Yo something like this happened to me:
During my 1st deployment to Iraq, I started dealing with a married chick in my unit(same company but dif platoon)-
I actually knew her husband(he was in the same unit but he ETS'd (got out the army) before we deployed
anyway 6months into the deployment(14months total) she comes to me and tells me how the nikka is a bum and not working and trying to be a rapper and shyt

she told me how he cheated on her beaucoup times
next thing you know we started fukking like everyday
-shyt we almost got caught- when we were on tower guard together and she was sucking my dikk

(i mentioned this a few times on here and
man we were reckless, eveyone knew we were fukkin

but i was mad cool with my 1SG so they never came after me
so anyway after we re-deploy, shyt hit the fan

she told her husband

she even told nikka that she was going to leave him for me

I told her ass numerous times we would not be together once we re-deployed
so one day- I am picking up a friend's child at daycare and the husband came up to me
I was shook 4 a min cause i thought he was bout to merk me
but the nikka came up yelling and i could tell he didnt have a pistol so i was ready to scrap
but the nikka was just talking, saying i desrespected his family n shyt
i was like "brah, Stephanie told me how u cheated on her beaucoup times so u disrespected it first"
I told him "yo i didnt rape yo wife brah! She came after me and told me everything bad about you- So you need to be checking her, not me"
Then i told him we could handle it however but not with kids around
so let's meet up later
but then dude changed his tune and was like, naw fukk that I'm done with this
and i never heard from him again
but the wife was a diff story-- shyt was drama for another year
luckily i PCS'd to another duty station