i'm convinced all girls like BDSM

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yeah, noticed alot of white men like being on the receiving end of that...

Some black women search high and low for a black man who's into that and they come up short, even with the "soft"nikkas

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I dunno. When I was dating I had a black man ask me if I would choke him. :yeshrug: I used to think people needing to stick their dikks in bear traps to get off was white people shyt too, but black people got kinks too. A lot you’d never know about.
 

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They also like the flip side: tying you up, spanking you, spitting in your face, telling you to STFU, dominating you…oh don’t stop there.

:damn: A lotta chicks are kinky.:yeshrug:
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They all like to toe that pleasure/pain line for sure. How extreme it gets is on a per chick basis tho. Likin it "rough" has different meanings to everyone.
 

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Apparently it’s a whole community
its really a multiverse at this point tbh

you have the BDSM world, Fetish world, and Kink world
all have their own communities with rules and ways of living and heirachy... from the Leather/Latex/DDLG/Shibari etc... communities
also sexual orientation, political beliefs race/ethnicity also have not only a say but exclusive/private communities

alot of ppl really just fall into the Kink world/communities
 

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:yeshrug: :russ: From what I’ve heard it’s called switching. A lot of chicks request stuff to ease dudes into a wider variety of other stuff.

It’s fascinating to hear some of these chicks describe this stuff. Lemme find out everybody getting turned out these days.
I don’t kink shame. Let ur freak flag fly!
 

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Virtually every woman i've been with is into it on some level. spanking, choking, restriction, tying, hair pulling, and just generally being manhandled. there are more extreme versions, but it seems like they all love at least a little bit of it. I'm convinced that if you think your girl ISN'T into it, then you're not hittin it right and she isn't telling you and probably doesn't see you as a dominant male :ufdup:
Keep in mind breh, there is a cocktail of hormones and things going on in brain that happen during sex. From the logical part of the brain shutting down (thats why you dont listen to someone when they say no protection) to increased pleasure due to pain. The brain interprets pain differently in arousal state for women, they can take more pain and some actually get enjoyment and flood of chemicals to the brain type shyt.
 

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I dunno. When I was dating I had a black man ask me if I would choke him. :yeshrug: I used to think people needing to stick their dikks in bear traps to get off was white people shyt too, but black people got kinks too. A lot you’d never know about.

Some black women told me it's harder to find black men into that. Maybe it's a numbers game. Two told me they just wanted to tie a guy up and blind fold, but they said every guy they called up was scared. I said of course. Probably because black men's "set up" radar is always on high alert.
 

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bytches be disappointed with me cause I’m not doing all that. Maybe like two months ago I smashed a shorty I been knew I would a while back. Shorty was trying to come by and when we get to it, she telling me to put my hands around her neck. And I did but on some slight shyt. The bytch trying to get me to like choke her for real. But not ya boy

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I’m not into that shyt. That shyt don’t turn me on. The fukk I look like accidentally choking a bytch to death during sex. I’m not slapping you, I’m not punching you, etc…Besides smacking your ass when I’m hitting from the backC I’m not doing no other spanking. Call your other nikka for that. I’m trying to pipe you down with no remorse whatsoever, but y’all can have all that choking, spitting, slapping shyt. One time I’m fukking a bytch, and she said “rape me, rape me” nikka I couldn’t even finish. I got one role to play…myself. Not roleplaying as no fukking rapist.
dont know how to properly choke a bytch without killing her brehs
 

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Virtually every woman i've been with is into it on some level. spanking, choking, restriction, tying, hair pulling, and just generally being manhandled. there are more extreme versions, but it seems like they all love at least a little bit of it. I'm convinced that if you think your girl ISN'T into it, then you're not hittin it right and she isn't telling you and probably doesn't see you as a dominant male :ufdup:
I though so too, but by now I have met some who were absolutely not into it. But the majority did indeed like being dominated in bed.
 

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its really a multiverse at this point tbh

you have the BDSM world, Fetish world, and Kink world
all have their own communities with rules and ways of living and heirachy... from the Leather/Latex/DDLG/Shibari etc... communities
also sexual orientation, political beliefs race/ethnicity also have not only a say but exclusive/private communities

alot of ppl really just fall into the Kink world/communities
Fascinating! How many black people do you see in these scenes?
I’d heard about stuff like this a while ago. I only realized how prevalent a lot of it is on the low when I started running into very strait laced people with whole rooms in their homes dedicated to this sort of thing. It’s not really the type of thing a lot of people talk about.
 

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Some black women told me it's harder to find black men into that. Maybe it's a numbers game. Two told me they just wanted to tie a guy up and blind fold, but they said every guy they called up was scared. I said of course. Probably because black men's "set up" radar is always on high alert.
Yeah it’s crazy to see what people are into once they really break down and tell you about this stuff
 
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