"I'm making him wait because he's SPECIAL!"

[MikelArteta]

There are women out there that have men for multiple occasions. They have a man for sex, a man to take em out on dates, and a man to pay their bills if need be. It's just part of the game out here nowadays.

People are gonna do what they're gonna do. You have no control over that. Why worry so much about it, unless you messing with people like that.

the gaqd kevm3

They stay playing roles for different dudes. You sit down with the freak of the neighborhood and get to talking it up with her and you'll start thinking she's mad cool and she'll have you believing, "Man they were wrong about her. They don't know about this GEM I have right here. They are just jealous because she's not giving them any play." .

When it comes down to it, most modern women got two categories they will put men in that they actually deal with. He can be that raw guy or he can be that romantic guy. The raw guy is the one who can stop in whenever, and she'll do whatever with him... she'll make time for him, but it ain't really no relationship. He doesn't have to spend a dime or even much time with her. On the other hand, she will have the romantic negro, the one who she will play prim and proper with and act like she doesn't do this or that with. He'll be the one taking her to dinner and listening to all her problems. She'll be friendly and cordial with him, but she won't be available for him on the weekends and will randomly be busy at unpredictable times. When he asks what she's doing, it'll always be how busy she was or how something came up... and that was because she was chilling with that the other guy that came raw with it or at least with her girls looking for that dude. She might tell you, "I want to take it slow... I don't want my heart broke and I just want a man I can love" to the romantic dude, but then you'll see her post random statuses on facebook talking about "ugh worst day ever... never make someone a priority when you're only an option" in reference to that dude that comes through but is smart enough not to lock her down.

Some women are always searching for an upgrade... and on another hand they are always searching for new men, not necessarily to upgrade, but to round out their team. They may have found their goalie, but now they are looking for their defenseman.

For example, she will feel lonely, feel like cuddling, and need of affection, so she'll search for one guy to handle that and keep him in that role. When she has that and feel he's secured, she'll still be with him, but then search for some side guys for thrills, aka the additional excitement of a new and unpredictable man.

In essence, she'll seek security from one man and give him affection, nice compliments, utter words of "love" etc., every now and then to keep him for emotional and physical security, but she'll have a completely different dude in which she'll show a completely different, nasty side to.

A lot of women she will have two sides she will display with a man... Miss Sweet and Miss Freak. One for the dude she wants to cuddle with and then another for the dude she knows she can't draw into a relationship, but will knock her socks of between the sheets. .

 

[J-Nice]

And there are men with women they have sex with and the one they consider their main chick. Such is life...no one wants to be someone else's sucka

I never denied that. I was staying true to the thread topic. People get used and they also do the using.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

He may be bullshytting, but the premise of the story is very plausible. This wouldn't be the first time i've heard of women holding out on a guy because she feels she wants a real relationship with him. & Some coworkers really do tell all their personal business. One of my coworkers told me all about her kids & their relationships, & her husband and ex husband, and all her family issues all from a small internship.

The OP's premise is not that a girl told him she's holding out on sex because she sees potential in a relationship, and she doesnt want to ruin it by having sex with him too early. The OP's premise is that this girl is stringing "a nice guy" along that she has no true interest in, and also fukkin "bad boys" on the side. Again, she's telling all this to a co-worker.

If you want to believe all that, thats on you. Seems awfully contrived to me, especially when you consider the agenda of the OP.

 

[Yup]

The OP's premise is not that a girl told him she's holding out on sex because she sees potential in a relationship, and she doesnt want to ruin it by having sex with him too early. The OP's premise is that this girl is stringing "a nice guy" along that she has no true interest in, and also fukkin "bad boys" on the side. Again, she's telling all this to a co-worker.

If you want to believe all that, thats on you. Seems awfully contrived to me, especially when you consider the agenda of the OP.

Right read between the lines. Some women are ruthless, I can admit that but let's not victimize men as if they ain't.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Right read between the lines. Some women are ruthless, I can admit that but let's not victimize men as if they ain't.

I did "read between the lines"...thats the problem, the story doesnt make any sense. You cant "read between the lines", with the OP's bitter rant about women and "feminists" at the end of his "story"? Why didnt the OP direct all this venom he has towards this "co-worker" of his (he conveniently leaves out what, if anything, he said to her)? OP's whole schtick is this type of extremist anti-woman subject matter, so if you believe this oh so convenient story then I got a brooklyn bridge to sell you.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

@Zapp Brannigan

That's not what this post is about. This post is about someone misleading someone about where a relationship is and where it's going. It's about women making these supposed "great guys" wait and work for something that they let supposed losers and bad boys get for free. If you wanna bang around, do your thing, but making the "great guy" work for it makes women look stupid and guys deserve to know if this is going on so they can smash out of that relationship.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I did "read between the lines"...thats the problem, the story doesnt make any sense. You cant "read between the lines", with the OP's bitter rant about women and "feminists" at the end of his "story"? Why didnt the OP direct all this venom he has towards this "co-worker" of his (he conveniently leaves out what, if anything, he said to her)? OP's whole schtick is this type of extremist anti-woman subject matter, so if you believe this oh so convenient story then I got a brooklyn bridge to sell you.

Do you have an actual reply to this or what I had to say in the OP or are you just going to play victim some more again?

You "realize" that putting words in "quotation marks" doesn't make the "story" I posted any less "true," right?

 

[MikelArteta]

i hate to bring up my past but i sort of was in this situation before,, this girl wanted me to wait 3 months before being intimate , "because she was hurt in the past". I was a simp back then so i waited, anyways after we broke up i heard through the grapevine she was bar hopping and going home with cacs that same night.

So I the sucker nice guy schmuck had to wait 3 friggin months of probation to get anything, yet tyler brad and mark at the bar got in them guts the same night , "when she was hurt in the past" = nikkaz in them goods right away then not picking up their phone and her feeling like a smut

 

[Arishok]

I don't see the problem with having one night stand with some guys and making other guys wait if that's your prerogative, but doing both at the same time? That's foul.

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't see the problem with having one night stand with some guys and making other guys wait if that's your prerogative, but doing both at the same time? That's foul.

why should one guy pay for teh sins of others?
if you spread those legs spread em for everyone, if you keep em close keep em close for everyone

 

[Arishok]

why should one guy pay for teh sins of others?
if you spread those legs spread em for everyone, if you keep em close keep em close for everyone

The same reason you used to be a simp but now you're not anymore

 

[Ronnie Lott]

That's not what this post is about. This post is about someone misleading someone about where a relationship is and where it's going. It's about women making these supposed "great guys" wait and work for something that they let supposed losers and bad boys get for free. If you wanna bang around, do your thing, but making the "great guy" work for it makes women look stupid and guys deserve to know if this is going on so they can smash out of that relationship.

Sounds like a lot of emotion coming out of your post. If a woman is "making you wait" then your game isn't that tight in the first place. So stop blaming the female. I've met chicks that told me they don't have sex without bein in a relationship or that they don't fukk on the first date.

But please believe I was diggin that bytch out a lot sooner than what they said at first. Basically you are running to the defense of the simps who let females call the shots

If a chick refers to you as a "gentleman" or a "nice guy" chances are that she doesn't fully respect you and views you as a simp

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Sounds like a lot of emotion coming out of your post. If a woman is "making you wait" then your game isn't that tight in the first place. So stop blaming the female. I've met chicks that told me they don't have sex without bein in a relationship or that they don't fukk on the first date.

But please believe I was diggin that bytch out a lot sooner than what they said at first. Basically you are running to the defense of the simps who let females call the shots

If a chick refers to you as a "gentleman" or a "nice guy" chances are that she doesn't fully respect you and views you as a simp

Well, arguing with stupid people on the internet will grind your gears for a bit. People (like you, apparently) aren't reading the OP and completely missing important details and the center point. As for me, I won't stick around for long if sex isn't going to be involved because I'm going to a) assume she's banging other guys anyway, and b) adult relationships need sex.

Whose defense am I running to? I guess you might be able to make that case based on the idea that I think that guys deserve to know if this is happening to them so they can leave, but I don't think that's completely out of line.

 

[Yup]

The same reason you used to be a simp but now you're not anymore

 

[Jone2three45]

This is the type of story that will make any human being bitter.

That being said....