I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

[BigMan]

To be fair, if someone wants to cheat they will cheat. Sometimes we worry about the big trips but she may be going two doors down cheating on you and coming back home.

You 100 % right

All you can do is be a good partner, spend a little bread, and make her cum
Hopefully that’s enough

 

[LordDeathwatch]

nikkas actually in here trying to justify this coward ass behavior.

 

[IAMDetroit]

Is this one of the friends

Lol

Do you
Don’t say nothing bout it.it never happened

Remember that

It aint your marriage so stay out of it. Why the fukk you worried about it if they aint? Stay in your line and let them do them. If it aint what you like to be around then bounce.

 

[MajesticLion]

Can’t tell if OP trolling or not

I thought there was. I think their wives thought there was.

I'm gonna be real with you. This is the part that's making me do some soul searching....

What is it about me that they thought I would be cool with this?

Do I give off the "I cheat too" type energy?


Maybe I need to do some reevaluating cuz they weren't even trying to hide that shyt from me at all. Damn near wanted me to join in

We would watch the playoffs, get high, drink, play poker, go out to the club, explore the city, iunno nikka

You have to believe me when I tell you... my mind just doesn't work that way.
Everything you're saying is logical to me now.. but at the time I had zero expectation of what would go down.

So does girls trip mean 100% automatic everyone involved is fukking some random dudes?

If that's the case... aloooootta people I know been fukking around

Since we've been married, no.
But before marriage she went to Brazil.
She told me everything, but nothing really happened. She went with her sisters and her sorority sisters

This was actually the first trip we've taken apart since we've been married.


However she is throwing her sister(biological) a bachorlette so we'll see in a few weeks

You almost had me.


The bolded!




"Is there a personality type..."?!?!!!



women on a trip together would somehow check each other




Went to Brazil with sisters and sorority sisters and nothing happened!







PRIME trolling all around, well played!

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Fair enough. So it has nothing to do with what you think would happen, but rather you would just rather travel with your husband if married?

I'm the same way, i always travel with my wife until this trip.

Now I see

Right. Plus I wouldn't want my husband to go on a guys trip and I would show him the same respect.

 

[IAMDetroit]

It aint your marriage so stay out of it. Why the fukk you worried about it if they aint? Stay in your line and let them do them. If it aint what you like to be around then bounce.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Since we've been married, no.
But before marriage she went to Brazil.
She told me everything, but nothing really happened. She went with her sisters and her sorority sisters

This was actually the first trip we've taken apart since we've been married.


However she is throwing her sister(biological) a bachorlette so we'll see in a few weeks

 

[Gold]

 

[Pazzy]

But yeah this topic does have me feeling a certain way because shyt aint right. Hell.... real talk, i dont even know why folks even sleeping around even still especially with covid out and all its forms. Its like a whole bunch of stupid, sucker shyt going on and if youre a person like myself thats just trying to live right, try to be at peace with yourself, and move on a higher plane and a higher sense of self, you literally cant do shyt because you by yourself because folks dont understand. Folks all peer pressured and doing what everybody else is doing. Its like dayum... folks LOVE drama or getting themselves into shyt in general.

Its shyt like this that makes me dislike people in general. I can respect anybody thats grimey or a scumbag that owns up to that shyt. Its weird how people used to admit being fukked up where it was like "as long as youre self aware" vs people doing fukked up shyt hiding it or trying to justify it on some "but they did it too".

And folks need to stop acting men like the OP or me dont exist. Not every man is fukking around or running knocking everyone down or is player or being sneaky despite what people say

 

[DEAD7]

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Is there a solution or way to prevent cheating ?

clearly everyone is capable of doing so?

I dunno. But to be honest, I really don’t care anymore. At the end of the day, you can’t live life with “what ifs”. Not saying people should be stupid but there are some bridges you just gotta cross when you come to them.
All you can do is vet carefully, always make sure you are in a good place and hope for the best. Ls always right around the corner but so are DOZENS of other beautiful experiences too.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

cant believe we got by @Gold

smh

 

[Thegospel]

But yeah this topic does have me feeling a certain way because shyt aint right. Hell.... real talk, i dont even know why folks even sleeping around even still especially with covid out and all its forms. Its like a whole bunch of stupid, sucker shyt going on and if youre a person like myself thats just trying to live right, try to be at peace with yourself, and move on a higher plane and a higher sense of self, you literally cant do shyt because you by yourself because folks dont understand. Folks all peer pressured and doing what everybody else is doing. Its like dayum... folks LOVE drama or getting themselves into shyt in general.

Its shyt like this that makes me dislike people in general. I can respect anybody thats grimey or a scumbag that owns up to that shyt. Its weird how people used to admit being fukked up where it was like "as long as youre self aware" vs people doing fukked up shyt hiding it or trying to justify it on some "but they did it too".

Are you religious?

 

[Bless't]

You almost had me.


The bolded!




"Is there a personality type..."?!?!!!



women on a trip together would somehow check each other




Went to Brazil with sisters and sorority sisters and nothing happened!







PRIME trolling all around, well played!

This is what I think too. Plat thread though.

And when he makes a thread about the bachelorette party... another plat.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Im not advocating cheating but honestly to a lot of dudes they have rest relationships with their wives, they build together, communicate well, have great intimacy at times & genuinely enjoy living their lives together. With all that being said, some men just want some strange from time to time

That strange strange.



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