"I'm Loving This New Selfish Style Of Manhood...We Only Worry About OURSELVES...I Don't Want the Stress Of Being A Father, Husband, Leader , Provider"

[Shadow King]

So lemme check, men want women who are submissive, cook, clean and know their place but don't want to *checks notes* lead

Or men recognize that women won't do any of those things and have chosen to stop trying to "lead"

 

[mag357]

I'm sure if an attractive humble girl came up and was interested in him and wanted to start a life together he wouldn't be like nah I'm good. As long as you are a heterosexual male you can keep acting like you don't care but deep down you do.

Oh really

 

[mag357]

The central element of manhood has always been about being able to survive. Reproduction is just a cornerstone of continued existence, not manhood.

A man survives, defines his environment, and shapes the way in which he wants to live in his environment. If he wants to be alone, that's his prerogative, and if he wants a family, that too is his decision, but those decisions are based on his will, not anyone else's perceptions or ideals.

You aren't a man if you cannot survive on your own or define your life's mission. If a man lives by the ideals of others because, "that is what they said a man is", he is not a man, rather still a boy.

And, if you live in a society where the population of people are not worth a damn, you trying to lead them because "I do hard things" is not wise or smart.
You are operating against nature at that point and will likely suffer more than you need to in life. Those people are likely dead once the lights, 9-1-1, and clean water stop running. You are leading a bunch of defiant carcasses essentially and trying to drag them along with you while minimizing your potential when you should be maximizing your potential as a man.

But most folk will learn at the end of their lives when looking back and realizing they wasted it on a bunch of worthless and ungrateful people.




There is little to fight for because men have decided to forgo thinking about their futures and go along with the demands of others.

Just look at the first few replies in this thread, that should tell you something. Adult males think that "doing the hard thing..." is what makes you a man. That is ludicrous and shows why society is crumbling.

You work on challenging things because they are worth working on, not out of some harebrained idea of it being good because it's a hard task.

So many unexamined lives and opinions in this thread.

You are a King, my good brother

 

[The ADD]

Oh really

 

[the bossman]

I aint saying i disagree, and u are correct. But at the same time there are exceptions to that and society is not doing itself any favors imo by trying to pressure or force it. Some folks really are just better off flying solo dolo for their own good just as much as everybody else's.

We are indeed social creatures but we should all strive to be comfortable in our own skin and love ourselves enough to feel satisfied in our own company. just my opinion.

this is what balance is all about. it never has to be one or the other

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I aint saying i disagree, and u are correct. But at the same time there are exceptions to that and society is not doing itself any favors imo by trying to pressure or force it. Some folks really are just better off flying solo dolo for their own good just as much as everybody else's.

We are indeed social creatures but we should all strive to be comfortable in our own skin and love ourselves enough to feel satisfied in our own company. just my opinion.

Don’t disagree with anything here.

But women( and men now apparently) that like to brag about how happy and alone they are, are usually coping with the fact that they don’t/can’t have a companion right now.

Everyone should make sure they are happy in their own skin.

Human nature wants us to share that.

 

[invalid]

Ehh

Try to

I stopped reading here lol

You don’t need a wife and kids to be responsible for family. I’m an only child and my mother has a dementia like condition. If something happens to my dad it’s highly likely I’ll have to spend a significant amount of time and resources caring for her. Plenty of ways to hold it down in a non traditional sense. I see nothing wrong with black men today eschewing fatherhood (responsibly, via vasectomies and condom use), especially given how bleak the next 5-15 years look.

"beholden to others" doesn't just mean a wife and kids. it could mean family, it could mean your tribe, of which I expounded on in another post.

the OP sounds like he doesn't want any responsibility or to be obliged to anything.
and my point was, that's not the type of life that develops the highest character in a man.

 

[Da King]

Single losers

 

[Scaaar]

This. I purposely do the hard thing to prove to myself that I can do it. That's part of what being a man is about.

Dudes is weak nowadays. Stay in your sons lives brehs, cause if you don't, this is the outcome.

Facts! Definitely too much whining about the realities of life and dating from men instead of doing the work. Society and their upbringing has coddled them to think that stuff is supposed to be just handed to them. All brehs gotta do is get some confidence in themselves and stand on their square the right women will fall in line the others will fall to the wayside but you have to be okay with that.

 

[shutterguy]

Literally one of the funniest cats on social media.

 

[Scaaar]

Most these men is watching 5 hour youtubes,playing call of Duty or building a franchise on Madden. Lets not oversell this commitment to goals and excellence. Alot of these mens problem is that they are narcissist. I thought this word was overused,but I believe its just misused and not enough people are called narcissist. Its just been normalized in this society. Not saying women arent too btw,but it starts with men

Definitely. A lot of the brehs on this wave are the same ones I see making these red pill brehs money. Instead of working on themselves they spend hrs of their free time on these livestreams listening to other men complain Abt women and why life isn't fair. Just save them coins that you're throwing in the echo chamber and use em to work on your shortcomings. It's literally the only issue that men have a direct control over. But they refuse to do that and would rather complain like the very women they strive to get with

 

[shutterguy]

This new age of people is so bizarre. Everyone is quick to label themselves something.

This isn't a new concept. In the age of marketing it's just people rushing to label it something so they can turn it into a hash tag and cash out making videos about it.

There have always been men who said "nah I'm just going to do my own thing" it's not new. It's just that people want to talk about it and make money off YouTube videos and "social media engagement". Not everyone wants or should be in a relationship. Being married or having a girlfriend doesn't magically make your problems go away and as anyone who has been in more than one relationship will tell you, another person can just make what you're going through worse. Life isn't a TV show. You're not the main character, and there are multiple ways of living and being happy.

This........

Folks can't be content, never before have we seen people with the need to stand out and attention whore themselves. We got pronoun gang, alphabet gang, gender fluid gang, binary gang, etc......... shyt is downright ridiculous. It's gotten to the point where if I see a female with a "they/her/them" in they bio, move right on past.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Sounds like he's just tired of dealing with annoying needy women. I feel him. I love my girl but Jesus Christ.. there is always something wrong or something that needs to be done or something that scares her or... god damn.

So much of a man's energy goes into coddling women because women are fukking annoying. Blessed be the man who finds peace.

THIS