I’m having a hard time understanding how someone can lose a loved one and party the same day

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I’ve seen it various times now so I know it’s something I need to learn to understand. This girl I knew was celebrating her b day riding these ATVs and one of her cousins got in a serious accident and she had posted on her page about the injuries she suffered and how she’s fighting for her life, THAT SAME DAY she posting herself in the club smiling, laughing and living her best life, I’m like how you turning up after something like that so soon. Me and my ex got into it about it once: she was planning on goin to the club one night and she was told her aunt died and she was distraught for a sec, and posted about it on her IG but then she went to the club and partied like it never happened.

 

[Jasonmask]

They really didn’t love em like that. Plain and simple. I get wanting to keep yourself busy but the first day is ridiculous to try and party.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

"I'm struggling to understand how somebody different from me deals with something in a different way that I do/would."

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Different people handle shyt differently
Also, sometimes it takes time to hit you.

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

“hOw dAre yOu jUdgE hOw sOmEboDy mOurNs “

“evEry bOdy gRieVe diFfeRenT “

edit- damn, the Twitter birds beat me to it

 

[Luke Cage]

What are you supposed to do? spend the whole day practicing rose tossing?

 

[Stuntone]

We party here in Louisiana. Best thing to do, remember the good times, play their favorite songs and love and party with ones still here.

 

[Sad Bunny]

I'm working confused about why people would announce that to the world like what is the point of posting that?

 

[Pazzy]

Real shyt, Im surprised at adults who party or club everyday or every week. like folks dont have jobs, responsibilities, saving money and shyt? I swear folks trying to do shyt that nobody out here thats really running shyt is doing thinking theyre cool when theyre looking crazy and silly. Thats not a good look.

She did that shyt because she probably in the club all the time anyway.

 

[Pseudonym]

Everyone grieves differently

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

"I'm struggling to understand how somebody different from me deals with something in a different way that I do/would."

I’m trying to understand I’m not necessarily judging them, just kinda weird that people happy and turnt up and they just got some sad news

 

[The Guru]

Even if you're going to party. At least leave it off social media. You can do that next week.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Even if you're going to party. At least leave it off social media. You can do that next week.

That shyt weird to me, you watching someone story and it’s a sad RIP post and literally the next story is them in the club taking shots

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

We party here in Louisiana. Best thing to do, remember the good times, play their favorite songs and love and party with ones still here.

For funerals yea but to party the same day you get some sad news is what I have a hard time understanding

 

[b_b]

people that do that are in the denial stage of death. they look for an outlet where they do not need to think about it and pretend as if it did not happen or they will wake up the next day and the outcome will have somehow changed.

i used to be confused about it to, but i have seen others do the shyt often enough and then turn into a puddle of sorrow weeks/months and sometimes even years later over close deaths. people process shyt in weird ass ways. did you know that its not uncommon for people to be extremely horny and want to have sex right after funerals? its weird as fukk but its just another way people cope.

humans are a mess