I'm getting kicked out the crib @ 20 years old, give a breh some tips

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You told us everything about them and nothing about you .you got a job, car, are you in school? Can you stand on your own two feet? Are you willing to grind to do?
I'm in the process of transferring from Miami-Dade College to FIU, I work at Ross and my license is suspended for 12 months for marijuana possession, my mom took my keys and gave my car to my sister when she moved to Georgia
 

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Seems like you Mom is a great woman bro. You are truly blessed. Be a man, let her know you are gonna be alright and make her proud in whatever you decide to do.
 

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You gotta be a big boy and jump out there.

Don’t give your mom no smoke and move to Soflo with your pops and try to get a hustle.

Give yourself 6 months to at least get employed and then you can ask your mom to stay with her to search for job opportunities where she is.

If you on you’re grind you should get a decent hustle in Florida decent.

If not ask your mom to ask ANYBODY she know for a hook up while you’re staying with your dad. As long as you can move to a job you should be good. :myman:
 

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I'm in the process of transferring from Miami-Dade College to FIU, I work at Ross and my license is suspended for 12 months for marijuana possession, my mom took my keys and gave my car to my sister when she moved to Georgia

Ok, so you are taking classes now or starting this fall? Ross? I don't know what that is, retail? Are you willing to work 2 jobs? And no car, it sounds like....

If your going to school for something I'd try to get an entry level position somewhere where maybe your can move up once you've finished and continue working....retail? Or whatever Ross is. Just grind. You can either grind early and chill later or chill early and grind later. Oh yeah stop doing stupid stuff like getting arrested and pulled over and buy yourself a lil funky ass $2000 car so mom's can't take it away from you. Hell even get a bicycle or buy a motorcycle. You can buy a new motorcycle at the dealership with a down payment for like $75 a month. I'm just trying to get you front point a to b.

You can do it, it just depends on how much you're willing to do. There was a thread the other day about a guy who walked 20 miles to his new job. Do you have the initiative to do something like that?
 

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My nikka, if your mom's was anything like mine she would've told you she was retiring and what her plans were faaaar in advance breh :stopitslime:. My whole extended family knew the time and date when ma was done, so don't expect shyt from her :russ:

Anyway, you had plenty of time to get your shyt together and at least have a plan b.

You sound freeloading breh, what are you doing with yourself :gucci:

I don’t think he freeloading, he just don’t have his shyt together.

That’s like a first draft rookie breaking his leg the day after he buys a Ferrari (knock on wood :wow:)

Life just gives you curveballs.

Why don’t one of you self-employed coli nikkas provide this young brotha with some employment opportunities.:feedme:
 

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go with your dad until youre secure and can leave
pines is a nice area, you might even run into kodak when he gets out :mjgrin:
 

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My mom is 55 years old, and September will make it 30 years at her company, so she can retire young with a GREAT pension and an extremely plush 401k. This is all great of course, her job paid for her MBA & she was able to get her PhD.

Now that she's retiring, my mom says she's getting ready to move to Douglasville, Georgia to be close to my sisters & her 3 granddaughters :gucci:

I'M HER BABY!!! THE YOUNGEST OF 4 KIDS!!!! HOW COULD SHE DO THIS TO ME!!!:damn::damn::damn:

My sister & brother in law live in Douglasville. My other sister & my niece have an apartment in Mableton. My older brother, his wife and their 2 sons live up in Long Island, NY. My mom got paid well, has good credit & has HELLA savings for all the years so she can buy a house where she wants. But what am I gon do:gucci:

My dad lives in Pembroke Pines & has a nice house, he bought it in 2005 when Broward County real estate wasn't an arm and a leg. But his wife is a former stripper/current fukk nikka that I don't see eye to eye with.

My grandma lives in North Miami Beach off of Ives Dairy Road, but she's extremely clingy & insufferable, she treats me like the husband she never had. My grandfather was an abusive drunkard & cheating on her with British pawgs & Mr. Chin daughter when they lived in the islands.

My uncle is closest, but he's LITERALLY an ex-Marine drill sergeant with anger issues, his wife & kids are terrified of him.

I'm thinking about getting an apartment with roommates, but Miami is expensive af and do I REALLY want to live like that? But do I REALLY want to live with my grandma and have her all on my nuts like Hanes?:scust:

What would yall do?
Move to hollywood or lauderdale breh it's not that expensive...Yet :yeshrug:
 

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I left at 20 after college here's how I got through it.

Don't worry about impressing others and end up blowing money i.e. getting a BMW while living in an apartment or trying to get every pair of off-white nikes that come out.
Make most of your meals..going out to eat everyday adds up like crazy.
Try to get a roommate (somebody your cool with)

This.
Move go find some roommates around the college you want to live*, don't pay more than I'd say 30% of your income on rent. Feed yourself, grind grind grind for the next 2-3 years. Save your money, you are now on a strict lifestyle budget.
I left home at 21, but lucky for me between 18-20.5 I saved enough to get a down payment on my first house. Rented out the other rooms every semester.

If you are working at Ross making shytty wage, Sorry to tell you. You need to get another job now before school. Start looking at part time internships that will pay more or go in your school computer labs (if I recall you are in tech right?) than your current job too.

Start writing out a planned budget that you are comfortable with
500-600 for rent (I don't know how much a off campus college dorm rent is over there it should be probably be less)
200 for food
150-200 for transportation
X for savings
X if you need to pay anything regarding school
X amount for bills

I'd adviced you work during the day, take night classes and online courses. Begin seriously looking for employment in your field now. You'll think it's hell for the first couple of months but you'll be vastly more ready for the real world than your counterparts.
 

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Breh, you REALLY know me, what's so funny

Damn, now I feel bad. :mjcry:

Probably would have had the same response if you posted this in the discord server like you used to though. :francis:

Being serious, I would advise you to suck it up and deal with your father's wife while you go to school and work. Set youself to move out and save up for a car once your license is suspended. Living with your dad can't be THAT bad.
 

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Get you a bytch that’s gone cash you out nikka ...she might not be a looker and she’ll probably have extra self esteem issues so you gone have to deal with that insecurity but you can use her car while she at work to sell trees ... once you get on your feet you can take that tree money to invest in your real estate license and cop you your fist peace of property to flip ... by that time you can upgrade off the bottom bytch because she gone start having a little attitude that you upganging shyt our here.. but that’s coo because you can go find you one of them little nursing student hoes at the local community college ..once she get her certifications.. they stay employed so you ain’t gotta trip too much with busting her down with no bread and shyt ...maybe a little Michael Kors purse here and there but nothing over extravagant.. but shyt once you get to that point ..you own like a muhhhhfukka ..and can move how you want ..fukk sucking on mammas titty all yo life little nikka it’s time to hop up off that porch tho :birdman:

:shaq::ohhh::feedme::blessed::blessed: Duely noted brother! :pachaha:fukk a bytch what that wallet do
 
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