I'm done with dating/sex until I get my paper straight

[Turbulent]

I wanted to see a movie
Well I need my own place to fukk
What's wrong with going on a date? I never had the luxury to do that shyt when I was in middle or high school. I have fukked a few times and while it's fun. I'd like a relationship. Even if it don't last that long. I want to be liked for me

Even if you want a relationship, the best way to get there is to fukk first. You can still take girls on dates but the goal of the date should be to get more intimate. A girl will not get into a relationship with you if you haven't been intimate first (unless she's super religious). You took that L because you went at it backwards. A girl will never consider you for a date if she feels like you're more emotionally invested than her cause then it makes her feel like she's "the man". The fact you're not showing any sexual intent in the way you vibe with her (not saying it has to be verbal) is making her question if you're a real man. She has to feel some "sexy danger" breh.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Even if you want a relationship, the best way to get there is to fukk first. You can still take girls on dates but the goal of the date should be to get more intimate. A girl will not get into a relationship with you if you haven't been intimate first (unless she's super religious). You took that L because you went at it backwards. A girl will never consider you for a date if she feels like you're more emotionally invested than her cause then it makes her feel like she's "the man". The fact you're not showing any sexual intent in the way you vibe with her (not saying it has to be verbal) is making her question if you're a real man. She has to feel some "sexy danger" breh.

Wow these hoes scandalous. Now I see why Ralph Tresvant career flopped.

Try to be a gentleman and a sex symbol at the same time brehs

 

[Turbulent]

Wow these hoes scandalous. Now I see why Ralph Tresvant career flopped.

Try to be a gentleman and a sex symbol at the same time brehs

it's not necessarily scandalous of them breh. It's just that they want to feel desired without being put on a pedestal. If you treat her like a goddess without even knowing her that well, she can only go down from there so she has no interest in pursuing anything. You were already buying her simp gifts (no offense) without even kissing her. already giving offerings as if she was a goddess. you should have just told her you two should go out for a drink when is she free? and go from there. Where a lot of dudes fail is that they try to be a little too cute, a little to clever, a little too special trying to impress a girl. You bought the thing cause she hinted at it. now she knows she has you eating from her hand. but she wants a man who makes her submit, not the other way around. next time, just keep it simple, invite a girl to a drink, coffee, whatever. don't be scared to be "boring". She's used to guys trying to impress her. Not trying to impress her is what will end up impressing her. forget this gentleman/lady shyt. There are no good girls. There are no bad girls. They are just humans and some of them will match you, some of them won't.

 

[Balla]

Girls do like getting treated like shyt. Not bad bad, but they like when you have your focus on other shyt.

When they know you're not a simp they won't even ask you to go to a restaurant for a date. The date's up to whatever you wanna do.

it's not necessarily scandalous of them breh. It's just that they want to feel desired without being put on a pedestal. If you treat her like a goddess without even knowing her that well, she can only go down from there so she has no interest in pursuing anything. You were already buying her simp gifts (no offense) without even kissing her. already giving offerings as if she was a goddess. you should have just told her you two should go out for a drink when is she free? and go from there. Where a lot of dudes fail is that they try to be a little too cute, a little to clever, a little too special trying to impress a girl. You bought the thing cause she hinted at it. now she knows she has you eating from her hand. but she wants a man who makes her submit, not the other way around. next time, just keep it simple, invite a girl to a drink, coffee, whatever. don't be scared to be "boring". She's used to guys trying to impress her. Not trying to impress her is what will end up impressing her. forget this gentleman/lady shyt. There are no good girls. There are no bad girls. They are just humans and some of them will match you, some of them won't.

 

[Majestic]

Girls do like getting treated like shyt. Not bad bad, but they like when you have your focus on other shyt.

When they know you're not a simp they won't even ask you to go to a restaurant for a date. The date's up to whatever you wanna do.

Depends. Western girls then yeah. Japanese and African girls, nah.

 

[Majestic]

@Rose Gold you have to plan to leave the country. I know brehs who were going through the same shyt as you, well educated, good money but for some bizarre reason the women weren't checking for them. As soon they went to abroad, the women started coming in.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

I'm done, all I take is L's anyways. I hope to move out of my Mama's before the year is over. Thank you everybody for the support. I low-key think I might be socially retarded.

Let me give you a bit of wisdom... It’s always money over hoes it’s that simple

When you have the money the hoes will be there... but I applaude you for recognizing your weakness and trying to improve your on the right track so salute

 

[Balla]

Dude trying to get a career and get his shyt together right now.

@Rose Gold you have to plan to leave the country. I know brehs who were going through the same shyt as you, well educated, good money but for some bizarre reason the women weren't checking for them. As soon they went to abroad, the women started coming in.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

@Rose Gold you have to plan to leave the country. I know brehs who were going through the same shyt as you, well educated, good money but for some bizarre reason the women weren't checking for them. As soon they went to abroad, the women started coming in.

you clearly didn’t read the thread.