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Dooby said:
Advice? At least finish school and establish your career first you twit. :ufdup:
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'Preciate the advice and I can see where you coming from. I don't think it has to be mutually exclusive though; I can work towards my career and still have a family imo. I shouldn't have to wait 7+ years in order to do that.
Plus I'd rather have someone who's with me from the beginning and I can build a great life with. I did the single thing and enjoyed it but it's the right time for me to settle down.
 
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Dooby said:
Advice? At least finish school and establish your career first you twit. :ufdup:
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I dont' know about that anymore................in this economy (knock on sequoia trees) .... being young and married with potential double income of substance and no kids (DINKs) (my advice OP :whoa: chill with the baby making to yall get skraight) or at least one person working and both educated might be the way to FINISH SCHOOL :ohhh:...and enter the workforce as a young educated married couple :whoo:

Arguably beats living in your bedroom or basement of your parents home after graduating school.....
 
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LakeSt.Lenny said:
'Preciate the advice and I can see where you coming from. I don't think it has to be mutually exclusive though; I can work towards my career and still have a family imo. I shouldn't have to wait 7+ years in order to do that.
Plus I'd rather have someone who's with me from the beginning and I can build a great life with. I did the single thing and enjoyed it but it's the right time for me to settle down.
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how old are you?


cause you havent experienced shyt enough to even make this comment
 
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Ice Water said:
Have you guys lived together at all yet? How old are you guys? Don't marry her before you live with her. That's a good stress test to see if you can envision yourself spending the rest of your life with her.
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Thanks for the advice. Not really applicable in this case though cuz we're both Muslim and she's somewhat religious, which I respect. Gotta do it the right way
 
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newworldafro said:
I dont' know about that anymore................in this economy (knock on sequoia trees) .... being young and married with potential double income of substance and no kids (DINKs) (my advice OP :whoa: chill with the baby making to yall get skraight) or at least one person working and both educated might be the way to FINISH SCHOOL :ohhh:...and enter the workforce as a young educated married couple :whooo:

Arguably beats living in your bedroom or basement of your parents home after graduating school.....
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Exactly my plan (except maybe for the kids part).
Her income should be able to keep us comfortable till I start getting paid as a resident (bout 3 years). Plus we don't have to worry about rent so that's good.
We won't exactly be living the life but it shouldn't be too difficult finance-wise inshaAllah (God wiling).
 
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