Im finna get my girl bacc
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Mountain
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Because she was moving too fast and ima coccy nikka that think i can get any girl i want.
But this girl is different, she introduced me to her fam, came to my graduation, got along with my mom. I fucced it up
What you did wasn't no playa sht, it was simply foul, so it's only right you call her up and apologizes like a man.
Don't beg her on some, "baby please don't GO!!
" sht, you'd look like a bytch if you did that, just keep it solid and tell her you just called up to apologize. Explain to her how what you did was fcked up, tell her that you shouldn't have neglected her the way you did and that it was a laps in judgement, then ask her how shes been .e.t.c. ( but don't talk about the relationship unless she brings it up), after that, end the conversation amicably like any other light-hearted conversation. Make sure the conversation is brief as well.
Either two things will happen after:
1) she out right ignores you (in that case she's over you and you couldn't get her back anyway)
2)her hurt reduces and she decides to forgive you over the phone, or, call you back a few days later then decides to forgive you
If sht doesn't work out, simply find another girl; I know you think what you had was dumb special, but around your age I "fell in love" like 50 times
, my point is that you'll find a better girl than her eventually if you keep looking.
kevin arnold
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U dont even know what love is bruh.
fukk this shyt and go get your meat glazed. You are a good 8-15 years too young for this nonsense
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BlvdBrawler
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So... how did this go?
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I went to her house. We talked about shyt. I called her boojie
We started having a real convo bout real shyt, she started crying i held her. Everything was cool i watched a movie with her, her moms and her lil sister we was all goofin around n shyt. Left told her i love her.
When I got home she called me crying talkin about "baby tell me you really love me" and shyt. Then she was like "i will never lie to you" so im like ok. Then she tell me the nikka who took her Vcard called her telling her he love her and wanna work things about. She telling me "idk what i should do, my family loves you but they HATED him and we broke up over somethin bad"
So of course i got the
face on. I just tell her ima talk to her later and realize my coli brehs was right, even if things did go good when i saw her(which they did) things werent going to work out(which they didnt)So the next couple days her convo with me is hella dry, i basically gotta force convos n shyt, so i just stopped callin. Sent her a text, then another one saying ?? and she never responded. So I just let her go, waiting for her to hit me up after nikkas do her wrong again so i can have my
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BlvdBrawler
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I went to her house. We talked about shyt. I called her boojie
We started having a real convo bout real shyt, she started crying i held her. Everything was cool i watched a movie with her, her moms and her lil sister we was all goofin around n shyt. Left told her i love her.
When I got home she called me crying talkin about "baby tell me you really love me" and shyt. Then she was like "i will never lie to you" so im like ok. Then she tell me the nikka who took her Vcard called her telling her he love her and wanna work things about. She telling me "idk what i should do, my family loves you but they HATED him and we broke up over somethin bad"
So of course i got the
So the next couple days her convo with me is hella dry, i basically gotta force convos n shyt, so i just stopped callin. Sent her a text, then another one saying ?? and she never responded. So I just let her go, waiting for her to hit me up after nikkas do her wrong again so i can have my
Much respect. Glad she came out w/ the truth. That must've been
a bit but a chick *actually* being honest is a rare courtesy that I've come to appreciate.
Much respect. Glad she came out w/ the truth. That must've been
True that, may be a blessing in disguise
Valuable lesson I learned, before it was too late.
swimmingpools
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Why did you bother initiating contact with her after the talk? Should have deaded that when she said she didnt know what she wanted. Goodluck to you and your future relationship endeavors.
It was definitely a blessing in disguise. Now you know when these females go cold or busy out of nowhere they are expending their energy on another man. And her family hates that dude? He's in a nice position with her. These young women love dudes that their family hates. If you want to be ahead of the game, get up in that dealing with women thread. You are young and got this notion that you are super fly but when you get out and continue to deal with this dating game you'll see what brothas have been telling you. Better you learn to avoid the big pitfalls instead of having to experience them firsthand.
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MOVE ON NEGRO! There will be plenty of fish in the sea.
One thing you should never forget is that there are TONS of availible women around. If you feel like some girl is the best you have ever seen/had, you haven't looked hard enough.
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You sound like a clown who doesn't know what the fukk he wants. But since your only 17 its expected. Move on and find another chick. If you like a chick, you probably shouldn't treat her like shyt btw...