I’m at a bar alone cause I don’t wanna hear my ex getting dug out... AMA

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If i live with a girl i fukked before then we still together or we will get back together albeit briefly . That sexual tension would be impossible to ignore. I've never been alone with an ex for extended period of time without some kind of flame rekindle, brief as it may be. First it starts out reminiscing, talking about the good ol days. Some good natured friendly digs at why we broke up on some "ha ha you were an a$$hole back then""i know that was my bad lol." then eventually it gets :mjlit: . Like hey, member when we used to :shaq:?" "yeah i remember, you nasty:pachaha::usure:." before eventually some for old times sake sex.

The only way i'd see this not going like that is if they are in a relationship, and in that case i wouldn't be hanging out with them, much less living with them:mjlol:

^^^THIS^^^

I have one ex...lifelong love...probably my soulmate...everytime we see each other over the past 20+ years...this happens. Every...time...
It got to the point that I would just call whoever I was with at the time and break up with them....cause I knew I was gonna fukk and fukk with all I had. The last encounter we had was before she moved across the country, I didn't even entertain anything cause I'm married now...but the two times we met up before that last time, I tried to get her ass pregnant. Had her in the hotel with me for a weekend, room service and all...I busted so many nuts in her it was like a faucet runnin. There was a time where I got tired of the off and on and wanted to force us to have a permanent connection besides spiritual. I don't know what was goin on with me...think I wanted her to make a decision, and she did.

Glad that didnt' work out...baby mamas are no fun.
Even if it's your soulmate.
:whew::blessed:
 

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I'm sure you've already heard her getting her back blown out before though. Is he fukking her better than you were(is she moaning like she's getting that good good?) How long that bed creaking and headboard hitting against the wall. Is that the real reason you ain't trying to hear it, too much for your pride huh?

:troll:


Joking aside this better be ducktales. I can't even accept that a grown man is allowing himself to live an L each and everyday to save money on rent. You say she's just like having a female rommmate and the situation ain't too bad, but yet you ain't trying to hear her fukk. :francis: Move out and KIM, and don't ever allow yourself to be in this type of emasculating position again. As for her bf, surprised that he's fukking with her this whole time, knowing she's living with her ex. All of yall can go ahead and take that "L".:mjlol:
I bet your ex boyfriend knows my name. The way we screaming, scratching, yelling! My name, my name, my name
 

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The new boyfriend is taking the real L.


no offense OP, but the OP is taking the L because he's bothered by hearing another dude smash his ex. It clearly bothers him and he's not living comfortably. The only wins for him are saving money and seeing his dogs.


No disrespect OP not judging you, we all take humiliating L's sometimes. Just keep doing ya thing get out and you'll be good.

But I'm not being negative but OP is right he is clearly losing right now
 

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I told my boy about this thread and he said,

"Yo...you saying the british nikka is fukking his ex in nothing but a olive green peacoat w/ english tea stains on the sleeves!?"

I had to just put my phone down and catch my breath.:dead:
 

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We broke up 3 years ago. This is her new place.

I moved on first, having women at our old place.


well if it's been 3 years I can kinda see from her point of view how she would feel comfortable about it, I still feel she wrong for that, just go to the bf house is what she should do when she wanna smash outta consideration and respect. Still 3 years ago isn't recent, so.
 

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no offense OP, but the OP is taking the L because he's bothered by hearing another dude smash his ex. It clearly bothers him and he's not living comfortably. The only wins for him are saving money and seeing his dogs.


No disrespect OP not judging you, we all take humiliating L's sometimes. Just keep doing ya thing get out and you'll be good.

But I'm not being negative but OP is right he is clearly losing right now

I've been here 5 days now, and haven't come across dude once. Chances are, knowing my ex, even if im not working that day, i'm not gonna hear anything (messed up for dude since he waited like a year to GTD).

It's an L, but at this point, its like living with a female roommate. She saw I had an issue, and made the offer.

Keeping it 100, I can't do this long term, cause I know this will fukk up their pretty recent relationship.
 
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