I’m in an abusive relationship and need help

[The Realist Perspective]

Long story short, I’m tired of being with my girl. However how badly she would wreck my life would be astronomical. So I’m stuck in this hostage like situation. If I could break up with her and just MIB flash her I would. God I would.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

How much money you got?

 

[lepard]

You got kids with her?

 

[Mac Brown]

Abusive how?

 

[Devilinurear]

Long story short, I’m tired of being with my girl. However how badly she would wreck my life would be astronomical. So I’m stuck in this hostage like situation. If I could break up with her and just MIB flash her I would. God I would.

Sounds like you deserved it

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i hope you get whatever fake advice you are looking for OP but this place is no support group. if i was to post about how i help my actual friends when their spouse is treating them like shyt, they would shame me for "pillow talking" and give "it's not your place, they need to keep that between them "
then they wonder why domestic abuse and poor mental health is rampant

 

[The Realist Perspective]

How much money you got?

I do alright

 

[The Realist Perspective]

You got kids with her?

Negative

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Abusive how?

She’s drunk right now and will not shut up. I told her she has a drinking problem smh.

 

[True Blue Moon]

How is the relationship abusive breh

 

[The Realist Perspective]

i hope you get whatever fake advice you are looking for OP but this place is no support group. if i was to post about how i help my actual friends when their spouse is treating them like shyt, they would shame me for "pillow talking" and give "it's not your place, they need to keep that between them "
then they wonder why domestic abuse and poor mental health is rampant

What do you do?

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Tell the bytch you are bi-curious and you’re addicted to boys

 

[Mac Brown]

D

She’s drunk right now and will not shut up. I told her she has a drinking problem smh.

Drunk bytches have stank pussaaays. LEAVE

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

What do you do?

take them in if needed and lend an ear, sometimes refer them to legal help, just whatever i can do.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

So you're trapped for life huh?

Thought experiment.

If you woulda bushed her after the third time you had sex, would the fallout have been easy to deal with?

(Of course. She prolly didn't have enough dirt on you to WRECK your whole shyt at that time)

SOHH.. letting it go from then til now has resulted in the fallout being MUCH worse.

Okay. Letting it go for more months or years will make it

Harder

Or

Easier

To cut her off?

Harder. The answer is: it will be harder.

And it will be worse and worse the longer you let it go.

But you WILL have to do it at some point.