SheWantTheD
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men cheat more. Around 25% of married men cheat on their wives
But but but but but women always file for divorce
I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB
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Don’t be jaded! I’m critical of issues with marriage all the time, but I still think good marriages are the pinnacle of healthy human relationships.I hope none of my boys post/lurk here.
I just did a guys trip for 4th of July weekend with 2 other married dudes and 1 guy who isn't married (so i'm not judging him).
These are brehs who I respect, and I'm close to their wives and I've been around their children.
Before the end of the first night they were deep in some sloppy Mexican p*ssy
And that's how it was all weekend.
I felt like I was the only breh there who remembered that I have a wife. And shyt they got kids too, i dont even have kids.
I feel extremely disappointed tbh... does anyone remain faithful?
My dude asked me to come over watch and the Finals game with him and his fam... I cant even face his wife (and daughter) and i'm not the one married to her.
This is why i'm so anti-marriage. Why the fukk would you get married if you just gonna cheat? This goes for men and women. Just stay single.
I just think people need to be more honest about what they think respect, love, loyalty and commitment are. A lotta cheating starts with culture and one’s mentality. If you already in a mindframe that you are more important than your family or partner, it’s already a set up for failure. If you don’t think they are as important as you or their feelings don’t matter as much as yours…
All of this is a type of compartmentalization. And it’s all just mental masturbation to excuse selfishness. Once people stop lying to themselves thinking they can still love, respect, do right by people while lying and treating them badly, a lot of this shyt would cease and desist.
NaijaProdigy Redux
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I’ve been on enough party vacations to say that married women are equally out of pocket.
shyt will have you jaded as hell
shyt will have you jaded as hell
Don't vacation with these dudes again. Their wives probably assumed you'd all keep each other in check.
EDIT: Your presence is an implicit cosign. You don't want this to come out and everyone mad at you too (or worse assuming you were doing the same thing)
EDIT: Your presence is an implicit cosign. You don't want this to come out and everyone mad at you too (or worse assuming you were doing the same thing)
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Steel
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This OP is sensitive and weird. If you dont rock with your boys morally you can always block them and find new friends.
OP should snitch honestly
and tell us how it goes.I personally believe humans aren't meant to be monogamous. Both men and women its not natural and is a forced state due to religion.
100If a nikka will slime his wife out, imagine what he'll do to you.
MajesticLion
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Disillusionment usually happens after long periods of lying to yourself. 
As a married woman for over a decade, don’t let these type of friends around your wife alone. If they don’t respect their wives, they damn sure don’t respect you and your wife.
I’m surprised you didn’t get your payback from your wife busting it open to some dude name Trevor
. Joking. May your marriage be blessed.
I’m surprised you didn’t get your payback from your wife busting it open to some dude name Trevor
. Joking. May your marriage be blessed.
If a nikka will slime his wife out, imagine what he'll do to you.
100% agreed. I told my wife about it and she said this is the kind of secret that men kill over.
I honestly do not. These women might commit that if they found out these dudes were cheating
Deep_Black_Conscious
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OP this is one of the reasons why I don't believe in getting married right nowI hope none of my boys post/lurk here.
I just did a guys trip for 4th of July weekend with 2 other married dudes and 1 guy who isn't married (so i'm not judging him).
These are brehs who I respect, and I'm close to their wives and I've been around their children.
Before the end of the first night they were deep in some sloppy Mexican p*ssy
And that's how it was all weekend.
I felt like I was the only breh there who remembered that I have a wife. And shyt they got kids too, i dont even have kids.
I feel extremely disappointed tbh... does anyone remain faithful?
My dude asked me to come over watch and the Finals game with him and his fam... I cant even face his wife (and daughter) and i'm not the one married to her.
This is why i'm so anti-marriage. Why the fukk would you get married if you just gonna cheat? This goes for men and women. Just stay single.
People get married for convenience
To have the wife or husband (if you're a women) and kids
Then once the boredom kicks in the cheating begins and what you don't know won't hurt you
In other words, it is a matter of time thing IMO
I am staying out of it.
That's why i'm not talking to them about it, or going to their house to watch the game.
Unless you think me making a coli thread = me getting involved.
This is an internet forum breh
What's the point of this aggressive ass post
Op aint say shyt about snitching or telling the dudes what to do
I swear yall just log on just to unleash anger
This is the male equivalent of a female inviting her friend to accompany her to do some hoodrat shyt like flatten her baby daddy tires or beat up his new girlfriend. Your boys are involving you in shyt you won't want to be a part of when it all comes to light. You want to look the other way but once you witness it, YOU'RE INVOLVED, that's what you are! /Mason Verger
This OP is sensitive and weird. If you dont rock with your boys morally you can always block them and find new friends.
OP should snitch honestly
I personally believe humans aren't meant to be monogamous. Both men and women its not natural and is a forced state due to religion.
I mean this is basically what i'm saying.
I'm not snitching cuz its not my bedroom or my marriage.