I'm about to throw DC, my 100k job and all of my CERTS in bushes...

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

How much money are you making playa

If u havent crossed that 6 figure threshold why are u giving a 6 figga nikka advice

That's what I'm saying. @Napoleon, exactly what are you into/getting into? No shade, I'm honestly curious. I think I remember you saying something about biology a couple times HL.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Im not surprised with your lack the ambition. You're a weak excuse for a black man. You spend so much time talking about women issues and riding their puss you wasn't able to develop that grit that's very much needed for a black man to succeed in this society. You got the path in front of you and here you are making excuses on why you shouldn't walk it anymore. You wanna be your own boss, while thats a good pipe dream don't use that as a excuse to back down. You can accomplish that and still keep doing what you're doing. You want it to be easy, well it's not.

Maybe if you put as much time into building yourself instead of woman bashing you would be in a better place. How about you stop listening to these nikkas like tommy who bask in black male mediocrity with nothing to show for it you would have a better mindset.

money isn't everything, yes I agree. But be honest with yourself... don't try to play yourself by justifying your reasons for quitting with excuses about family and being home sick. It's disgusting

 

[PimpHandStrong]

I'm tired bruhs. I can't take this area and lifestyle anymore. I miss my family, I miss the south so much. I've sacrifice so much chasing this money. I've been here almost 10 years, never loved it here. I've always wanted to leave, I've been waiting for a good opportunity to leave. I'm starting to believe there isn't going to be a perfect, I'm just about to go back to Louisiana for a few month. Workout, get my mind and spirit right. I've been somewhat depressed lately. This weather, working nightshift and every other Fri, Sat and Sun, missing out on everything. I'm just done. No more to give. Money don't mean sh:t anymore, I saved a lot. The only thing holding me up is my lease which ends July 18th. I was going to try and make, but I can't. I'm mentally exhausted.

Any suggestion on moving companies or how to break a lease w/o having to pay 1000s of dollars?

You know I just had a similar convo with my girl the other day. I was telling her I'm feeling wayyyyy too stressed at my job (air traffic controller). This past month has been hell for me due a number of situations. I enjoy my career but I don't LOVE it, music is my real passion but Im a little torn.

I'm on track to being able to retire with a pension at 48 with like 60% of my salary but I've been thinking of saying fukk all this shyt and get into DJing.

I'm probably going to check out this DJ academy in Atl later year and follow that as a hobby and keep the day job. I take pride in my career just his stress is a bytch, plus 6 day work weeks.

 

[Scientific Playa]

Family is all that there is. I've made a lot of money, have a career, but my life feels empty.



I'm just going to relax in Louisiana for a few months. Get my mind right and look into starting my own business. I don't have the mental to interview or work for anyone right now. My mentally exhausted. I just need to take a few months off and clear my mind. I've saved up enough to take a few years off if I chose to. I just want to workout and spend time with my love one. Money ain't sh:t, especially if it's not big money. I'll probably look into moving to Texas, Cali or ATL in the fall.

After you take some time off and relax, get into tip-top fitness shape.... you'll be refocused and energized. Self employment is a noble goal but you're plugged in 24/7. Give it a try and see if you can balance out things.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

You know I just had a similar convo with my girl the other day. I was telling her I'm feeling wayyyyy too stressed at my job (air traffic controller). This past month has been hell for me due a number of situations. I enjoy my career but I don't LOVE it, music is my real passion but Im a little torn.

I'm on track to being able to retire with a pension at 48 with like 60% of my salary but I've been thinking of saying fukk all this shyt and get into DJing.

I'm probably going to check out this DJ academy in Atl later year and follow that as a hobby and keep the day job. I take pride in my career just his stress is a bytch, plus 6 day work weeks.

I'm sorry bruh. I feel the OP and actually agree with him. but in your case that's just not smart. I mean I don't know the stresses of being an air traffic controller but gotdamn. DJing. come on fam you need to suck that shyt up.

 

[Dez]

Im not surprised with your lack the ambition. You're a weak excuse for a black man. You spend so much time talking about women issues and riding their puss you wasn't able to develop that grit that's very much needed for a black man to succeed in this society. You got the path in front of you and here you are making excuses on why you shouldn't walk it anymore. You wanna be your own boss, while thats a good pipe dream don't use that as a excuse to back down. You can accomplish that and still keep doing what you're doing. You want it to be easy, well it's not.

Maybe if you put as much time into building yourself instead of woman bashing you would be in a better place. How about you stop listening to these nikkas like tommy who bask in black male mediocrity with nothing to show for it you would have a better mindset.

money isn't everything, yes I agree. But be honest with yourself... don't try to play yourself by justifying your reasons for quitting with excuses about family and being home sick. It's disgusting

Be a no neck, simp, 5'3 male feminist brehs ...

 

[Captain Crunch]

Wish you the best breh

 

[Just like bruddas]

Be a no neck, simp, 5'3 male feminist brehs ...

Be a poster who's too scared to get at me so he uses a alias brehs

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I wish you all the luck in the world OP

Quit that job, break that lease, and take that ass to your peoples house!

 

[Ciggavelli]

That's what I'm saying. @Napoleon, exactly what are you into/getting into? No shade, I'm honestly curious. I think I remember you saying something about biology a couple times HL.

He admitted one time that he was going to be a doctor, but "bytch to be a nurse you gotta go to school first"

 

[intruder]

I'm tired bruhs. I can't take this area and lifestyle anymore. I miss my family, I miss the south so much. I've sacrifice so much chasing this money. I've been here almost 10 years, never loved it here. I've always wanted to leave, I've been waiting for a good opportunity to leave. I'm starting to believe there isn't going to be a perfect, I'm just about to go back to Louisiana for a few month. Workout, get my mind and spirit right. I've been somewhat depressed lately. This weather, working nightshift and every other Fri, Sat and Sun, missing out on everything. I'm just done. No more to give. Money don't mean sh:t anymore, I saved a lot. The only thing holding me up is my lease which ends July 18th. I was going to try and make, but I can't. I'm mentally exhausted.

Any suggestion on moving companies or how to break a lease w/o having to pay 1000s of dollars?

What Certifications do you have?

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Man I want to get out of the dmv too

I'm skressed out brehs

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

I feel you and I only been here for three yrs. out this hoe in November tho

 

[DrX]

TS should leave......u cant take that shyt with u....u only get one life..........whats the point of being miserable and having money if u cant enjoy it?

 

[PimpHandStrong]

I'm sorry bruh. I feel the OP and actually agree with him. but in your case that's just not smart. I mean I don't know the stresses of being an air traffic controller but gotdamn. DJing. come on fam you need to suck that shyt up.

I hear you, that's why I leaning more towards keeping that hobby status. Guess I'm taking out my ass a little. I mean day to day ATC is cool. But my dude, when you have a close call you're involved with and even if you didn't make a mistake that messes with you forreal. That is of course if you take this shyt seriously and take pride in your work like me. And God forbid you have an aircraft accident and someone dies....

Most of times you deal with it and find ways to destress, just gotta fight past those rough times.