I'm back at the coli after taking a two month break.
Passport brehs I need your help/advice.
I am a 37 year old virgin and decided I want to go overseas or even somewhere else in America to sleep with some women.
I know some people think this is lame but considering I'm still a virgin at my age plus my social anxiety makes it hard for me to interact with women in general. I figure if I go somewhere where no one knows me my social anxiety won't be that bad.
What places would you recommend I travel to for someone who is sheltered and doesnt really have any street smarts? I was even considering just Florida like Panama City or Miami.
I don't really have any friends so this would be a solo week trip I'm planning. I would like to do this sometime in March-April 2024.
Dave24..
First off, much respect to you for tagging me and placing value on my opinion(s)...
However, after reading your post, I need to keep it official with ya..
Women should be the least of your concerns at this point in your life. You need to deal with your social anxiety first!
Seriously!
I can't tell you how to deal with it, but I am sure you have enough common sense to know that not addressing your anxiety, insecurity, self esteem, etc. isn't going to get you the outcomes you are seeking.
Think of it this way...
What makes you think that traveling with the issues you have is going to give you favorable results? If you are in your situation where you live, then you will bring that same issue with you when you travel somewhere.
If you aren't willing to talk to women in your area, how you gonna do it in another state, let alone another country?
Let me share what I have learned..
There isn't too many people who is gonna be understanding and empathetic to your situation and lack of dating/sexual experience. Best believe that! @ your age, women will want to you to have some experience and will hold court on you if you don't. They are going to make a gang of assumptions and render their decision whether to deal with you or not on the spot.
So, if you choose to travel, then travel somewhere just to go sightseeing and relax. Maybe use the time away to think of a plan to change your situation all around.
Once you figure out your plan, then go to work to execute your plan and after you gain some confidence, self love and accept that you are who you are, then start talking to women.
Other than that, I don't have much to really share because it wouldn't matter what I suggest if you aren't willing to put in the time and effort to deal with whatever is holding you back from evolving to a better version of you.
I hope you take what I said well for my intentions come from a good place.
Just want you to one day read that you took heed to my suggestions or someone else's and end up getting the outcome(s) you are seeking...
Best of luck to ya and wherever you visit this spring, I hope you have fun!
Salute!