I'm having a serious issue!

[EnzoG]

I'm dating a chick(who's a preachers daughter btw) and when we started out dating everything was cool until she had a pregnancy scare from a guy( he has a kid from a prior relationship) she was with prior to me(they dated for 2 years) i'm not a big person for being friends with your ex but she is doing just this saying that's her best friend and she even lets the guy come over and sleep in the bed with her at night(which she's sees nothing wrong with) when he visits her it pisses me off to no end and when i tell her to cut the shyt out she insists i accuse her of fukking him....I told her a few months back to distance herself away from him and she wouldn't do it it just makes me that she does this shyt it just got to the point to where I hated that she brings the guy up and just reiterating the point that he's going to be in her life forever and the only reason why i feel like she reiterates this point is because he gets some lifetime badge of being there for her( her aunt died a few years back and he was there for but still) and i feel like its going to get worse because by today's standards being friends with your ex is just idk why she is having trouble about letting this guy be and just work on us because I'm close to blowing up and dropping the chick permanently because we took a break over the last two months over this shyt...

 

[ScoopNScore]

If she's not listening to you, then it's off to the bushes with her, especially if it's something significant like this.
If you don't leave her, then at least you know the guy you're sharing that girl with.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

I'm dating a chick(who's a preachers daughter btw) and when we started out dating everything was cool until she had a pregnancy scare from a guy( he has a kid from a prior relationship) she was with prior to me(they dated for 2 years) i'm not a big person for being friends with your ex but she is doing just this saying that's her best friend and she even lets the guy come over and sleep in the bed with her at night(which she's sees nothing wrong with) when he visits her it pisses me off to no end and when i tell her to cut the shyt out she insists i accuse her of fukking him....I told her a few months back to distance herself away from him and she wouldn't do it it just makes me that she does this shyt it just got to the point to where I hated that she brings the guy up and just reiterating the point that he's going to be in her life forever and the only reason why i feel like she reiterates this point is because he gets some lifetime badge of being there for her( her aunt died a few years back and he was there for but still) and i feel like its going to get worse because by today's standards being friends with your ex is just idk why she is having trouble about letting this guy be and just work on us because I'm close to blowing up and dropping the chick permanently because we took a break over the last two months over this shyt...

Lol@ close to blowing up


nikka you lost for even entertaining that shyt for over one minute

 

[EnzoG]

it's worse than that because last night she asked if i wanted know what happen with them while we weren't talking basically bringing up the same subject to start an arguement something we were doing alot which prompted me to break things off with her the first time i told i didn't care to know but she insisted on telling me saying they were drinking together(something she promised she wouldn't do while we were together) and let she let me him sleep in the bed with her and today i was talking to her on the phone while i was one break at work she brought up the whole sleeping in bed thing she told me she would still do it when he comes over to spend time with her ....

 

[-G$-]

 

[Turbulent]

she does it because you allow her. Your words forbid her but when she does it, the only thing that happens is that you get pissed and give her more attention. your actions actually reward her doing this. Why would she stop? what is her incentive to stop? matter of fact, she peeped how your actions are not consistent with your word and she simply lost respect for you. She's sleeping in the same bed as her ex who almost got her pregnant and y'all still together? THAT DON'T PLAGUE YOUR MIND??!?!

 

[ScoopNScore]

Everyone's a little too happy to have their hands near Barney's crotch. Sharing is Caring indeed

 

[Dak Pickscott]

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm dating a chick(who's a preachers daughter btw) and when we started out dating everything was cool until she had a pregnancy scare from a guy( he has a kid from a prior relationship) she was with prior to me(they dated for 2 years) i'm not a big person for being friends with your ex but she is doing just this saying that's her best friend and she even lets the guy come over and sleep in the bed with her at night

Stopped reading right here

 

[EnzoG]

she does it because you allow her. Your words forbid her but when she does it, the only thing that happens is that you get pissed and give her more attention. your actions actually reward her doing this. Why would she stop? what is her incentive to stop? matter of fact, she peeped how your actions are not consistent with your word and she simply lost respect for you. She's sleeping in the same bed as her ex who almost got her pregnant and y'all still together? THAT DON'T PLAGUE YOUR MIND??!?!

breh when that shyt went down i was lowkey breaking apart mentally to have a pregnancy waved in your face is not one of the best thing i've had to experience in life but even after the test came back negative i was still lowkey

 

[concise]

Idiot.

 

[no.]

OP, that girl is trying to get you to leave. She doesn't really want to be with you. She's still caught up in her ex and she is making that plenty clear.

There's NO OTHER LOGICAL REASON for her to describe how she let her ex-boyfriend sleep in her bed. She's not even attempting to go behind your back, that'd require a level of secrecy.

She's trying to get you to dump her without outright stating it, because she prefers her ex and makes no effort to hide it. Either she wants you to free her so she can get back with him...

...or she's trying to hurt you by saying those things just because she can. Just to see you squirm.

 

[Turbulent]

breh when that shyt went down i was lowkey breaking apart mentally to have a pregnancy waved in your face is not one of the best thing i've had to experience in life but even after the test came back negative i was still lowkey

breh when that shyt went down i was lowkey breaking apart mentally to have a pregnancy waved in your face is not one of the best thing i've had to experience in life but even after the test came back negative i was still lowkey

your chick doesn't respect you breh (let alone love you). see for a chick to love you she must respect you first. what's so great about her that you haven't already tossed her to the bushes? (and please don't say "because i love her and we've been through so much"). That chick is gone forever breh. once they go bad on you it's a wrap. i'm not even gonna get into whether or not share that chick cause frankly at this point, that shyt is irrelevant. seems to me like that bytch owns your soul. either take the power back by dismissing her from your life or forever be her bytch.

I can't even sugarcoat that shyt for you, it has to be said that way. I'm just trying to show you the large picture. your chick wasn't no keeper. she was just another lost skeezer!

 

[l3lackstarr]

Wait... she lets dude sleep over... in her bed? Bruh you have ONE option imo (because you didn't check her on that bs im assuming).. and that's to cut her off for good. Just take the L and keep it moving. She doesn't respect you man, if shes pulling some shyt like that...you need to bounce... but thats just my 2 cents

 

[Teal.]