I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

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I'm gonna be real with you. This is the part that's making me do some soul searching....

What is it about me that they thought I would be cool with this?

Do I give off the "I cheat too" type energy?


Maybe I need to do some reevaluating cuz they weren't even trying to hide that shyt from me at all. Damn near wanted me to join in
Probably just figured all married men do it
 

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Yeah, shyt is sad when you respect a nikka his wife cool and he still cheating. I remember when my brother tried to bring a bytch to sleepover at our mom's house while he was married (still is) my mom was not the type of mother who would help you cheat on your spouse so that nikka had to go elsewhere.

I think that's why I am anti marriage not because I've seen relationships fail but so many bad ones persist.

Damn breh... I would never see my bro the same after that.
 
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No type of code whatsoever. I know i'm in the minority but they should never fukk with you like that. You willing to put this on here aint no telling what's next.

Your friends marriage is just that, their marriage aint yours. You want to have the convo just have it with them. Dont spill your heart out on here....


Exactly. Sounds like the OP was the only one who didn’t know what was going to happen on an all guys trip to Mexico :skip:

Blabbing to his wife about it, but says he won’t say shyt to his “boys” about it. Smh. @Gold venting to the Coli and your wife ain’t it. If those truly are your friends, you need to tell them your feelings on the matter so they know to never include you in these activities again.
 

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You know something. A lot of people are lucky they even have someone giving them the time of day, a date, a partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or whatever because they dont deserve it. Im tired of seeing and hearing spoiled rotten, ungrateful, entitled, delusional, fukked up people getting into shyt like relationships, marriage, sex and ruining that shyt while theres people out here that struggling to even get the time of day or a date. Thats why i look at a lot of these folks as weak ass people who need to shut the fukk up and be happy. Same fukk ups thinking theyre whatever.
 
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If this ever comes to light they will take you down with them :mjgrin:

I mentioned this a few years ago because it was a national story that happened here in Irving/Dallas area.

Once of my Wifes coworkers, married, 2 children was cheating heavy heavy. One of his coworkers outed him and then he was getting blackmailed by the cheaters.

He killed them all in broad daylight at work. :damn:


My friends aint the violent type, but I 100% believe they would do everything in their power to ensure that it doesn't come to light
 

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Exactly. Sounds like the OP was the only one who didn’t know what was going to happen on an all guys trip to Mexico :skip:

Blabbing to his wife about it, but says he won’t say shyt to his “boys” about it. Smh. @Gold venting to the Coli and your wife ain’t it. If those truly are your friends, you need to tell them your feelings on the matter so they know to never include you in these activities again.

Wasn't mexico btw, I wont say where.

I already told one of them. Was a weird convo and we haven't talked since (only been 2 days tho). I let him know that his secret is safe for me, but I dont wanna be involved. He kept trying to excuse it saying a bunch of nonsense but I just let him know he doesn't have to explain himself to me. I just dont wanna be around that shyt
 

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Damn breh... I would never see my bro the same after that.
Yeah, that's the thing. When you idolize and view their situation as ideal and they don't tell you their marriage is flawed and they cheat. They spring that shyt on you and now you're in on the secret. His wife knows he has cheated on her and they were close to getting divorced but I guess they solved their problems. These days they regularly take vacations together and flex for the gram.
 

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Man i've been to Church with these dudes.
Been to a Gender reveal, held one of their daughters in my arms.

I'm not trolling or anything when I say this... this really fukked me up. I didn't think I would care this much... but I do.

Its almost like seeing my brother cheat on his wife or something.

I hear you, but you can never know or understand what's going on in someone's marriage.

That doesn't mean they should break their vows, but some people aee unfulfilled sexually or emotionally or feel neglected bc maybe their wife has changed after marriage.
 
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