Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
She doesn't care. He needs an attorney.
I'm going thru some deep shyt. Edit: BM wants me to save her.
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She doesn't care. He needs an attorney.
Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
You're not married. You have no contract with her. You don't own her. You're an ATM and/or fukk buddy. In her head, she's Mama, and you're vestigial. You don't get to make decisions about her body, and you don't have final say about what comes out of her body.
You don't get to tell her you are not okay with her doing something. You never put a ring on her finger. You never really committed to her. She's not your kept woman even now, where you're paying all of her living expenses. If the jobs are in Dayton, that's where she needs to go.
Time to lawyer up. She's the primary custodial parent. Parents living in different cities or states (or countries) is not uncommon. It's even manageable, if you're not broke. If you want to see your kid, you are going to have to fight to do it.
Kenny West
Veteran
Situations like this is my problem with women bytching about deadbeat fathers and shyt.
The way the system is setup helps her use that kid as leverage you. You either choose to provide via child support and have the kid raised away from you, or try to share custody which essentially forces you to commit to her. In a more sane world you'd have a shot of getting custody of kid, but these days you have to either live and take care of the kid AND their mother or fund the kid (or mother depending on how aint shyt she is) while not being in their life.
It's fukked up how it's setup this way to give chicks and method of trying to extort commitment from a man. And if you don't wanna deal with her shyt she can take the kid (and your money) and dip. Either the father or the kid has to suffer in either circumstance.
I feel for you OP. Sprinkle some crack on her and snitch to the feds
The way the system is setup helps her use that kid as leverage you. You either choose to provide via child support and have the kid raised away from you, or try to share custody which essentially forces you to commit to her. In a more sane world you'd have a shot of getting custody of kid, but these days you have to either live and take care of the kid AND their mother or fund the kid (or mother depending on how aint shyt she is) while not being in their life.
It's fukked up how it's setup this way to give chicks and method of trying to extort commitment from a man. And if you don't wanna deal with her shyt she can take the kid (and your money) and dip. Either the father or the kid has to suffer in either circumstance.
I feel for you OP. Sprinkle some crack on her and snitch to the feds
True Blue Moon
Superstar
Go ahead and marry her and raise the other dudes kid as your own too breh 
These conundrums are exactly why one needs to choose carefully who will be the mother of their child... Shyyyt.... he chose her...
So now she giving me hints she wants to get back together I guess
After we broke up and she started fukking with another nikka and got knocked up
you sure know how to pick em
Boogie
Been a joint call me Mr. Backwood
Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
So now she giving me hints she wants to get back together I guess
After we broke up and she started fukking with another nikka and got knocked up
It's a trap. Lawyer up, fight for custody, and continue as you have, having moved on with your life. It's just going to get worse from here, with her.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Dont go back with her cuz if you do you will be the ultimate simp.So now she giving me hints she wants to get back together I guess
After we broke up and she started fukking with another nikka and got knocked up
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
So now she giving me hints she wants to get back together I guess
After we broke up and she started fukking with another nikka and got knocked up
Shoulda worn that jimmy, breh
Boogie
Been a joint call me Mr. Backwood
Dont go back with her cuz if you do you will be the ultimate simp.
@Willstyles I got somebody for you
nikka?
pic?
So now she giving me hints she wants to get back together I guess
After we broke up and she started fukking with another nikka and got knocked up
Dont be raising no b*stard children.... ya hear....