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TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
luvaznpoon
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I've cheated and disrespected my husband and now he has found out. He wants to leave and I don't know what to do. These past few weeks have been hell and I've been constantly crying. I really need to find a way to fix what I've done. My husband is on the road most of the time since he is a truck driver. We mostly see the each other 2-3 days out of the week. He works while I stay at home and make sure the kids get to school and take care of them. We had a new neighbor that moved in the condo next to ours. He came over one day and wanted to use our wifi since he hadn't gotten his internet hooked up yet. I didn't want to be difficult since he is our neighbor so I gave him the password so he could get on. He then invited me over to watch a movie if I wasn't doing anything. I took him up on the movie offer but I made it clear that I am married. He was nice about it and didn't pursue me at first. I don't know what happened but we started hanging out on a daily basis and he kept making passes at me. I should have been stronger and pushed him away but I missed the companionship of my husband and I also felt good being with him. We started kissing one night and I can't explain the feeling but we ended up having sex. This went on since October and I only did it on the days that my husband wasn't home. My husband came home a day early on a Thursday without calling and caught me having sex on our bed. My husband beat up the neighbor which isn't fair because everything is my fault. He also kicked me out of the house.
After a day he told me to move back in to be with the kids and he wanted to move out instead. I felt like he was torturing me. He was acting very cold and like he doesn't care about me. I know I made mistakes but he didn't understand the way I felt and the fact that me feelings weren't being met. The neighbor turned his back on me and doesn't even look at me. My husband only came home for Christmas and New years and even then, he said it was only for the kids. How can I get him to forgive me and fix our marriage? I love him but he doesn't see it. He has been saying that he will file for divorce but he still hasn't given me papers. That right there tells me that he still feels something for me. However, he still acts cold when we talk and he says that he doesn't think he can get over what I've done. What can I do to fix this? I know I will never do this again and I want to prove it to him.
After a day he told me to move back in to be with the kids and he wanted to move out instead. I felt like he was torturing me. He was acting very cold and like he doesn't care about me. I know I made mistakes but he didn't understand the way I felt and the fact that me feelings weren't being met. The neighbor turned his back on me and doesn't even look at me. My husband only came home for Christmas and New years and even then, he said it was only for the kids. How can I get him to forgive me and fix our marriage? I love him but he doesn't see it. He has been saying that he will file for divorce but he still hasn't given me papers. That right there tells me that he still feels something for me. However, he still acts cold when we talk and he says that he doesn't think he can get over what I've done. What can I do to fix this? I know I will never do this again and I want to prove it to him.
TriflingI've cheated and disrespected my husband and now he has found out. He wants to leave and I don't know what to do. These past few weeks have been hell and I've been constantly crying. I really need to find a way to fix what I've done. My husband is on the road most of the time since he is a truck driver. We mostly see the each other 2-3 days out of the week. He works while I stay at home and make sure the kids get to school and take care of them. We had a new neighbor that moved in the condo next to ours. He came over one day and wanted to use our wifi since he hadn't gotten his internet hooked up yet. I didn't want to be difficult since he is our neighbor so I gave him the password so he could get on. He then invited me over to watch a movie if I wasn't doing anything. I took him up on the movie offer but I made it clear that I am married. He was nice about it and didn't pursue me at first. I don't know what happened but we started hanging out on a daily basis and he kept making passes at me. I should have been stronger and pushed him away but I missed the companionship of my husband and I also felt good being with him. We started kissing one night and I can't explain the feeling but we ended up having sex. This went on since October and I only did it on the days that my husband wasn't home. My husband came home a day early on a Thursday without calling and caught me having sex on our bed. My husband beat up the neighbor which isn't fair because everything is my fault. He also kicked me out of the house.
After a day he told me to move back in to be with the kids and he wanted to move out instead. I felt like he was torturing me. He was acting very cold and like he doesn't care about me. I know I made mistakes but he didn't understand the way I felt and the fact that me feelings weren't being met. The neighbor turned his back on me and doesn't even look at me. My husband only came home for Christmas and New years and even then, he said it was only for the kids. How can I get him to forgive me and fix our marriage? I love him but he doesn't see it. He has been saying that he will file for divorce but he still hasn't given me papers. That right there tells me that he still feels something for me. However, he still acts cold when we talk and he says that he doesn't think he can get over what I've done. What can I do to fix this? I know I will never do this again and I want to prove it to him.
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
I've cheated and disrespected my husband and now he has found out. He wants to leave and I don't know what to do. These past few weeks have been hell and I've been constantly crying. I really need to find a way to fix what I've done. My husband is on the road most of the time since he is a truck driver. We mostly see the each other 2-3 days out of the week. He works while I stay at home and make sure the kids get to school and take care of them. We had a new neighbor that moved in the condo next to ours. He came over one day and wanted to use our wifi since he hadn't gotten his internet hooked up yet. I didn't want to be difficult since he is our neighbor so I gave him the password so he could get on. He then invited me over to watch a movie if I wasn't doing anything. I took him up on the movie offer but I made it clear that I am married. He was nice about it and didn't pursue me at first. I don't know what happened but we started hanging out on a daily basis and he kept making passes at me. I should have been stronger and pushed him away but I missed the companionship of my husband and I also felt good being with him. We started kissing one night and I can't explain the feeling but we ended up having sex. This went on since October and I only did it on the days that my husband wasn't home. My husband came home a day early on a Thursday without calling and caught me having sex on our bed. My husband beat up the neighbor which isn't fair because everything is my fault. He also kicked me out of the house.
After a day he told me to move back in to be with the kids and he wanted to move out instead. I felt like he was torturing me. He was acting very cold and like he doesn't care about me. I know I made mistakes but he didn't understand the way I felt and the fact that me feelings weren't being met. The neighbor turned his back on me and doesn't even look at me. My husband only came home for Christmas and New years and even then, he said it was only for the kids. How can I get him to forgive me and fix our marriage? I love him but he doesn't see it. He has been saying that he will file for divorce but he still hasn't given me papers. That right there tells me that he still feels something for me. However, he still acts cold when we talk and he says that he doesn't think he can get over what I've done. What can I do to fix this? I know I will never do this again and I want to prove it to him.
Classic hoe logic
I love him but he doesn't see it
But forgot he saw you ontop of another man, in his house, in his bed
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Flay Mayweather
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Too late
Ricky Church
Stole Timberlake's Spaceship-Coupe
I've cheated and disrespected my husband and now he has found out. He wants to leave and I don't know what to do. These past few weeks have been hell and I've been constantly crying. I really need to find a way to fix what I've done. My husband is on the road most of the time since he is a truck driver. We mostly see the each other 2-3 days out of the week. He works while I stay at home and make sure the kids get to school and take care of them. We had a new neighbor that moved in the condo next to ours. He came over one day and wanted to use our wifi since he hadn't gotten his internet hooked up yet. I didn't want to be difficult since he is our neighbor so I gave him the password so he could get on. He then invited me over to watch a movie if I wasn't doing anything. I took him up on the movie offer but I made it clear that I am married. He was nice about it and didn't pursue me at first. I don't know what happened but we started hanging out on a daily basis and he kept making passes at me. I should have been stronger and pushed him away but I missed the companionship of my husband and I also felt good being with him. We started kissing one night and I can't explain the feeling but we ended up having sex. This went on since October and I only did it on the days that my husband wasn't home. My husband came home a day early on a Thursday without calling and caught me having sex on our bed. My husband beat up the neighbor which isn't fair because everything is my fault. He also kicked me out of the house.
After a day he told me to move back in to be with the kids and he wanted to move out instead. I felt like he was torturing me. He was acting very cold and like he doesn't care about me. I know I made mistakes but he didn't understand the way I felt and the fact that me feelings weren't being met. The neighbor turned his back on me and doesn't even look at me. My husband only came home for Christmas and New years and even then, he said it was only for the kids. How can I get him to forgive me and fix our marriage? I love him but he doesn't see it. He has been saying that he will file for divorce but he still hasn't given me papers. That right there tells me that he still feels something for me. However, he still acts cold when we talk and he says that he doesn't think he can get over what I've done. What can I do to fix this? I know I will never do this again and I want to prove it to him.
cry me a river bytch!
not this shyt again.
Dat damn forum aint got the answers man.
Last thread like this had me questioning if i could ever settle down. I thought i was scared.
-DMP-
Dat damn forum aint got the answers man.
Last thread like this had me questioning if i could ever settle down. I thought i was scared.
-DMP-
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
There are some bitter mofos on there breh
This is why I don't cheat. I could never put someone through that mess.
mortuus est
Veteran
Some of em are tough read almost. Like this guy that is CLEARLY sharing...
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I think my wife MIGHT be having affair…she’s asleep right now and I’m looking for some thoughts...
So here’s my story and few things that have happened to me in my brief marriage.
Met my wife three years ago, instant mutual attraction, off the charts sex, and we were engaged 10 months later. She is 27, I’m 30. Wonderful wedding day, good honeymoon - but immediately afterwards things went sour and I’m not sure why. We are approaching the third year of marriage.
Some notes:
1. I worked a lot of long hours in our first year of marriage. Like 10-12 hour days. She did not like this, but I was a manager and we working against some tight deadlines.
2. After the honeymoon was over, it took us three months to have sex again. Then another two months afterwards to have sex again.
3. After our first year of marriage, she gained a ton of weight, at least 35 lbs. She has been seeing a counselor, and has been on Strattera, Lamictal, and Cymbalta. She was on another drug that I forget the name of. She has went through bouts of depression her entire life.
4. I am getting yelled at, ALL THE TIME. I will be sitting watching TV with her, and she will start picking a fight with me for no real reason. She picks on me for being too thin and it’s ruining myself esteem. I asked if she thought I was good looking and she did not answer.
5. I am often told that I do not make enough money. She works at a company where a lot of guys are making great money and she has to travel for her job, so she is around other men a lot. I make a decent living, but we are not rich.
6. We went on a trip for our second anniversary and she refused to sleep with me, and she gave me a dirty look when I tried to initiate sex. I would say that we maybe have had sex 10-15 times in our entire marriage (2 years, 9 months total)
7. She does not like to be hugged by me at all. I tried kissing her on the cheek the other morning prior to us leaving for work and she winced.
8. This past December, we went to her companies Holiday party together and her co-workers were acting kind of weird around me. They would stare at me for a long time and look confused, and look away. Maybe I’m being too paranoid.
9. She talks, at least once a week, about her female co-workers flirting with other guys in the office. Married men going out to lunch with married women.
10. We are in marriage counseling. Our marriage counselor once asked her if she thought would be OK if I had my needs met by another woman. She really didn’t have a response.
11. My wife seems to have no friends, except her mom. She seems to get home everyday at 5:15pm. So, if she is with someone, it’s on her lunch breaks ONLY. She doesn’t leave my sight during the weekends.
Obviously, my marriage is in shambles, I have been thinking about divorce since Christmas. But I love this woman so much…I just feel like something is up.
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Wow
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I think my wife MIGHT be having affair…she’s asleep right now and I’m looking for some thoughts...
So here’s my story and few things that have happened to me in my brief marriage.
Met my wife three years ago, instant mutual attraction, off the charts sex, and we were engaged 10 months later. She is 27, I’m 30. Wonderful wedding day, good honeymoon - but immediately afterwards things went sour and I’m not sure why. We are approaching the third year of marriage.
Some notes:
1. I worked a lot of long hours in our first year of marriage. Like 10-12 hour days. She did not like this, but I was a manager and we working against some tight deadlines.
2. After the honeymoon was over, it took us three months to have sex again. Then another two months afterwards to have sex again.
3. After our first year of marriage, she gained a ton of weight, at least 35 lbs. She has been seeing a counselor, and has been on Strattera, Lamictal, and Cymbalta. She was on another drug that I forget the name of. She has went through bouts of depression her entire life.
4. I am getting yelled at, ALL THE TIME. I will be sitting watching TV with her, and she will start picking a fight with me for no real reason. She picks on me for being too thin and it’s ruining myself esteem. I asked if she thought I was good looking and she did not answer.
5. I am often told that I do not make enough money. She works at a company where a lot of guys are making great money and she has to travel for her job, so she is around other men a lot. I make a decent living, but we are not rich.
6. We went on a trip for our second anniversary and she refused to sleep with me, and she gave me a dirty look when I tried to initiate sex. I would say that we maybe have had sex 10-15 times in our entire marriage (2 years, 9 months total)
7. She does not like to be hugged by me at all. I tried kissing her on the cheek the other morning prior to us leaving for work and she winced.
8. This past December, we went to her companies Holiday party together and her co-workers were acting kind of weird around me. They would stare at me for a long time and look confused, and look away. Maybe I’m being too paranoid.
9. She talks, at least once a week, about her female co-workers flirting with other guys in the office. Married men going out to lunch with married women.
10. We are in marriage counseling. Our marriage counselor once asked her if she thought would be OK if I had my needs met by another woman. She really didn’t have a response.
11. My wife seems to have no friends, except her mom. She seems to get home everyday at 5:15pm. So, if she is with someone, it’s on her lunch breaks ONLY. She doesn’t leave my sight during the weekends.
Obviously, my marriage is in shambles, I have been thinking about divorce since Christmas. But I love this woman so much…I just feel like something is up.
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Wow