I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

[Gold]

Interesting @Gold

Do you think the cheating bothers you as much as the cavalier attitude about it? For example, would you feel as strongly about it if you found out through a third party versus the guy just doing it in your face like it was normal?

It was 100% the attitude. I know men cheat i'm not that dumb...

We each had our own room, our own bathroom, our own bed, our own bottles, our own weed, our own everything.

So when i see them fukking in the public area.. i'm like shyt.... ya'll want me to see i guess

 

[Wildhundreds]

And at the end of the day, we're all animals. I always question if human beings are meant to stay with 1 person like religion says. I'm not saying to cheat and fukk randoms, and I understand the importance of family, but deep down we all got that burning desire to spread our genes.

It is what it is

The problem is the liars.. You can fck as many women as you like.. As long as you're honest, you good.

Thats in the bible breh.. Concubines is a thing.

 

[jadillac]

Also bruh you fukked up telling your girl.

I didnt catch that part but yeah, him telling his girl could go bad.

Women often don't hold secrets like that. And if those dudes are his boys, then his wife likely knows their wives. And you know women get on their "girl power" thing and tell the wives what op told her, and then your boys will know it came from you.

I'm not judging though. OP is a cool poster.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It was domestic, but regardless like I said before... i thought we were just gonna kick it, get high, watch the game, play poker, go out, etc.

shyt u cant blame it all on me. They were saying the same shyt in teh group txt... talking about kayaking and hiking and shyt. Was a whole opp

Again, why would ya'll wanna do all that without your families? I don't blame you at all but that's usually why "guys trips" exist. It's like when men go Brazil because they "love to travel." We know what it is.

 

[Pyrexcup]

Wait op actually told his wife about this? I hope you are preparing a length statement from the backlash that will come women love gossip and are emotional this will come back to their wives intentionally or unintentionally and your marriage will most likely be caught in the crossfire too

 

[BigMan]

Is there a solution or way to prevent cheating ?

clearly everyone is capable of doing so?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Come on bruh, what you think was gonna happen on a guys trip. You thought yall were gonna just talk shyt, play spades, and drink Hennessey for a couple days? Next time you just stay home. Guys trips are 100% about fukkery.

Also bruh you fukked up telling your girl. You gotta just hold that to yourself. You think you did the right thing but now you cant hang out with them nikkas anymore because no matter how much you think your girl trusts you, NOW SHE DOESNT TRUST THEM AND SHE WILL LUMP YOU IN WITH THEM.

If he didn't tell her and she found out she will automatically think he is ob the same tip.

 

[Gold]

Again, why would ya'll wanna do all that without your families? I don't blame you at all but that's usually why "guys trips" exist. It's like when men go Brazil because they "love to travel." We know what it is.

You have to believe me when I tell you... my mind just doesn't work that way.
Everything you're saying is logical to me now.. but at the time I had zero expectation of what would go down.

So does girls trip mean 100% automatic everyone involved is fukking some random dudes?

If that's the case... aloooootta people I know been fukking around

 

[☃ ೋ]

I told my wife about it

Oh you fukked up, yo boys going know about this within a week now

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Again, why would ya'll wanna do all that without your families? I don't blame you at all but that's usually why "guys trips" exist. It's like when men go Brazil because they "love to travel." We know what it is.

frustrated black men going to brazil

 

[Pyrexcup]

I honestly hate guys like op who feel like they need to tell their girl everything

 

[Gold]

Oh you fukked up, yo boys going know about this within a week now

Nah no way. She aint close to their wives like that. I'm closer to their wives than she is.

 

[Fillerguy]

Im suprised nobody has spun this yet

 

[Gold]

I honestly hate guys like op who feel like they need to tell their girl everything

Nah not everything, but 99% of things yeah

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I honestly hate guys like op who feel like they need to tell their girl everything

thats his life partner though