we all have a program when we deal with women if you two forgive lies and hand out passes like a hall monitor that’s fine! I on the other hand don’t play that shyt. I wasn’t hurt because she made sextapes with her ex I was disappointed that she lied about something so silly. I was serious when I told her I’d give her a pass for whatever if she was honest and I was also serious when I told her I’d fire her if she lied. I love and respected her to the point that I planned to make her the mother of my children but none of that equals the love and respect I have for myself as a man. And as a man I operate in truth so I had to stick to my word and cancel her because I said I would.

So @Benefited I “manned up” in spite of my feelings for her and did what I knew to be righteous in my book. If you disagree that’s fine because once again we all have our own programs.

you dont have to explain shyt to rapists like that Benefited cat breh

 

[Benefited]

I’m not going to debate about how I deal with women. Keep fighting the good fight righteous man!

Do you have a mother for your children yet?are you righteously attached or married?your way ain't working,but good luck:respect:

 

[86\*/98]

you dont have to explain shyt to rapists like that Benefited cat breh

I think you’re misspelling RIGHTEOUS, right?

 

[Roland Coltrane]

I think you’re misspelling RIGHTEOUS, right?

nah. He admitted to coercing a girl into having sex with him while he had a gun on the night stand

also did some other rapey shyt. Continued with foreplay even after a girl said no

a quick search will show you the truth about that cat

 

[86\*/98]

nah. He admitted to coercing a girl into having sex with him while he had a gun on the night stand

also did some other rapey shyt. Continued with foreplay even after a girl said no

a quick search will show you the truth about that cat

Ok I remember that thread.