I’m having a hard time understanding how someone can lose a loved one and party the same day

[BigSteppa]

In ur ex defense not everyone is that close to their aunt

 

[Wildin]

That another reason why i dont with the club, you got people who need to handle their business correctly instead of drinking, drugging it up and ending up fighting and shooting the club up. You know how folks cant control themselves and shyt.

Yeah I hear you. I don't think someone would shoot up a club over a death. Usually the fights are someone finally stepping in like "Aight, it's time to stop drinking, I know you're hurt, we're all hurt....." or some petty insignificant shyt from like 12years ago.

 

[IslandG]

What I don’t understand is when women be posing in pics on Instagram of themselves in the funeral attire before their family/friend’s funeral. Almost like a fashion shoot.

 

[Dontay Flaco]

Shock/Denial?

 

[Cat piss martini]

we kick it like the irish after funerals.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

"I'm struggling to understand how somebody different from me deals with something in a different way that I do/would."

Exactly. After every funeral, my family goes out and unwinds, has some drinks, and dancing around, laughing, having a good time.

That’s how we get over that week or so of grief and crying and the worst part of it at the funeral. And for a few hours, get some release and a good moment. Before we all go back to home, alone, to grieve all over again